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| | *wilightdiamond's profile:Hi, Im a girl (last time I checked anyway), I recently turned twenty, I live in Adelaide, Australia. I guess my age does make me pretty inexperienced to some readers but then again I could be very useful to teens with relationship problems. I have two younger sisters as well, that use me as their personal agony aunt but I dont quite know why, considering they've both had more relationships than me. I guess sometimes the answer to your question might be looking you in the face but you're just too scared to look for it. I havent had many relationships but enough has happened with them that I think I am qualified for a lot of different teen problems.
To sum this up I think I'll give youu some details about me
Hair: long, auburn and impossible to deal with
eyes: sometime green sometimes hazel
height: 164 cm (5' 4")
weight: more than I should
skin: cacausion with freckles
age: 20
pets: two dogs and a cat (well, one dog is mine the cat and other dog belong to my sisters)
likes: reading romance and fantasy novels. playing rpg computer games, collecting cool dvds, researching ancient mythology, animals, drawing
dislikes: eggplant, maths, paris hilton
Well, thats about it. I hope I've been helpful
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I WON'T leave her!
Q. There is a girl in my grade that I like and she hates me. I will NOT leave her. Please help me!!...
A. 22 May 2009: You catch more flys with honey than vinegar. If she doesnt like you, you're not going to get anywhere with her.
However, If you're determined not to forget about it and move on, then you have to make her your friend again.
Apologise for what you... (read in full...)
14 yo and in love, but I don't know his name
Q. I saw one guy in the hospital when i went to visit my dad in the hospital.. he was hospitalized too. his bed is just nearby my dad's bed. he's pretty handsome i think :))) i realized that he is looking at me when i suddenly wanted to turn over a...
A. 11 March 2009: lol, really sweet. Can't help you though, but if you're one of the people that believe in true love, and fate etc. Don't worry, you'll see him again if you're meant to.
k c100 didnt have to be so mean about it. Teenagers have a right to have cru... (read in full...)
Should I return my big sister's love
Q. hi, im kinda falling for my sister and i want to know if its alright to return the same love to her. im 18 and shes 20. we always hang out alot, tease each other, and support each other. when I was younger, i never really had any friends, i was ...
A. 11 March 2009: Hmm, The people who have answered so far have been pretty one sided in their opinions. I don't think I have an opinion one why or the other, I don't GET it. But hey, to each his own. However I thought I should point this out, it might intre... (read in full...)
Incestuous thoughts - I know it is wrong, please help me
Q. Hi, last post was rejected, too explicit :( I just need peoples opinions. I have always hated my sister (I am 34 she is 30) I am divorced 2 kids, she is single 1 kid and I have been turned on by incest for the past month or so. anyways, to ...
A. 11 March 2009: wow. I thought this stuff only happening in dark erotic web fiction. Incest isn't exactly looked upon kindly in society. But you already know that, so I'm not sure why you've turned to Dearcupid. Anyway, none of us can tell you what to do. We d... (read in full...)
Got an anonymous text message saying 'someone fancied me'. I'm hoping it's the girl from work! How do I reply back?
Q. hi there, Can anyone please tell me if it is now possible to send anonymous text messages to people you fancy? I got a text a week or so ago saying " Someone fancies you". i knew it was not one of them premium things because i could not reply ...
A. 19 November 2006: umm, i dont know how old you are, but I would think that whoever sent this isn't the person who fancies you... sounds like their friends sent it to you. Theres no way (that I know of) to figure out the number, so I'd just keep silent about it. The ... (read in full...)
My gf wants a surprise Christmas prezzie, Oh Joy! What do I buy?
Q. I've been going out with my girlfriend for nearly 6 months now and I have a problem - Christmas. I asked her what she wanted and she said surprise me. Brilliant. So can anyone tell me what type of present I should get her. She knows what I lik...
A. 19 November 2006: I'd get her a gold/silver bracelet. look at the colour jewllery that she wears most and get a simple bracelet of that colour. Bracelets are good because they don't have the 'messages' that come with buying rings, and they're not as expensive as ... (read in full...)
We've been online dating for 8 months and he wants me to 'conceive' when he comes in December! Should I just stop all this?
Q. Hi,i have been dating a man online for the past 8 months,we planned a lot about our future including starting a family, the problem is he always keep on chatting with other women online and another thing he lives miles away from where i do but ...
A. 17 November 2006: I agree with DR psych... but maybe you should get to know him physically before geting rid of him completly. He sounds like a comeplete crack-pot... almost like he's try to spread his 'seed' all over the world or something... Anyways i most ... (read in full...)
I am emotionally/mentally attracted to him but 'not' physically! This really bothers me so what can I do?
Q. Hi there! To start, I'm a bit ashamed to be writing this message asI don't beleive I'm a shallow person. As a matter of fact, I really have no reason to be as I ad,it to MANY personal flaws and imperfections in me. It's not fair for me to feel the...
A. 17 November 2006: Hey,
I know what you mean. I was once dating this guy and his best friend had a crush on me, he was very sweet, (and good looking too), but I just couldn't feel anything for him. I guess some people have chemistry, some don't.
Don't beat yourself... (read in full...)
My step sister exposed her breasts to me! She has never done anything like this before! What does this mean?
Q. The other day when me and my step sister were at home alone she took a shower, to my surprise she came out wearing only tight panties, her breast and everything else were revealed to me she has never done anything like this before, What does this...
A. 17 November 2006: ....wow....
well, personally, I'd pretend it didnt happen. If she does it again... THATS when to be worried.. maybe it was an accident?... maybe....maybe not...
anyway the important thing to remember is that if she is doing it on purpose she is e... (read in full...)
We've been seeing each other again and been intimate but he doesn't regard me as his gf! Should I just stop chasing after him?
Q. hi, I am in a bit of a emotionally stressful situation, and would really appreciate some advice, because i think at the moment im in "tunnel vision" mode. i have recently started seeing this man, who is much older than what i am, however he doesn...
A. 17 November 2006: Hey.
I have been in similar situation's before and it sounds like he's using you... Never the one to follow my own advice I can hardly tell you to drop him and move on.. (i've never been able to do that, have you?). So my advice is:
1.He probably... (read in full...)
I'm a bi female. I like this girl who said she likes me but she says she's not gay! She sounds confused..what do you think?
Q. hi im bi i like this girl so i told her and she likes me i asked her is shes gay but she said no so i was like ok then she dont know about me being bi but anyway this has been happerning for like 3 months we get somewhere but then begin at the start ...
A. 17 November 2006: hey, lilmizagony.
Your question was a bit confusing but I got the gist of it.
I think this girl has feelings for you, but shes not sure if she is bi/gay. She needs to figure that out before she can have a relationship with you. The problem ... (read in full...)
Are you single? Please reply here!
Q. Hi everyone Andrew, site guy here.. Just doing a poll to see how many visitors to the site are SINGLE and would be interested in a (free, of course) DearCupid dating service. Just reply to this post. Thanks! A....
A. 19 October 2006: Hi Andrew. Tecnically I am single and normally I would be interested in a free dating service. But a recent development in my love life changes al that. Im sure heaps of other people would be interested... (read in full...)
While hubby is in Irag, the old bf shows up on the scene and old feelings have come back. What on earth do I do now?
Q. Ok my storys kinda complicated... Before I got married to this guy Ive been with for four years, we were having problems and we started seeing different people. At the time my girlfriend had introduced me to her brother who is still currently i...
A. 17 October 2006: I dont think you should react to this other guy. Firstly he is still with the other girl and likely always will be. Some guys are like that. Second (and more importantly) it isn't fair on your husband to be trying to have a relationship with another ... (read in full...)
My ex bf wants me again but there's this problem-he has a new gf! What should I do?
Q. I am eighteen years old and I have had a secret crush on my ex boyfriend since we broke up, almost three years ago now. He is my best friend and we spend a lot of time together.. or we used to. He recently joined the army so I haven't seen him for a ...
A. 17 October 2006: I realise that I have to wait for him to break up with his gf before we can have a realtionship but he hasn't even mentioned having a realtionship with me in the first place. I think maybe he is finally maturing (like Irish49 said), and wants to ... (read in full...)
How do you know if alad likes you??
Q. How dya no if a lad likes you?...
A. 17 October 2006: I think Hanna is right. but sometimes it can be pretty hard to ask someone something like that can't it? Its embarassing and a little weird. Usually you just 'know' when a guy likes you, but if you like him back it can confuse you're instincts, you ... (read in full...)
Our relationship is more like a friendship. Should I stay or go?
Q. One for the girls. As my other half isnt much interested in sex i now lost my sex drive and dont want to have sex at all with him when he does once in a blue moon. So many times I feel like leaving as i see that were more like good friends than ...
A. 17 October 2006: break up with him... You can still stay friends. Its not fair on you or him. Have you seen 'kissing Jessica stein'? Its kinda the same thing except with lesbians... (two girls decide to be lesbians and at the end they realise they are just friends ... (read in full...)
There is problems accuring in my group of friends because of who wants to be with me!!!
Q. Two years ago I went to a party and there was a friend after me, David, and my ex around; both wanted to get off but I refused in a friendly manner maybe I flirted a bit with my ex and a girl in my gang, Ann, was there, she told my friend David ...
A. 17 October 2006: okay, your situation sounds really confusing. But I get the basic message. I have never had that problem. My sisters say Im mean but I think Im just "selective". I only hang out with people I really do like. If anyone I dont like comes along they ... (read in full...)
Gf is mad because she thinks I want to spend xmas eve drinking with my mates and I don't! What should I do?
Q. I need help because my girlfriend is driving me up the wall. Yesterday at some point she said she hates Xmas eve because she's 17 (I'm 21) and therefore too young to drink (in the UK) at the end of the day i text her saying do you mind if i go out ...
A. 17 October 2006: I agree with MissMo. Its easier to just say your sorry and spend christmas with her than try and convince her of something. trust me, she can't believe you now that she's said she doesn't, she wont, its a matter of pride.... (read in full...)
He wants me to shave my fanny and I don't know how!
Q. hey i met this guy when i went to austria with the school and hes coming over to see me but he wants me to shave my vagina and i really dont no how to go about it please help its really embarsing!!!!x:X:x ...
A. 17 October 2006: hey, I'd always thought about it, wondering how it would feel being "hairless" down there. So one day I gave it a shot. I shaved the lot. I started by shaving with the direction of hair growth to remove most of it and I was left with stubble so I ... (read in full...)
My gf self-harms and I am very concerned! How can I help her?
Q. Subject - Grave concerns over self harming girlfriend I and my girlfriend are teens and have been together for several months and love each other very much. Everything is working well in the relationships exept that over the time we have been tog...
A. 17 October 2006: My best friend used to cut herself... I found that people only do it for two reasons. 1. they want attention. or 2. they can find relief from emotional pain by causing physical pain. Now for people that want attention the best way to stop it is to ... (read in full...)
I am tired of always consoling my bf's bad moods with sex. Should I just end this?
Q. My boyfriend is trying to use me like a feel good drug. Whenever something bad happens I have to give him emotional comfort and he tries to have sex with me no matter how I feel about it that particular day (not rape, it’s just I’m tired of tedious ...
A. 26 April 2006: honestly, tell him how you feel, its not going to get any better if he doesnt know. If he wont listen when you try to give him advice then dont give him advice, tell him you dont agree with what hes doing then when it doesnt work out say "i told you ... (read in full...)
Who do I choose...the guy I like who doesn't talk to me or the other guy, I don't like but really likes me?
Q. This is kind of complicated, but here goes!: I have really liked this guy for ages. He is really funny and sweet, but everyone used to think he's a nerd. I'm not very popular, but I thought I might have a chance with him. Recently he's become very ...
A. 26 April 2006: Well, personally I'd go for the one who likes you but you dont like, that way you'd make tha other one jealous, but if he doesnt get jealous coz he doesnt like you then at least you'll have a nice, funny, popular guy as a boyfriend right?... (read in full...)
Is this becoming more than friends??
Q. I have a dilemma concerning a female friend. We have been mates for a while now and it seems to be getting more than just friends. I am starting to feel things that i dont normally feel. We spend a lot of time together after nights out chatting in ...
A. 26 April 2006: yup, either she really really likes you or shes an alien bent on abducting you and serving you for dinner. Let her know how you feel, tell her that you like her and that you'd like to be more than friends, but you dont want to ruin your freindship ... (read in full...)
We both like each other but our friends disagree and she says she will hurt me!!!
Q. What do I do with this girl? I like her and she likes me but she is insistant that it wont work out between us because our friends disagree with it and she is afraid she will hurt me....
A. 26 April 2006: There are a few solutions to your problem. 1. Act sorta anry and hurt next time she regects you, tell her she should at least give you two a chance considering that you both like each other. Tell her how much you like her and that If it doesnt w... (read in full...)
How do I get space from my 'friend with benefits' so I can date this new girl??
Q. hey, I like this girl at work i am 16 and she is 17 im not sure what but as soon as i seen her for the first time i just liked her vibes and she is super cute and she has all of the qualities that im looking 4 but i have this problem. I was talking ...
A. 26 April 2006: I kinda sympathise with your 'friend with benefits' and I have a funny feeling that you'll end up back with her after you've dated this chick from work. Anyway, I wouldnt worry about ending your relationship with your friend until you know that the ... (read in full...)
How do I get this guy to notice me, when I am no good at anything?
Q. I need help I really want this boy to notice me he is 3 years older than me im 15 hes 19 and i am no good at anything i just want to be able to make him notice me please help...
A. 26 April 2006: hey, it all depends on how you know him. You dont need to be good at anything, just get into his social-circle somehow, coz unless you look like paris hilton he wont notice you until he meets you (I might be jumping to conclusions here, you might ... (read in full...)
I'm so shy..give me advice on how to get the courage to talk to this boy I like.
Q. Im so shy around this boy i really like him and i just cant get the courage to talk to him can some one give me advice how can i get the courage to talk to him....
A. 26 April 2006: hey, iv always had that problem and then one day I realised that i was only nervous because I didnt want him to know how I felt. So start the relationshp as a friend. Find someone who knows him and start from there. making sure you're only his ... (read in full...)
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