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writes:well its a long story lol.. i met this guy, lives kinda far but thats not the problem.. he stayed overnight at my house an we partied had fun but after he went back home he never spoke to me again.. he told my friend he hates me.. an that im gross.. it hurt cause i have strong feelings for him, he was the only boy who i could talk to an be my total self with.. i dont know what happened.. ive tried to move on but its going on three months an i still miss him an tend to cry when i even think about it.. now its not like i want some big romance. truthfully i want the guy who was my friend.. ive sent him facebook messages an called his house.. nothing.. every time someone brings me up he stops talking.. what did i do? i mean come on i would give this guy the whole freaking world, what else does he want in a friend? oh an on top of all this mess theres a rumor saying that my old best friend slept with him or at least did shit with him, she tells me she didnt an because i doubted her were now fighting an she thinks i started the rumor.. i didnt but it was just the way she was ALL OVER HIM that makes me doubt her, i dont care if she wants to be my friend or not i want him to be my friend again, i mean like hes one of the few certain amazing friends i have an everyone else just seems like extra baggage.. i would do anything to get him back in my life even just stay friends an hide away my true feelings, i really care for him an all i want is for him to be my friend an be there for me again.. i miss him,, HELP!?!
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reader, Demondoll  +, writes (8 March 2010):
Sweetie, he isnt worth being friends with. Any guy who would stay the night at your house then turn around and act shady is just looking for drama. I have had guy friends that have done this and went around saying i slept with them when we both knew better. If i were you i would find a guy who is respectful and truely interested in you. And as for friends, a true friend would not stab you in the back nor treat you like that. You will know who your real friends are. It will be hard but you will move on and meet someone better and who will rock your world. Be patient. :-)
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reader, Yarou  +, writes (8 March 2010):
 Ok...
now look at what you should do.
just try to remember what happened at the party that time.
and if you know where he lives just try to go at his house and talk to him i dont think he wouldnt accept the fact that you went a long way just to be his friend again.
and try to talk to his best friends maybe they know something about the story.
i wish you luck :)) xo
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (8 March 2010):
 What you have to do is move on and find another guy who appreciates you for who you are.
This guy is either gay or doesnt like you.
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