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30 July 2008: Lately iv been having a discussion/debate with a woman on here about religion, she's a muslim and im not really anything, more of an athiest with a hint of scientologist id say, and as you could imagine our opinions on religion are at complete ...
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Should I try to find him or just try to forget about how much I love him?
Q. I'm in love with a guy even though I haven't seen him in a year, we were at school together and since we went off to different colleges I haven't spoken to him but I can't get him off my mind, how could I find him? Should I try to find him or just ...
A. 6 March 2009: Go for it, try and find him if you wanna? You've got nothing to lose afterall :D a good place to start is social networks, myspace, facebook, bebo ect. You could also ask around other people who you used to go to school with, who know/knew him, if ... (read in full...)
Weird to think sex is yuk?
Q. This will sound really stupid, so if you ant to answer more important questions first like teen pregnancy ones go ahead. I am 13. I had my first kiss at 12. I have not done anything with a boy past a short make out session. I have friends that have ...
A. 6 March 2009: You know when your younger, you think all boys are disgusting and they've got the lurgie and whatever else? And then when you get older you're suddenly attracted to the lads and you really want a boyfriend ect. ect. thinking that sex is gross is ... (read in full...)
I am 16, going to have sex for the first time, how can we make it special?
Q. I'm 16. My boyfriend is 18. We've been dating for almost a year now and we had a long talk and I decided that I was ready to give up my virginity to him. He's done it before and I want it to be special for the both of us. Does anyone have any ...
A. 4 March 2009: It really doesn't matter where you do it, its not gonna partiactularly make it anymore special, you just gotta set the scene, like something you'd expect from a movie, and really just feel the connection, feel the love, thats what makes it special, ... (read in full...)
How do I get my boyfriend to open up?
Q. When my boyfriend gets mad he blows things out of proportion and gets angry and runs away and hides. Instead of communicating and talking about it he runs and says he cant take this. If things dont go his way he gets mad. To me he is being very ...
A. 3 March 2009: I'd say a good place to start is to promise no matter what the other person says dont interrupt one another or fly off the handle, make a deal to stay calm and talk like adults or you're never going to get it sorted out, then just basically tell him ... (read in full...)
Should my boyfriend and I keep our baby or give it up for adoption?
Q. Should my boyfriend and I keep our baby or give it up for adoption? I am 15 years old and pregnant by my 16 year old boyfriend. Both of our parents know and want us to decide on what to do with the baby when it's born. At first, my boyfrien...
A. 1 March 2009: And you know what, dont listen to the other people who are suggesting adoption, or whatever, as I said its solely down to you and your fella. People have mentioned financial difficulties and what if you break up, hey, the same things happen to ... (read in full...)
Should my boyfriend and I keep our baby or give it up for adoption?
Q. Should my boyfriend and I keep our baby or give it up for adoption? I am 15 years old and pregnant by my 16 year old boyfriend. Both of our parents know and want us to decide on what to do with the baby when it's born. At first, my boyfrien...
A. 1 March 2009: Seriously, there's no point in asking on here whether you should keep your baby or not, it's not a decision that should be made by anyone except yourself and your boyfriend, so really think about it and talk every single little thing over with your ... (read in full...)
How do I explain to my friend's nieces that she killed herself?
Q. My best friend of 5 years committed suicide 2 weeks ago. I understand why she did it, she had alot of trouble in her life, and was in every sense of the word an orphan. The only family she had left was her nieces, who were put into foster care ...
A. 28 February 2009: Oh gawd, i'm really really sorry for your loss, reading this has actually bought tears to my eyes, I cant begin to imagine how your feeling. One of my dads best friends committed suicided due to his relationship falling apart, leaving behind a wife ... (read in full...)
Should I ask him or just leave it...?
Q. I've known this guy for around a year, he randomly added me one night on msn soo we got chatting and it turned out that he lived pretty close to me, in the same city/town. i never trusted people online, with all the stories you hear and stuff, but ...
A. 28 February 2009: Do it do it dooo it!! Ask to meet up again :) I think he's just waiting for you to ask to meet again so he can have a clear go ahead from you, if that makes sense?? Good luck and have fun :D x... (read in full...)
Why do some girls want to become porn stars?
Q. why do some girls want to be porn stars .why can't they get office jobs?...
A. 27 February 2009: May as well get a job doing something you enjoy huh? Lol ... (read in full...)
Coping with age and accepting getting old and being single...
Q. Is being 32 old to some who are 30 years old? I am turning 30 next year, I feel old in comparison to someone who is 28 years old. I am scared of turing 30 because I never had a boyfriend and never had my first off a guy a really like. I am depr...
A. 27 February 2009: Your not old at all, your in your prime girl! After all, you're only as young as you feel :) you know the saying, good things come to those who wait? Well, maybe its just that your good thing is well on its way :) ... (read in full...)
After two weeks of texts I said we should meet up- she gave no reply. Did I scare her off?
Q. met this girl at uni last week. She's great. Had an hour long chat. Exchanged numbers etc. She text me next day, than day after. I replied. Just general stuff. Than few days later she rang to see how i was. Than i rang few days later and she was ...
A. 25 February 2009: It really doesn't sound like you've done anything at all wrong here, maybe she's just ran out of credit, if she's not on contract that is, or maybe she's just been a busy bee? Text her and ask her how she is without no mention of meeting, if she ... (read in full...)
I feel like we will drift apart
Q. Hi I have been in a long distance relationship for almost two and a half years. My boyfriend did most of the travelling as I do not drive, and I occasionally stayed at his on weekends (around once every couple of months) getting there by train. ...
A. 25 February 2009: Hey :) i'm pretty much a master at long distance relationships, i've had several, lol ok so since he's stated that he's not ready to live with anyone, that's obviously not an option, but have you considered moving to the same town or a town near by? ... (read in full...)
I keep having dreams that my boyfriend is cheating on me...
Q. I always have dreams that my boyfriend is cheating on me. I do not see any signs that he is and I don't think he is but what do you think this means... about once or twice a month... I have dreams that he is with someone else....
A. 25 February 2009: .... Just to close the whole some people have dreams of whats going to happen thing, this is very very rare and is pretty much considered a psychic ability. ... (read in full...)
I keep having dreams that my boyfriend is cheating on me...
Q. I always have dreams that my boyfriend is cheating on me. I do not see any signs that he is and I don't think he is but what do you think this means... about once or twice a month... I have dreams that he is with someone else....
A. 25 February 2009: Ooh a dreams question, i'v always been quite interested in dreams, so getting to the point, dreams are funny things, some people have dreams about things that are happening/going to happen, others and a majority of the time dreams have hidden ... (read in full...)
How can I kiss him and make it look real?
Q. I have never kissed a guy and I am 13. My school is preforming a play and I got a lead and my character and another character have to kiss. I wasn't nervous at all but when I found out who I was supposed to do the kiss with I wasn't nervous b...
A. 25 February 2009: maddierose your right about that, in it's on way, but... If the director of the play are making it clear that they dont want a real kiss, just a fake one that looks real, there is no problem in that. :) now to the poster, well, I cant give you any ... (read in full...)
I am always getting sweat patches under my arms when I go out!
Q. This question is a weird one... i am always getting sweat patches under my arms when i go out etc and i totally hate them. they make me so paranoid and feel uncomfortable. It doesnt smell at all - infact it smells of my deodarant but i just cant ...
A. 19 February 2009: Hey, have you tried an extra dry antipersperent? That may help some what.. But it does sound like a case of overactive sweat glands, your doctor may be able to help with this, I heard something about a doctor being able to inject cologen into some ... (read in full...)
Help! Could I be pregnant?
Q. okkk well im scared i think that i might be pregnant but im not sure i had unprotected sex a few times since my last period but my partner did not cum inside me until yesterday. my period is due in a few days and when i went to the toilet i had...
A. 19 February 2009: It could just be your period coming along, but on the other hand, and im not all that sure about when and if, it could be implantation bleeding? I'd say wait and see if your period does come along, if it does you should be fine, but if it doesn't ... (read in full...)
How can I sound more intelligent when I'm talking to him?
Q. I feel kinda dumb around the guy I like, he uses all these big words, I wanna open up a thesaurus and build my own vocabulary so I can sound witty and smart, is that bad? Is he right for me if he's smarter than me? It's so attractive to me and I ...
A. 19 February 2009: I used to speak real awkward ya know, like all my words would get tangled, but.. I began doing word exercises, like practising tongue twisters and stuff, also slowing my speech a little so the words which do come out of my mouth come out, I dunno, ... (read in full...)
What's up with this guy? He's really weird!
Q. Ok theres this guy that goes to my school. We don't really know eachothr. Everytime we pass eachother in the hallway he looks at me and sometimes smiles really weirdly. The other day I was walking to 7th period and I passed him and he did the weird ...
A. 11 February 2009: I reckon he fancies you, and the weird smile, is probably just his normal smile! Lol ... (read in full...)
He's giving me a promise ring - what should I get him for V-Day?
Q. What should I give my perfect boyfriend for valentines day if he will give me a promise ring?...
A. 5 February 2009: Aw thats sweet :) I think in return you should get him a piece of jewellery with something engraved in it, like one of those necklaces with a dog tag thing on would be perfect, cos then he could see it easily when he wants to, and It'll always be ... (read in full...)
Should I have stayed in a confusing relationship or did I do the right thing?
Q. I was in a relationship for 2 and half years with a man I love deeply he was always running away for weeks at a time and then return to say he wanted me he even called me two days before Christmas 2 years and said he is going to be seeing someone ...
A. 5 February 2009: Even that whole story made my head spin a little, I think though, you definately done the right thing, it certainly wasn't fair how he had been treating you. So I say good on you for ending it, and that you should go and find that person who will ... (read in full...)
A little piece of encouragement
Q. i just wanted to say a few words of encouragement to all of you who might be have a hard time with relationship and such. first off all, the God who made you loves you and is watching you all the time. God did not design your body's for sex, ...
A. 3 February 2009: Emilysanswers.. I just have to say.., nice one girl :) x... (read in full...)
Why do gay men like to talk about sex in public? Is this in fact true?
Q. Why do gay men make point of talking about sex in public like in a graphic way . I don't know of any of my straight friends that need to fulfill such a urge. Are they just exhibitional, is this part of being gay? I find it kind of degrades them an...
A. 3 February 2009: I have 7 gay guy friends, 2 of them, who are a couple are my best friends ever, and I go out with them, now they never seem to speak about having sex in public, and other gay friends, they dont really do it either... Maybe its just a certain few who ... (read in full...)
Is having a blue eye and a green eye weird?
Q. what physical characteristics do girls find very attractive? is having a blue eye and a green eye weird?...
A. 2 February 2009: Oh my wow, a blue eye and a green eye is just like, the coolest hottest thing ever xD... (read in full...)
Pregnant from bj?
Q. I gave my boyfriend a blow job, and I'm afriad I may be pregnant because the sperm got on my hands. i waited about 30 mins before i went to the rest room though. what should i do?...
A. 2 February 2009: I wouldn't worry that you are pregnant, with actual intercourse maybe, but not through a blowy :) x... (read in full...)
Do his text kisses mean he wants to be more than friends?
Q. i am wondering what the kisses at the end mean when the text is coming from a guy, as i know that when girls text, they nearly always put kisses so dont mean as much, but when ur getting like 8, 9 or 10 kisses at the end of a text from a guy is he ...
A. 23 January 2009: Kisses at the end of a text can either mean something or not mean something, its hard to tell really, like for example, this one guy friend of mine, we used to tx all the time and I never got any kisses off him until just before we started briefly ... (read in full...)
Am I Considered A Whore?
Q. okay, so here is the thing. i am questioning myself "if i am a whore?" well okay, a little while back i went somewhere with these two guys. i took a pill (not sure what it was but my friend said it would make me feel relaxed) and i started to make ...
A. 19 January 2009: Nooo your not a whore deary, just be careful you dont get a reputation for being easy, its not an easy thing to shake off, trust me lol ... (read in full...)
Why do people believe - or not believe - in God?
Q. Im just curious here, I wanna hear from people who are and are not in anyway, religious. To the folk who to believe there's a god, why do you believe so? A personal miracle happened to you, or some sort of experience that has made you believe? Or ...
A. 1 January 2009: Lol dioven, just typical that the machine broke down huh? I really am rather looking forward to the outcome of the findings of the experiment once completely successfully though. And deary, yes, it may be a troublesome topic, but, I like to think ... (read in full...)
Why do people believe - or not believe - in God?
Q. Im just curious here, I wanna hear from people who are and are not in anyway, religious. To the folk who to believe there's a god, why do you believe so? A personal miracle happened to you, or some sort of experience that has made you believe? Or ...
A. 1 January 2009: ... No matter how much I prayed or what I did, and when I say horrific stuff I truely mean horrific. So I completely lost my faith at a young age and I dont regret that whatsoever, I think i'm better off living for me than god. And ever since I hit ... (read in full...)
Why do people believe - or not believe - in God?
Q. Im just curious here, I wanna hear from people who are and are not in anyway, religious. To the folk who to believe there's a god, why do you believe so? A personal miracle happened to you, or some sort of experience that has made you believe? Or ...
A. 1 January 2009: ... I think the whole concept is word of mouth. Not meaning to cause any offence by the way, but humans want answers to everything, even going back so far in time, people still questioned everything as they do these days, so Who's to say that this ... (read in full...)
Why do people believe - or not believe - in God?
Q. Im just curious here, I wanna hear from people who are and are not in anyway, religious. To the folk who to believe there's a god, why do you believe so? A personal miracle happened to you, or some sort of experience that has made you believe? Or ...
A. 1 January 2009: a_decent_1, what is science? science is a logical, and proven reason for almost everything. science can define emotion, how else would we know about it? how else would psychologists be able to understand it? it's all in the mind, the brain, which ... (read in full...)
My mum wants to rule my life and ruin my relationship, what do I do?
Q. I really love my boyfriend, we have been in the relationship for 3 months, my mum found out that me and him have been having oral sex. And now she keeps trying to split us up. About a month ago she ordered me to dump him but I just couldn't do it. ...
A. 31 December 2008: If you want your mum to understand the whole situation, but when you speak to her she has none of it, write her a letter. That way she can't interrupt you and she can read it a few times over, maybe It'll drill it into her head that you want to be ... (read in full...)
Worried that my boyfriend will go off with my best friend if he has a 3some with me and her!!
Q. I am 15 and me and my boyfriend are having sex reguly,we've been dating for 3 mounths now but the sex is getting boring and my boyfriend asked if we could have a treesome with my best friend, I am ok with having a treesome but I'm worried that he ...
A. 31 December 2008: And now on to the poster, lol I woulda done it all in one message but my phone only has limited typing space lol. Ok, so you're finding your and your fella's sex life boring, and you're worried about the possible consequences of a threesome, so my ... (read in full...)
Worried that my boyfriend will go off with my best friend if he has a 3some with me and her!!
Q. I am 15 and me and my boyfriend are having sex reguly,we've been dating for 3 mounths now but the sex is getting boring and my boyfriend asked if we could have a treesome with my best friend, I am ok with having a treesome but I'm worried that he ...
A. 31 December 2008: Pvtguy.. Where the hell did you get the conclusion from that she poor girl has emotional problems and no self esteem?? And that she need's help?! I really dont see any of that, she's a girl who dont know whether to have a threesome or not. Where ... (read in full...)
What kind of perfume do guys like?
Q. It's time for me to buy some new perfume. What perfume or scent do guys like girls to wear? Especially guys in their teens through twenties....
A. 26 December 2008: Escada - moonsparkle is the shiz lol i've had several people say that they feel like eating me whilst wearing that :) (not in the sexual way btw!lol) ... (read in full...)
What can I do to prove that I love him?
Q. Hi I've been reading the questions and answers posted on dearcupid for quite a while now and great answers have been given! And now I have a problem of my own... this may be long so bear with me. I'm currently going out with a man who is 17 y...
A. 26 December 2008: Ah, yea ok, well hows about.. You give him a call, and arrange to meet somewhere, like a little mini date or something, and just tell him what you want, you wanna carry on like you were, but with all good things not the negative, not so good things, ... (read in full...)
LDR is hurting my girlfriend, how can I keep her happy
Q. hi ppl, I know this is silly..n i dont know whether anyone will reply or not..but i really need some advise.. I m 18..me and my girlfriend were 2gthr in school and we were 2gthr for like 6 months in cl 12 th..but then we went to differe...
A. 26 December 2008: Aw, I know exactly how it is, after all, i'm in a long distance relationship myself, I know how bloody hard it is, but a few things me and my boyfriend do to keep close, and happy with eachother and the situation, we talk on the phone regularly, ... (read in full...)
Penis size opinions - help
Q. Hello to everyone. I am about to have sex with my girlfriend and I am really concerned about the size of my penis.It's about 4-4,5 inches in length and about 4,5 inches in girth when erect. I am quite fat for my age (21), about 246 pounds (for BMI...
A. 26 December 2008: It's not what you've got, it's how you use it ;) ... (read in full...)
What can I do to prove that I love him?
Q. Hi I've been reading the questions and answers posted on dearcupid for quite a while now and great answers have been given! And now I have a problem of my own... this may be long so bear with me. I'm currently going out with a man who is 17 y...
A. 26 December 2008: It looks like alot of the problems have come from no one knowing about your relationship, so maybe it is time to tell your friends and that? That way, you wont ever really come across those awkward moments when you've had to blow your fella off, ... (read in full...)
I'm so disappointed by my guy's x-mas present!
Q. This Christmas I am so upset. I know it sound shallow but I got my boyfriend of 3 years a really nice skateboard (which was a very thoughtful and expensive gift) because he uses his really old beat up one everyday. The board I got him is amazing and ...
A. 26 December 2008: Consider yourself lucky, my boyfriend hadn't got me anything :s yet my ex did, how messed up is that? Lol..... (read in full...)
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