I am living with a married man and pregnant with his child...but he is still hiding me from his wife and family!
Q. I've been living with a married man for more than a year and now i am pregnant and about to gave birth on May. Although we are living together,he did not yet end up his relationship with his wife who has an 8 years old daughter with him. He ...
A. 25 April 2011: Life is giving you a second chance with your husband willing to accept you and the baby. Take it, don't mess it up persisting with this other man of yours.... (read in full...)
Why is he behaving like this? Does he have low self esteem? Is he gay? Does he care about me?
Q. We have been in love for past 2 years and had not met each other.It was this month that we met .He seems smitten during the first meeting and in the second meeting insisted on sex.(we did have phone sex before several times and we were online ...
A. 20 April 2011: Not him, but you seem low on self esteem. He is just seeing you as an option to sleep with. Isn't that so clear?... (read in full...)
My ex ignored me and it hurt like hell. Now he's wished me Happy Birthday. Should I respond?
Q. Hello,Im hoping to get some advice on the following situation. Thanks in advance. I moved to Europe and met a guy that i really liked and was in a relationship with for 3.5 months. (We are both 28 years old). I got attached very quickly. I was mean...
A. 16 April 2011: You are reading too much into it. He has not treated you reasonably in the first place. Ignore the message and move on. He is definitely not worth your time.... (read in full...)
I am cheating on my wife, my lover has a boyfriend who cheats on her, and my lover is cheating on her boyfriend with me! What should I do about this mess?
Q. i am 34year old married man and she is 22 yrs god knows how but 3 years ago i very deeply fell in love with this girl and she was the one who proposed me that time even after knowing that i was married. i agreed and we were deeply involved, used to ...
A. 15 April 2011: All this and not a word for your wife. Who probably is paying the most for no mistake of hers. ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but cannot marry me
Q. i am a traditional orthodox indian girl who was never in a relationship before, now from past 2 year i met a guy and both were truely in love. i have not revealed this with anyone nor he. now his parents are forcing him to get married then i raised ...
A. 11 April 2011: End the relationship. Sorry to say this, but you were just a physical option for him and now he is going with what his parents want.... (read in full...)
The family is noticing the sexual relationship developing between me and my husband's young brother.
Q. Heloo everybody, I have requested same question before. got rejected for lack of information. now i think i will keep more information. Please help me. I have relationship with my husbands youngest brother. he is 20 yrs old. we are very friendly...
A. 27 March 2011: You jerk off your brother in law/he kisses you and say there is nothing sexual between you and him or you are not cheating on your husband? Not sure what constitutes cheating then. It would be best for you to put an end to this. You do not have any ... (read in full...)
My mom has been diagnosed with an incurable disease and my world has shattered around me. Help me please...
Q. Yesterday I was driving in my car with my mom and out of the blue she told me that she's been diagnosed with an incurable disease in her lungs and that she's gonna start some treatment which is gonna be useless. She was crying, saying she was scared ...
A. 13 March 2011: Sorry to hear about your mom. My friend's mom was recently diagnosed with brain tumor and I saw her go through some of what you might be. The best thing you can do is gather yourself and be there for her. Do things that would make her happy and be a ... (read in full...)
Help! My father and brothers treat me very badly!
Q. hi i am a 40yrs married woman i had a bad marital life as a result i tried to emotinally depend on my parents for help they always gave me the rough shoulder inspite of that i tried to help them whenever they needed me i would go to any extent to ...
A. 12 March 2011: Do you work or are you dependent financially on your brothers for survival? The 2005 amendment in the Hindu Succession Act, 1956 has giving equal right to daughters as the sons to claim share in the Ancestral Hindu Family property. So if you want, ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is angry because I wont send pictures of my private parts!
Q. i have a boyfriend for 6months before evrything was ok we dont see each other very often but we text each other on sms and sometimes he will call me, but since a while now he has been willing that i send him naked pictures of myself and my private ...
A. 7 March 2011: No. You are not at fault. Whatever it is, do not share naked pictures of yourself. Partially or otherwise. These may just find their way to the internet. Stick to what you believe in and dump this guy.... (read in full...)
He calls me mean names, says I do not love him. What should I do about my married lover?
Q. I'm in love with a married guy. He has been married for six years and we have been having an affair for five years. He has two children with his wife. but he says that he loves me a lot. i also love him a lot.. i need him. i really need him and ...
A. 3 March 2011: I am really surprised. He called you a call girl in front of his friends and you still love him? He abuses you and you still love him? Get out soon before he messes you up. He is just using you and possibly others like you.... (read in full...)
What do women think of a 28 year old guy who has never had a girlfriend?
Q. Hey i was just wondering what girls think of a 28 year old guy who has never had a girlfriend (yes, a virgin aswell), do you consider it pathetic? I dunno im a sweet guy, i'd dare say attractive, im just a lil shy, i guess it's true what they say: ...
A. 2 March 2011: @Nyme - "Truly nice guys can still move with confidence and get the girl. Shy guys, on the other hand, may APPEAR nice, but only because they are AFRAID to confront others and be assertive about what they want. Their niceness is motivated out of ... (read in full...)
I've become very withdrawn after breaking off contact with her. Is this normal??
Q. Hi, I am the same poster who wrote this: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-kniow-she-is-bad-for-me-but.html I have actually broken off contact with her for several weeks now. For those who need background, it was a girl who I knew for...
A. 13 February 2011: Also, do things that would help you. I find 2 hours at the gym with music really helpful. And am using this period to keep myself fit and I feel pretty good at the end of the gym session. If you enjoy running, I would highly recommend that. Sweating ... (read in full...)
I've become very withdrawn after breaking off contact with her. Is this normal??
Q. Hi, I am the same poster who wrote this: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-kniow-she-is-bad-for-me-but.html I have actually broken off contact with her for several weeks now. For those who need background, it was a girl who I knew for...
A. 13 February 2011: I am doing the same as what you have mentioned. I have blocked her completely and do not answer her calls/emails. I decided to move onto a different country for a bit about which I had no clue so that I am busy with survival etc on my mind and keep ... (read in full...)
I've been trying to talk to her for 3 months! Is she playing hard to get?
Q. Well, I have done everything I can to pursue a girl on facebook - I have met her once in person although I have trying to get her contact information without any success so far. This is all the stuff that I have done though facebook 1. Told her th...
A. 30 January 2011: You are the one who's been psychopathic. You are almost stalking her. Leave her alone.... (read in full...)
Is it possible for a woman to cry on demand?
Q. Hi, Last year I was in a relationship with a woman who in retrospect I feel was manipulating me. She had asked me for a lot of money and I gave it to her over the course of the year, without getting anything back. (We were not even dating.) But I fo...
A. 12 January 2011: Yes, a woman can cry on demand. My ex bawled to me when I found out she had cheated on me. Only to later find out that she was with him after I dropped her home. And I did not find out till a few months after.... (read in full...)
How do I deal with unrequited love?
Q. I am a young woman who has fallen for an older man. I know it can never really work, but I find myself upset and dejected by the unfair way things have turned out. The reasons it wouldn't work are not within our age difference, but our differen...
A. 15 December 2010: Move away and keep all contact off. Its difficult to do it but that is the only way out. Over a period of time, you will find someone who loves you as much as you do.... (read in full...)
What can I do? Should I break things off with my wife or go with the woman I'm cheating with?
Q. Hi All, I am 30 and have been married for 4 years now, I have one kid out of this marriage. My wife had a strong relation in past and it always showed up in our relation, which always deeply hurted me. She was never affectionate to me as ...
A. 11 December 2010: Funny, so you and the woman at work are trying to do the same thing to some other guy that your wife did to you? Don't **** an unknown guys life up for your selfish ends.... (read in full...)
We agreed not to join any social-networking sites, then he joins one!
Q. When my husband and I met and became serious about each other,we both agreed that we would not participate in any of the dating/social networks. We've both seen so many couples run into problems using these sites. Plus we really don't have the time ...
A. 4 December 2010: When you join MyLife, it requires you to import your contacts and spams the contacts you import with a link to join in etc. Its possible your husband may have gotten spammed due to one of his friends joining MyLife. Do not read much into this.... (read in full...)
Should I try smoking?
Q. smoking should i try it or not? cause i want to. hi, this question isnt about relationship, i already posted one aobut that, anyway, i want to try somking but im only 14 some its not like i can go out and buy them or say to my parents " i want...
A. 10 October 2010: No. I regret the day I tried smoking. Its been 20 years and trying hard to quit the habit. You do not need it.... (read in full...)
Can we love two individuals at one time?
Q. Its been almost three years for my arranged marriage. I was just 25 when I tied a knot with the girl who is three years younger to me……I was very happily working and was enjoying every single moment of my marriage life….Before my marriage I was in...
A. 1 October 2010: You are just plain selfish and are messing up two lives here. Hope you do not have any children from your marriage, else more lives are getting screwed up for no fault of theirs.... (read in full...)
I'm desperate and want to run away from my husband, please advise!
Q. I'm an indian.I got married in 2007(traditionally arranged marriage).my hubby and me never got along well rite from the beginning.I grew up as an independent girl, did all my work myself since 12 old(I've no mother, my dad's got a family of his ...
A. 15 August 2010: Girl! I have had something very similar happen to an Indian friend of mine, you need to get out ASAP. Please call the police/law as advised by others in this thread, get your passport back. Either get a job in the US if your visa permits or get back ... (read in full...)
Should I bother waiting for him, or should I move on?
Q. I come to this point that I’m, looking for others people opinion. Here is my story. I met this guy at work about 2 years ago we start sleeping together, there is a difference in years between us (he is 29 I’m 38); he said thats not a problem ...
A. 17 June 2010: I think he is just using you and his behavior seems a bit circumspect. His whole behavior of not msging/calling back, avoiding you on weekends is not a good thing. Speak to him openly about it/dump him before it gets worse for you.... (read in full...)
I think my gf wants to get back with her ex!
Q. HI, am confused..what to do... am in a relationship wid a girl from past 2 years, we both had a past and we broke up wid our exs respectively. Me coz she had to go abroad to US to make her career and she(my current GF) coz her parents didnt ap...
A. 14 June 2010: End it my friend. And if she wants you, let her put the effort. Sorry to say this but she seems very much into her ex still. And you seem to have given her quite a few chances. As an aside, avoid snooping on your future GF's emails and messages. ... (read in full...)
Was he following me or was I being overly cautious?
Q. Sorry this isn't a love question but I need some answers.. I usually walk to work and back and this evening I got slightly scared because I thought I was being followed... This guy was on his bike in front of me he the spun his bike around a...
A. 14 June 2010: Better safe than be sorry. Change your route/timings for a few days if possible. Also, see if you can take the walk with someone else from your workplace who goes the same route. ... (read in full...)
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