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writes:There's a guy in the USAF who have been friend of mine for 3 years now. We have always been keeping in touch since we met in person. He had said he enjoys our friendship and communications and that it's good when he hears from me.Well, he's in Iraq right now, We are friends in Face book, Skype, Myspace. At the beginning, he used to connect on Face book and we used to chat in there, he even suggested we used Skype. I then agreed and posted a note on Skype, but for my surprised he said he was having a crazy schedule so we should catch up on Face book. Now, when I enter Face book he doesn't post notes and instead of being able to chat, I know he place himself offline (I know that b/c I've seen him having activity adding people and making fan of pages while I'm ON). He had gave me his working address for me to email. I really don't know if to continue this, since I kinda feel he's avoiding me. I don't know if to confront him about it, contact him once a year until it fades off or just cut it off. I feel deeply disappointed. I really like him. Please help me with some advice!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (13 March 2010):
 It seems like yours is a one way street . If there is no corresponding push from the other side,it means that he is not anymore interested to continue with you .
It would be better to be pursued than to pursue him. If he is not interested, your relationship will fizzle out naturally.
Let go and move on.
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reader, Auntie E  +, writes (13 March 2010):
 Why "confront" this guy? If he is on FB he can see that you on online as well. Apparently he no longer feels the same way you feel about him. Don't waste any more of your time on him. It also sounds to me like you may be in love with him but the feelings are not mutual. Bow out of this petered out relationship while you still have some dignity.
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reader, Yarou  +, writes (13 March 2010):
 Well maybe he does have a crazy schedule .
And who knows, maybe hes not avoiding you maybe someone else.
Yeah dont talk to him im sure he will miss you.
try to avoid him like he does. if he asks u why ur avoiding him tell him that u were busy good luck xx
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