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writes:I saw one guy in the hospital when i went to visit my dad in the hospital..he was hospitalized too.his bed is just nearby my dad's bed.he's pretty handsome i think :)))i realized that he is looking at me when i suddenly wanted to turn over and look at him too.just dunno y?maybe he's just thinking that this girl is dark and she's a chinese. what do u think so?hmmmm.the next day when i went to see my dad.i realized that he was not at that bed anymore.i was quite disappointed and i went all over to find him.Finally i found him and he was looking at me.and i keep purposely pass by his ward to peep at him.then i realized that i had a crush on him.i had never felt that way towards a boy before.it's like true love.but i dunno how old he is and i even don't know his name!And my dad was discharged today and i haven had a chance to see him anymore.my mind kept thinking about him and i wanted to see him again very much.can anyone help me?I'm sooo annoyed.
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (11 March 2009):
 Wow, how shallow? You are in love with a guy because of the way he looks, because it can't be his personality, you don't know him and have never spoken to him, I doubt it's his athletic ability as he's in hospital, maybe he had some books that you consider to be good by his bed side, or you could hear your favourite song on his MP3 Player (probably what ever is at the top of the iTunes play list this week)!
Or you are not in love at all and just fancy him, which is normal and not that shallow. Get over it!
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reader, Starfish_2xtreme +, writes (11 March 2009):
I think if you want to see if he's still there, do it. Be careful and be sensible and don't jump in the deep end if this is you're first shot at love. Do what you feel is right, but use your head too, not just your heart.
Hope this helps babe!!
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reader, twilightdiamond  +, writes (11 March 2009):
 lol, really sweet. Can't help you though, but if you're one of the people that believe in true love, and fate etc. Don't worry, you'll see him again if you're meant to.
k c100 didnt have to be so mean about it. Teenagers have a right to have crushes and fall hopelssly in love. Its what they DO, right? ;)
I don't think there is any legal way that you can find him. So don't try, just keep living day to day. Have you seen serendipity? (John Cusack, Kate Beckinsale, very sweet, about two people that meet accidentally and fall in love then can't find each other again).
Sorry I couldnt help! ;)
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (11 March 2009):
 Once again, another post by another teenager who thinks they are in love! It cannot be true love because you never spoke to the guy, you had a crush on him and that is it.
If your dad has been discharged now then there is nothing more you can do, if you turn up to see this boy you like it will look a little crazy, he may get scared off if you just show up like that.
The best thing for you to do is move on, find another boy you think is cute and have a crush on him instead. But please, stop thinking you are in love! Love comes from a long meaningful relationship where you know that person inside and out. You didnt know this guys name hence it was not even close to love. When you are older you will find out what true love is, but for now just enjoy being young and thinking boys are cute rather than getting serious with them.
I hope this helps!
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