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writes: What do I do with this girl? I like her and she likes me but she is insistant that it wont work out between us because our friends disagree with it and she is afraid she will hurt me. Reply to this Question
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reader, indiansage +, writes (26 April 2006):
You have not mentioned how you two are. But it is clear that both of you are immature and need proper guidance. You have to be sure of your feelings for each other and trust each other. Without imlicit trust your relationship is doomed. Better to put an end to it. ut if you are really devoted to each other forget what your friends say. As they say it is better to have loved and lost rather than not have loved at all!
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reader, twilightdiamond  +, writes (26 April 2006):
 There are a few solutions to your problem. 1. Act sorta anry and hurt next time she regects you, tell her she should at least give you two a chance considering that you both like each other. Tell her how much you like her and that If it doesnt work out you havent really lost anything have you?2. (be careful with this one) Give her one more chance and if she still regects you then inform her that even though you care about her you cant wait around forever and you have desitded to try your luck elsewhere. Work the jealousy ploy, but again be very careful, it could backlash and you will get hurt.3. make her realise how much she likes you: -stare at her and when she looks at you dont turn away, just keep staring for a moment wistfully, sigh and turn away. If she looks away before you can do this then stop, she probably feels uncomfortable. -look really sad when she thinks you dont know shes looking.- draw her name on something and 'accidently' let her see it then act embarassed when she does.aside from all that you should tell her freinds how much you like her and that if they really cared about her they should give you two a chance. If they insist then its not really their buisness anyway, is it? And if it doesnt work out they can say 'I told you so' hope I was helpful
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