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*eachblonde11
writes: Dear Cupid, my boyfriend and i are really in love but its just sometimes when were together he is sooooooo annoying and sometimes i feel like we spend to much time together but then other times i fell that i miss him soooo much and we don't spend enough time together. He really loves me and said he will change for me but what if its not enough?? yes i love him but its only sometimes when i don't know what i want but if i lost him then i would not act the same please help! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, thenabear +, writes (15 November 2006):
Ok slow down. The feeling's of confusion are normal in any relationship. What is not normal is asking a person to change. More details are needed to help you. What is it about him you want changed. Sometimes we find a person who just ALMOST fits what were looking for so we try to mold them to complete the image we have. That is never fair to the other person. You have to learn to love a person flaws and all unless the flaws are severe. How severe are we talking here?
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