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anonymous
writes:This week my friend/crush has actually acted like he cares about me. I failed something and he said he was sorry. He even texted me more than usual this week I don’t know why he would. Today I’m hanging out over my friends and his cousin (my best friend) is going so I told him that he was invited but he never seems like he wants to hangout with me. I always invite him to hangout with us and his brother always loves hanging out with me. His brother ends up coming but not him. I just wish that he would come sometimes but I can’t force him. He always makes it sound as if the thing were doing is lame and he laughs. Yesterday he showed a lot of signs that he liked me. He was staring, he tried to make me laugh, I make him laugh all the time, he said that he liked the way I start a conversation, he laughs every time I say something random. I really have a great time talking to him and think if we did hangout than we would be closer and I could tell how he feels about me. It seems like we are great friends when were together but if we talk outside of school he doesn’t talk to me much. How can I get him to hangout with me without pushing him into it? His cousin (my best friend) is having a graduation party pretty soon and I will probably see him there. I’m also going to invite him to my graduation party. Once I asked my friend if she could ask him online if he likes me but he never responded. His cousin whose also my best friend says that he needs some time to think it through that’s why he didn’t respond. I think he’s having trouble interpreting his feelings for me. But I have this feeling that there is something there. That’s why I haven’t given up on him plus I already told him how I feel. I’ve given him a gift, hugged him, sprayed him with perfume, had glitter on him, through a random object on him but haven’t kissed him yet. He never gets mad at me ever! He just smiles or laughs all the time when I’m with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Guys Great Answers!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2010): Awww, sounds like you have a big crush and we've all been there. One day soon you'll meet a boy who really likes you and you'll forget about this one. I know it's hard but you'll get over it and one day you'll look back and laugh and wonder what you ever saw in him!
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reader, Yarou  +, writes (20 March 2010):
 Well like your best friend said he needs some time, dont push it too far, dont get close to him a lot he might be annoyed sooner or later, who knows, try to talk to him normally but dont push it, not too much physical contact, but you can make him more into you if you can accept him like he is, let him be confortable around you, let him think that he can do anything ok?i wish u luck
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