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female
age
30-35,
*ilish
writes:Hey :) I really need your advice.I go out with this lad, he's 21 and I'm 18. We've both been treated badly in the past by exs before and it helped us to get closer.However, theres this one particular ex that he keeps mentioning! She's called Grace and he was only with her for 3 weeks, but the way he speaks about her is like he was madly in love with her!He still speaks to her, however she's only 16 but he talks as if he was madly in love with her. When I ask him why he still brings her up, he says that its because he really cared about her.I've told him that I find it annoying when he speaks about her, especially when he says that I'm just like her! I'm going to meet his family on New Years Day, and he told me that they thought an awful lot of Grace which I think was uncalled for. Because thats just put extra pressure on me now!Why can't he not speak about her and concentrate on me? Does he still love her but can't accept that he does and what should I do? :/
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reader, XOLoveOX +, writes (30 December 2011):
Well most guys do that to make their girlfriends jealous, he does sound quite hung up on her though, so maybe he isn't over. It sounds like he is lusting over her more than loving her whether he knows or not I don't know for sure but he does seem ignorant. Lots of guys easily lust over girls and assume its love when it really isn't. He does sound uncaring and you do have a right to be nervese and annoyed. More information will help though.
Hope This Helps xoxo
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