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*oodcharlotte4life
writes:okay, so here is the thing. i am questioning myself "if i am a whore?" well okay, a little while back i went somewhere with these two guys. i took a pill (not sure what it was but my friend said it would make me feel relaxed) and i started to make out with this dude i just met that night. i don't even find him attractive. but while i was making out with him i gave another guy a handjob. then the next night i went to the same place again! this time i made out with his other friend instead and i took another one of those pills. am i considered a whore for making out with 2 guys in 2 nights and giving another guy a handjob while doing it?? please tell!
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reader, mrflip +, writes (19 January 2009):
I suspect that this group of guys views you as reliable source of sexual gratification and will expect you to do similar things or go further in the future. It's up to you as to how you should feel about that. If you enjoy it, then don't worry. If it makes you feel bad, than maybe you avoid doing those things. Whatever you do, you should do it because you want to do it, not because of pressure or what other people might think.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): satindesire is mocking this young girl who is trying to figure out why she is doing the things she is doing. satendesire is being obnoxious.
for the girl asking the question.
You're asking if you are a whore or if people will see you in bad light because you might have some feelings of guilt. Is there a reason why you are taking these pills? is there something going on at home, school, with your body?
you might be acting promiscuous right now because of other things happening in your life and it sounds like you might feel regret about acting this way.
I have friends that have slept with people in the the double digits in less than 2 years but they don't feel like whore or sluts or skanks or like a ho and because of that people don't think they are either. What they do behind closed doors stays there.
Figure out why you are doing these things and like one of the posts here say. BE SAFE!!!
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reader, megan1111 +, writes (19 January 2009):
Well, you're not a whore technically because you didn't receive what you money but I question what you really want to know.
Do you want people to condone or condemn your actions? I will do either, you get to live your live the way you want as you are the only one who is accountable for it.
I would only suggest you nip the pill thing in the bud soon before someone slips you a mickey and does you somewhere you don't want to be done.
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reader, XxAnGelXxx  +, writes (19 January 2009):
 Nooo your not a whore deary, just be careful you dont get a reputation for being easy, its not an easy thing to shake off, trust me lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): This is the best post by far on this site.The writer should be given an award for this and "Satindesire" a medal for her answers! Her answers are the most hilarious truthfully answers on the planet!!!But, Yeah, you should stop being so promiscuous all the time. And, if you don't want to stop then stay safe, i suppose.But, you should seriously stop.
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reader, Libra1963  +, writes (19 January 2009):
 Your not a whore but be careful as these guys will turn around and call you names. If you do things like this think of the consequences.
Its alright for men but never looks good for women.
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reader, perry the platypus +, writes (19 January 2009):
of course your not a whore, you would have to do a lot more than that to earn that label. dont worry about stuff like this and live your youth spontaniously but safely. peace
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reader, goodcharlotte4life +, writes (19 January 2009):
goodcharlotte4life is verified as being by the original poster of the question Well is a whore the same as "slut, hoe, skank"? Bascically I am asking if other guys and girls find out will they think of me in a bad kind of way?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): LOL!!! "Satindesire" you are awesome, that was the most hilarious thing i have read all day!!! THANK YOU!!! =-D !!!
But, she is technically right, You are not a "whore".
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