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writes: My fiance is obsessed with internet porn. i Have asked him to stop because we keep having problems with our computer and he has not stopped. Should i be worried that he won't stop? the porn he looks at is all free.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2006): what the last poster is saying with her statement
'Do you honestly think he stands a chance with those women. Of course not that is why he is looking. Most people want that wich they cannot have' is really disrespectful. Its saying that the OP isnt as good as the porn models and that the male would 'obviously 'rather them but cant get them...How rude and completely demeaning to the real and beautiful women who are being rejected for porn stars who arnt even half as beautiful as any real woman.
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reader, thenabear +, writes (14 November 2006):
 Well personally i think you shouldn,t worry unless it becomes a real relationship problem. I mean ask yourself this would that hot sexy model even give my man the time of day. Not being mean but be real. Do you honestly think he stands a chance with those women. Of course not that is why he is looking. Most people want that wich they cannot have. Also invest in a good virus blocker.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006):
I guess if he was really obsessed I'd be worried. Go google 'obsession' and you can probably get a medical questionaire to check over. Obsessed isnt the same thing as really liking.
How did you determine he is "obsessed"? Obviously the computer is still working to some degree, or he couldnt be using it. I dont think he believed your dictate was creditable.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006): Free or not i wouldn't be very pleased!! Saying that men are men is quite wrong, they are what we allow them to be and if that mean obsessive perverts then so be it. But i for one don't like and won't tolerate this degrading rubbish. Have a good talk with him and let him know how you feel. Take care and i hope it all works out for you. xx
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reader, Finding My Way +, writes (10 November 2006):
Peoples opinions on pornography vary quite considerably, which is why Annonymous Female below might have thrown you a bit of a curve ball...
You need to figure out how you feel about it and tell him. Of course just because you dislike it doesn't mean he has to. For him to understand you need to tell him WHY you feel the way you do about porn. Do you find it degrading to women, does it make you feel insecure about how attractive you think he finds you?
Porn can be a very healthy part of a relationship. You could even try watching smoe togethter, if that doesn't repulse you too much!
Of course, if his use of porn is geting out of control, then he needs to keep it in check.
I'm sure if you tell him how you feel and he tells you how he feels you can sort this problem out.
Good luck...
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006): Its Not natural. its totally degrading and you DO NOT have to put up with it. Men will treat you however you like.....Poison, how could you give such bad advice?????? Instead of telling women to tolerate this disrespectful activity tell them to have self respect and stand up and demand he stop or leave. When more women in the world start rejecting men who use porn...men will stop using it..
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reader, poison_0250 +, writes (10 November 2006):
 Boys are really boys as they are... they love looking at porn pictures.. so thats natural at all.. dont worry about that maybe it would help when you together will have your sex.. Good luck...
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