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... Send *henabear a private message | | | *henabear's profile:Well I have no college education. All I have is experience. I have been through things I want post on here but will reveal if you ask me privatley. My life is no secret. The thing I remark on as my qualification is I had a will of stone through it all. I gave myself advice in a journal all the time. I got through it all on what worked. All I do now is pass the working advice on. I am also an emotionally healthy female for my past and I can show anyone how to do the same. I am from cleveland TN . I lived in NY most of my early 20's. I guess what makes me tick is a need to be. A need to wake up everyday just to see what happens. Good or Bad I love being alive. I am currently in a long term relationship with a loving man. He is 32 I am 26. He has a beautiful 7 year old daughter who I have come to adore and love like my own. We have or disagreements. Like all couples, but we never yell, scream, or get physicall. In a relationship that's pretty close to normal..LOL |
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How can I cum more?
Q. Although i can cum several times, the amount of cum is small. Have i problem or how can i improve on the amount of cum?...
A. 15 November 2006: Oh wow one I can accually help with..LOL. I know the answer to this one. I had that same problem and I did learn how to ..squirt is the only way I know to put it. First off. You have to train your body to do it. some women can do it naturally others ... (read in full...)
My past relationships have caused me to breakdown and now my life is in shatters. How do I move on?
Q. dear cupid im a 48 yr old woman with 2 broken long term marriages behind me first 11 years second 17 years 2 grown girls one from each marriage i met someone when i was broken up from my second marriage he really made me feel he loved me i dident ...
A. 15 November 2006: You are one of many if that helps. But I feel your pain dear I do. I,m only 26 years old and in that time I have buried a daughter murdered by her father and a husband who killed himself due to drugs. I had a breakdown a few months later. I spent ... (read in full...)
I want my ex back now we are talking again!
Q. How do you get an ex-bf back? He was my first, then broke-up with me, we didn't talk for 2 months, and now we talk regularly and we've both told each other how we still care. We talk for hours on the phone and he still pays for everything when we go ...
A. 15 November 2006: Take it slow. Do not under any circumstances push it to fast. sounds to me like he is slowly easing his way into a seriouse relationship. Let him glide in easy and take comfort in knowing you are already there waiting for him. I know that need to ... (read in full...)
He can be so annoying so he said he would change for me - what if that isn't enough?
Q. Dear Cupid, my boyfriend and i are really in love but its just sometimes when were together he is sooooooo annoying and sometimes i feel like we spend to much time together but then other times i fell that i miss him soooo much and we don't spend ...
A. 15 November 2006: Ok slow down. The feeling's of confusion are normal in any relationship. What is not normal is asking a person to change. More details are needed to help you. What is it about him you want changed. Sometimes we find a person who just ALMOST fits ... (read in full...)
If I spend the night we might have sex again and I want to wait. Now he feels hurt!
Q. I am in love with my boyfriend, but we slept together last week and now I still want to be with him I just think that waiting until marriage to have sex is a safer and better idea for me right now. He said he was fine with that, but got hurt when I ...
A. 15 November 2006: WEll untill he accually tries to get you to have sex. I think your the one not being understanding. If he only wants to spend time with you and be close to you .I see no harm in that. If he starts pushing the issue of sex then you have a red flag. ... (read in full...)
Should I ask the girl he texted what happened between them? I feel like I wasn't told the whole story.
Q. hi, i posted a question on 8th march 06, the title was There is agirl calling and txting my boyfriend, he says they are just friends, is this true? i got 2 replies, i know it was a while back but im having the same feelings about the situation, what ...
A. 15 November 2006: I have one thing to say and the only advice I know to offer. Do not ask questions that you do not want answered. If you trust him and believe it. act like it. If you wanna trace this girl. You do not trust him or believe him. It could be he cheated. ... (read in full...)
Sex with him is painful and has caused me to bleed! Any advice?
Q. I've been going out with my boyfriend now for just over a month, but we're having terrible trouble having sex. My boyfriend is not my first sexual partner, but everytime we attempt to have sex the pain is unbelievable. I've slept with men more we...
A. 15 November 2006: Well the problem may very well be with you. Not that your doing something wrong in bed. But that you may have a medical problem causing you pain and bleeding. Sometimes yeast infections in the early stage. Or pressure build up on your cervix can ... (read in full...)
She has emotional issues but I'm not sure if it's this that affecting us or...is she stringing me along?
Q. Am I in a String Along Relationship? I've been dating my on/off girlfriend (we're both in our 30's) for 2.5 years. We started out as friends, but she pursued to date me (I'm female and date women, she never had), and succeeded after many month...
A. 15 November 2006: Oh dear you are in a mess. Hunny a relationship based on promises that are never kept is far from healthy or ok. You sound like a kind loving intelligent women. She sounds like she isn,t ready for the level this relationship is headed for. In same ... (read in full...)
I dont know him but I have feelings for him, how do I get over him?
Q. Hi, I think I just needed a bit of a rant and I didn't know who to talk to about this. I met a great guy 1.5 years ago. It was on vacation and my aunt introduced us (he's close with her family)...we hit it off and hung out all night and had a ...
A. 15 November 2006: My grandmother told me once that a women will hang desperatley to the the very last strand of hope. As females and romantics it takes us much longer to bury our emotions. There is no advice on how to stop caring about someone. The bitterness of loss ... (read in full...)
I really want a vibrator, does that mean Im weird?
Q. Okay, so, I really want to get a vibrator...but I am only 16 so I cant go into a sex store to buy one...what should I do? How should I get one? Am I weird for wanting one? Or is it kind of normal? I feel weird about it and dont want to tell any...
A. 15 November 2006: I think that wanting a dildo at 16 is not weird at all. I on the other hand though want to make sure your up to speed on certain medical conditions that can arrise from using one at your age. I started dabbling in toys at 13 years old. So I speak ... (read in full...)
Bf broke up with me and now..he thinks I tried to get people to beat him up! Not true..what do I do now?
Q. hi my bf just broke up with me and he is accusing me of trying to get some people to beat him up. and i didnt and i love him and i still want to be friends? what do i do??...
A. 14 November 2006: Sound's like a classic case of regret to me. Most people when they make a decision they later regret will often blame the person the made the mistake with. Alot of people have been known to do some really crazy stuff after a break up to get the ... (read in full...)
I've fallen in love with my teacher... and it's not just a crush!
Q. Hey everyone...I have a big problem. Im truly in love with my teacher. I know, I know, you are all going to say "no no, its a crush" but its so much more than that...trust me. I fell head over heels over him when we first started talking. I can tell ...
A. 14 November 2006: The odds of getting what you want are probably zero. Your wanting someone to justify how you feel. You don,t need that your already sure of how you feel. He is kind to you and listens to you probably because thats his job. I can,t tell you what to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriends ex-wife is still calling him up all the time and it's upsetting me!
Q. Hello, I would like some advice about ways to deal with my boyfriends ex-wife. She filed for divorce and has regretted it ever since. They have been divorced for two years now. They have two boys together (8 and 5). My boyfriend and I have bee...
A. 14 November 2006: Well first off and your gonna hate hearing this. He and his ex will always be connected by a common bond. The children. I am with a man who has been divorced twice now and has a daughter from a previouse relationship. she is seven years old. Her ... (read in full...)
What defines an adult relationship from a teenagers relationship?
Q. I broke up with my 18 year old bf 2 months ago and since then I've been trying to work out why it fell apart even though we loved eachother to death, and I've finally cracked it. It got too BIG. Everything was heavy and important and serious, and ...
A. 14 November 2006: Thats a toughy..An adult relationship can have it's childish moments too. A relationship is not always based on the level of love we have for the other person often it is based on compatablity. As you get older different things become more ... (read in full...)
Standing by your man... Love or stupidity?
Q. How do you know when standing by your man is love or stupidity?...
A. 14 November 2006: I guess I want to be clearer on what I mean. I know there is a limit to how far you go for someone you love. But love also makes you blind..I feel like the blind following the blind. So I,m asking for an outside perspective on it. How much time do ... (read in full...)
How should I deal with my depress boyfriend... ? He's bringing me down too!
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for about 6 months now, sometimes it feels like we get real close, and then other times he distants himself from me. We talked the other night and he told me he was depressed and didn't know why. This depression of ...
A. 14 November 2006: sounds to me like he needs real help. You can't help someone who is depressed. Most times depression is a medical condition due to a chemical imbalance. He probably doesn,t even realize he is depressed. But with most men his pride also will probably ... (read in full...)
We're in bad marriages and are having an affair. But I just don't know if he wants to spend time with me?!
Q. I am married and also in a relationship with a married man. Our spouses are very much alike, so we can relate to each other. We are both in bad marriages, but do not want to punish our children by divorce. This has been going on over 2 years. I ...
A. 14 November 2006: Well a relationship created out of two broken homes was red flag number one. This is not a real relationship sweety. This is lying and sneaking and not wanting to get caught. You both now have a common problem. Your both to weak to walk away. You ... (read in full...)
He a lot older and he wants to marry me. But I feel..I should explore more?
Q. hi, im a 19 year old girl and i have being going out with my 27yr old boyfriend for two years. i look older for my age and am quite mature for my age so initially my boyfriend didnt see a problem with the age gap.me on the other hand, i did cos im ...
A. 14 November 2006: Well kitten your right about one thing. You will no matter how mature you are hit an age when you wonder what you did with the last five years. then ten years and so on. If your wanting to explore differnt levels of love. Then you should go off. If ... (read in full...)
My long distance lover type guy won't let me come to his city!
Q. my not really a boyfriend more of a lover type guy is very sweet and attentive. it's a long distance relationship. he comes to see me on average every 5 weeks from late friday night to early sunday morning. we always have a great time (i know i do, ...
A. 14 November 2006: wow.you have a man with the classic peter pan syndrome. you poor thing. It sounds to me like the reason this man is avoiding a deeper commitment with you is because he isn,t ready to leave the nest. Most men have a really hard time growing up and ... (read in full...)
My bf wants us to sleep together, but I am afraid, what do I do?
Q. my bf wants us to sleep together, and you'll think this is stupid b/c we're both mid-20s, but we've never done it before (with anyone - not just each other), and he's ready, but i'm nervous. i grew up in a real religious family, so i started out ...
A. 14 November 2006: Normal is an understatement. I,m sure several things are going through your head like. if I have sex with him will he think less of me. Or mabey the pain factor. The act of sex in a relationship is very emotional for both parties. Often though more ... (read in full...)
My fiancee is obsessed with internet porn! Should I be worried?
Q. My fiance is obsessed with internet porn. i Have asked him to stop because we keep having problems with our computer and he has not stopped. Should i be worried that he won't stop? the porn he looks at is all free. ...
A. 14 November 2006: Well personally i think you shouldn,t worry unless it becomes a real relationship problem. I mean ask yourself this would that hot sexy model even give my man the time of day. Not being mean but be real. Do you honestly think he stands a chance with ... (read in full...)
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