I'm in love with my ex-wife!
Q. My ex-wife and I have been divorced for six years , now. It was a nasty, bitter divorce with a custody battle. For years we've fought more than we've gotten along. Recently, her and I were at our kids' birthday party and I was shocked. We were ...
A. 15 June 2010: The question is will you live with the fact that you get together when she was still seeing other people. You'll get hurt in the long run. Relationships must be build upon trust, will you be able to trust her when you leave her with your friends.
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He made me turn to someone else because I wasnt getting anything from him
Q. I have been in a relationship for 6 years now and had two kids. I am 22 years old and reall yhavent expierenced life yet. I love my boyfriend of 6 years but hate how he treats me. When we get into arguements he tells me how much he cant stand me and ...
A. 25 January 2010: He'll never commit to you, as he say he wants to be single i'ts already 6yrs. So move on and don't be in a relationship until you 100% sure you are over him and ready.
Do it for your children it is going to be hard but time heals. ... (read in full...)
I even joined the military to help forget her, but it isnt working
Q. im in some trouble here. about half a year ago I started this girl who lives in canada while I live in the states. yea a ldr. we had such a connection. all the same likes and dislikes. are connection was so strong that thru some days after meeting ...
A. 18 January 2010: Try to contact her explain everything to her. Tell her how much you care and love her and you cann't live without her. Then take it from there. Good luck...... (read in full...)
How can I create a better life for myself?
Q. Help! I am lacking a good support system that I can trust. The two people that I trusted most have both betrayed me. My fiance' of 4 years cheated on me with my younger sister who was living with us. It has been one of the most painful times in my ...
A. 18 January 2010: Life is too short don't live your life regreting or feeling sorry for yourself it's not good for your health. Try to forgive them especially your sister because she needs you as much as you need her.
As for trust issue give it some time you will... (read in full...)
Despite our 14 year age difference she wants to take it to the next level
Q. I guys I was trying to ask google for a answer to my heavy heart when I found this community. I met this girl on-line a while back. We became very good friends. And with time we got very close. When we met she was going through a crisis or ...
A. 14 January 2010: Go for it life is to short and age is just a number. You love each other that is all that matters. All the best....... (read in full...)
Help!!! AM I jealous???
Q. My boyfriend says I'm jealous. Here's why he may think so: he's still good friends with his ex (and her entire family) and goes to visit her at work and her home. She takes him to concerts and invites him out, but doesn't include me. At the same ...
A. 5 January 2010: You are indepedent so leave him. Why did he leave his ex and the whole family when they seem to get along just fine? Let him go and move on.......... (read in full...)
Broken Heart in Ohio
Q. OK, I'll make it quick. I am an older lesbian in a relationship with a younger lesbian. We have been together for a year and a half, and living together for a year. She has been very smothering and overwhelming and us living in a studio apartment, ...
A. 4 January 2010: Move on it will hurt now but as time goes on you'll see it was for the best...... (read in full...)
Do I get a divorce and go with this new woman or stay with my wife?
Q. Here are the facts: Married 4 years, prior to that dated for about 6. I am 30, she is 30, we don't have any children. We have owned our own home for about 2 years. Sex is not a problem, we have great sex. Sometimes she nags, but no big d...
A. 4 January 2010: If she was the one doing that how will you feel just put yourself in her shoes then you'll know what to do.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is cheating with a "cougar" and now has an emotional attachment to her. Should I move on?
Q. So I have been with my bf for 16 years. We have 2 teenagers together and pretty much live as if we are married, just no papers. Recently this past summer, he was out of town and met some 61 year old "cougar" in a bar. My bf is 41, so I can't really ...
A. 4 January 2010: It's the right decision move out and move on. To show that he is not serious about your relationship how come you are not married for 16yrs seeing this looser. It looks like he got a bigger fish in his net jump out before you get hurt. Good ... (read in full...)
Age difference and disapproving parents?
Q. i decided to go back to college and further my education. I am a bit older than normal college age (late 30's). While there I've met a woman that I fell for. She tells me that she has the same feelings for me, but her family disapproves of it ...
A. 30 December 2009: Yes there's something u can do like to leave the child alone. Let her enjoy her youth, she still needs to show off her boyfriend to her friends. She needs to explore, makes mistakes and learn from them not to have an uncle who will say I told u so.. ... (read in full...)
Is my wife trying to break my attachment to her by being unemotional?
Q. Hi everyone whats all this about can you help me, im going mad. Over the last 12 months my marriage has broken up, we were together for 7 years. Myself and my wife have had affairs, She moved out some months ago. Two weeks ago we both admitted...
A. 28 December 2009: At least she is honest about her feelings for you now you have to be honest to yourself. Cut your loses and move on you will find someone who'll love the whole package not just sex. It's hard to let go after seven years but tough times never last ... (read in full...)
Could a four or five-way relationship even work?
Q. Im in a really difficult situation at the moment. There is currently 3 women in my life. At this point you might be thinking right what a ba***rd an ye maybe i am. I have been engaged for 3 and a half years to a very money driven career woman. Sh...
A. 28 December 2009: You don't love her enough if you can still bring another person in the relationship. To be enganged for 3 years shows there is a problem, so i suggest you to be honest with yourself do some soul searching. Be with the person you trully love only ... (read in full...)
How do I strip for him when I'm so shy about my body?
Q. So me and my boyfriend have been together for about 11 months, nearly a year! And for a while now, he's been wanting me to strip for him, I've alway been rather... Shy of my body, and I know he loves me, yet through past experinces, I had an ex, w...
A. 28 December 2009: He loved what he saw that is why he is asking you to strip for him. Love your body because God created you in a unique way. Nobody is built or looks like u. You are you and only you, no one is better than you. What he see is what he gets...love ... (read in full...)
How do I overcome all my problems?
Q. Hello I figure it was time for me to write all of my thoughts down as it has been a long ride so far. When I was growing up I did not have a great social life. Actually I did not have one at all. From preschool to 8th grade I went to a small priva...
A. 28 December 2009: You have a very low self esteem. My advice is to start doing things for yourself, be your own best friend. Love everything and anything about yourself. Then your self image will change you will find someone to love you for who you have become. Take ... (read in full...)
Why did my on and off again boyfriend get me nothing for this Christmas this year?
Q. (MOD NOTE: ORIGNAL POSTERS TITLE) I got my on and off again bf of 1.5 yrs a christmas gift - he loved it. But was acting kinda weird after. We have just gotten back together. Its been bit tense between us. Anyway, the next day, he txts me ...
A. 22 December 2009: Move on, cut your loses now before its too late. About the pregnancy you are financially independant so you will be able to raise it, if he can't buy you a card now what will happen when the child needs nappies. He is a looser leave him now, save ... (read in full...)
My partner has problems keeping it up once as soon as he enters...
Q. (Mod note: Original Title)my partner, gets a ecrection fine... its stays up fine.. but as soon as he places its in...it wont last even two mintues...he releases too quick. he has tried masturbating before make love.. till nothing seems to work. as ...
A. 22 December 2009: Try foreplay, then let him release outside on the next erection he can enter. I don't think he will release sooner.... (read in full...)
Does he love me as more than a friend?
Q. I know that I am just another girl asking the infamous question "does he like me?" but I am really confused. I met a guy at work two years ago, and we have since then become really good friends. I would even consider him to be one of my two best...
A. 21 December 2009: The best way would be to tell him about your deep feelings towards him. Then take it from there....... (read in full...)
How should I fix this?
Q. My ex and I had recently broke up. We were in a long distance relationship and it was difficult. We didn't break up because of distance though. We broke up because I've given him so many chances to treat me right. He acts like he controls my life ...
A. 21 December 2009: Sweety sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind. You did yourself a big favour to let go is hardest thing but you have to stick to it no matter how hard. Just hang in there time will heal you broken heart. All the best....... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend worried about my reputation?
Q. what does it mean when your bf says he doesnt want u hanging out with certain people. mind u all of u grew up together and when i was wayyy younger i kissed one of them thats it. i am a virgin. does this mean he doesnt trust me ? worried about my ...
A. 21 December 2009: He is controlling but you must do is to asure him of your love for him and you can be trusted.In a good relationship trust plays a big role.... (read in full...)
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