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writes: hey,I like this girl at work i am 16 and she is 17 im not sure what but as soon as i seen her for the first time i just liked her vibes and she is super cute and she has all of the qualities that im looking 4 but i have this problem. I was talking to her friend at work which is a guy she goes to school with and i asked him you know if he liked her or anything and he said that they were sortta going out. So, i decide to back off and i was talking to my ex who is my now friend with benifits because her father dosent like me so we decided to clasify ourselves as with friend with benifits becuz we still love each other so we kiss and go place but her parents dont know.Anyhow, she is still in love with me like i said so she seems mad about this girl at work. What do i do about that? The next time me and this other girl work i ask her if they are dating she says she dont know whats going on between them so im saying their friend with benifits and i ask her if there ever could be a chance of an US getting together. She says maybe, how do i get awnser out of her?, She flirts with me so bad but yet she jokes (well i guess its a joke because she grins) you think you could have a chance at this i know its only the second week at work but id like to know so i can start spacing myself from my friend with benifits PLEASE HELP IM SO CONFUSED
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reader, prttymtlkitty +, writes (26 April 2006):
 She probably likes you, but being that she's sort of with someone she probably likes just the attention more so. Heck I still do. It could evolve into something more in time, but getting an answer from her now is not likely right now. So lets shift the focus back on your current girl. If your willing to drop someone you love for this new girl you barely know, isn't that grounds to start spacing yourself now cause if it isn't with this new girl it will probably be someone else sooner or later? Show you can stand on your own. Its cowardly not to leave one person until you know you have another.
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reader, twilightdiamond  +, writes (26 April 2006):
 I kinda sympathise with your 'friend with benefits' and I have a funny feeling that you'll end up back with her after you've dated this chick from work. Anyway, I wouldnt worry about ending your relationship with your friend until you know that the girl from work definitely likes you. I think she probably does and wants you to breach the subject. From the sounds of things shes a flirt. use that to your advantage and flirt back. When a girl flirts and grins she is usualy pretending its a joke to cover herself if you dont return her feelings. I dont think a relationship is a good idea though because her bf would be peeved, especially considering you three work together.
About your friend with benefits the best thing is to tell her that you dont know if how you 'feel' about her is 'love' because you havent really experimented with too many other girls, and ask her how he would feel if you dated other ppl, telling her she could to. I hope Ive been helpful. your problem reminds me of my ex. good luck
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