He made me turn to someone else because I wasnt getting anything from him

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have been in a relationship for 6 years now and had two kids. I am 22 years old and reall yhavent expierenced life yet. I love my boyfriend of 6 years but hate how he treats me. When we get into arguements he tells me how much he cant stand me and he rather be with someone else that acts their age. ALso hes never home and he puts me down alot. Especially the music i listen to or when i want to go out. Hes like were not comptable anymore and he doenst like my personlity. He also will hint arolund showing me girls that he wants to be with. So thereofr I really fell out of love wit him because of this. ANd when i try to talk to him about it, he always tells me to go be with someone else then. Well about 2 months i was taling to this guy and it progressed and i ended up cleeping with him. I wasnt suppos to take it to the next level but i did. This other guy made me feel appraciatesd and loved when mine didnt. I still beleive that my bf doesn love me when he says he does. I dont know anymore. I told him today about it and he says he does love me and that i am pretty to him. But then when we get into arguements its different. Im straing to feel guilty of what i have did because i know it was wrong, but should I? He made me turn to someone else because i wasnt getting anything from him. I was just getting the negativity from him. I feel like i should just forgive myself and get over it. I want to beleive that my bf does care cause he is still with me but he says he wants to be single and live by himeself cause me and the kid drives him crazy. what do you think?

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