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writes: How do you get an ex-bf back? He was my first, then broke-up with me, we didn't talk for 2 months, and now we talk regularly and we've both told each other how we still care. We talk for hours on the phone and he still pays for everything when we go out. I guess I'm confused, because when we broke up he felt that we were getting too serious, and he wasn't ready for a commitment.
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reader, thenabear +, writes (15 November 2006):
 Take it slow. Do not under any circumstances push it to fast. sounds to me like he is slowly easing his way into a seriouse relationship. Let him glide in easy and take comfort in knowing you are already there waiting for him. I know that need to push for faster results. Been there, done that, got dumped for it. Sometimes we must let all things take there own course in there own time. Of course if to much time starts to pass then you need to re-evaluate the situation. But for now be happy in the moment, and try not to dwell to much on tommorrow. That day isn,t garanteed anyhow.
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