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writes: I have a dilemma concerning a female friend. We have been mates for a while now and it seems to be getting more than just friends. I am starting to feel things that i dont normally feel. We spend a lot of time together after nights out chatting in our rooms until the early hours of the morning and there are some situations that have happened that i have started to think that she likes me aswell. Only little instances like touching hands, eye contact and things like this. She also texted me one day saying that she kinda like the person ive become, and i wasnt sure what that meant!! It sounds stupid but im really scared that im falling for someone who I would never thought i would or could! Someone please give me some insight and tell me if im just being stupid!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2006): I'd disagree with twilightdiamond. Treat with caution!Sometimes when a girl develops a strong friendship with a guy, she displays signs of wanting more when actually, that's not what she wants.Girls love it when they can be "themselves" around a guy. There are so many guys out there who want "more" than friendship, girls can have a hard time being themselves around the opposite sex.If she does see you as a friend and you ask her out, she may get offended that you have abused her "trust" and were being her friend so that you could have more. She might think you only like her because you had other motives.Yes I know. Crazy. This can be the nature of a boy/girl friendship. Stay friends, and see how things progress. Avoid games (such as trying to get a response by making her jealous). If you want to make a move, make sure you are more sure, and be prepared for the possibility that you might lose your friendship with her.
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reader, twilightdiamond  +, writes (26 April 2006):
 yup, either she really really likes you or shes an alien bent on abducting you and serving you for dinner. Let her know how you feel, tell her that you like her and that you'd like to be more than friends, but you dont want to ruin your freindship if she doesnt feel the smae way. If your embarassed ask her in the dark or on an instant messenger service.
If you dont actually know if you like her or not ask yourself this; "what would you do if you found out she was dating someone". "how would you feel if she kissed you". "What would life be like without her".
She definitely likes you... and believe me I know, I do exactly the same type of things to my friend, we dated 3 years ago and now we r friends but I cant get enough of him. I miss him when hes not with me and im always wishing that he would tell me he likes me... but, I dont know how he feels......
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