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writes: I somehow feel hatred for money and tend to splurge on unnecessary things mainly because i consider it to be root cause or evil that prevented my development needs from being met by my parents / father in first place. My requests were neglected and even rejected by my father and i was made to work my ass out to get even the smallest of needs satisfied that required money and i was always made to feel guilty though the needs were genuine. Is there any way i can overcome this hatred every time the money builds up with me and i end up destroying my own feelings and emotions towards those i love?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2007): If having extra money tears you apart, why don't you donate it to charity. Any charity would be so grateful to have your donation. You would then not spend it on unnecessary items and you would probably end of feeling better about yourself, knowing that your money is going to a good cause. I don't think that you necessarily need counseling right off the bat here. I would try the donation thing and see how it makes you feel.
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reader, Wildlife dude  +, writes (28 June 2007):
 Get need to see a counselor so you can develop a healthy attitude towards money. Also, if you insist on wasting your funds, why don't you donateyour money to some organizations who could really benefit from it. There are plenty of little kids who have been diagnosed with cancer, that could put your money to good use. Some people have been given so much, while others have so little. I suspect a visit to one of those hospitals, and seeing those poor, sick little faces and children who've lost all their hair during chemotherapy will help you put things into perspective real quick.
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reader, Beckto  +, writes (28 June 2007):
 The answer is yes, you can overcome your issues.
The fact that you understand the root of your money-hate as well as you do is a really good sign.
First off, you should start going to a psychiatrist or counselor, weekly. A professional who can walk you through the healing process, step-by-step, is the way to go with you, I think. If you have an aversion to money, at least start off by spending it on things that will help make you better. The money you would spend on unnecessary trinkets can now be spent on therapy sessions and self-help books. The more you learn about yourself, the more tools you will have to overcome it.
Good luck!
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