Anal sex and condoms?
Q. My boyfriend of two years and i are both virgins. I have known him forever and know that there is no chance that he has ever slept with anyone and therefore he has no std's. We are considering trying anal sex but i was wondering how important it ...
A. 5 November 2010: Hi,
I wouldn't have anal sex. I've done it once with my boyfriend of 1 year and it hurts! And you will probley hurt for days and days. It just isn't natural. If you really want to try it make sure you are totally turned on and in the romantic kind... (read in full...)
How do I become more than your "nice guy" ?
Q. I will be 25 within the next couple months and have never had a girlfriend. I've kissed two girls and by some miracle lost my virginity a few years back, so I've had sex a total of one time in my life. I don't really go around broadcasting this ...
A. 5 November 2010: Hi,
First off you seem like a great guy. You do all this awesome stuff for our country and many women should respect that. We all have a dread of ending our days alone..You are still young though and there is plenty of time for that special pers... (read in full...)
All I have ever wanted is a true friend, one that doesn't back stab you and is loyal
Q. All I have ever wanted is a true friend, one that doesn't back stab you and is loyal, never happened yet and I have become quite cynical now and I find it hard to get close to people. I recently got close to a guy who knew I was shy and lacked ...
A. 5 November 2010: Hi,
It is very hard to find good friends. I agree with you there. The guy you mentioned seems to be a real jerk. Dont waste time worrying about him. You deserve better. If you ever want to talk send me a message. I am on the hunt for good frie... (read in full...)
Lately I've been feeling really sad and lonely and it's not my personality at all
Q. DearCupid. i know this is relationship advice but i don't know who else to ask. Lately i've been feeling really sad and lonely and it's not my personality at all. i keep getting stressy and my friends; having low self esteem, being extremely ...
A. 5 November 2010: Hi,
Everytime you get distracted, remember you need your education. Learning is a gift, so focus with all of your mental strength you can muster. You and you alone have control over your mind. Put it to good use in the classroom. And you have plen... (read in full...)
I kissed someone else.. I just wanted to be loved
Q. I went to a party saturday with my theatre group, I havn't seen my boyfriend in a few weeks- well I have but we havn't been intimate in ages. At the party I stayed over and one of my guy friends started kissing me.. and I just couldn't stop myself. ...
A. 5 November 2010: Hi,
You are too young to think you have found someone you will stay with forever. Trust me, I went through the same thing when I was 16. I met a guy and he treated me badly and we didnt have a very affectionate relationship, he was a horrible pers... (read in full...)
Why is he doing this to me? He told me he'd never cheat on her
Q. I'm pretty confused and fed up right now. I liked this guy for quite a while, we've even slept together in the past but that turned out to be a complete disaster as, yes you guessed it, he didn't want the same thing i did. So, i stopped sleeping ...
A. 5 November 2010: Hi,
He is doing this because he is a selfish man. He has a girlfriend and wants to mess around with other He doesn't truly care about you or her if he gets in touch with you and mentions hooking up. He doesn't respect her or you. A cheater is a chea... (read in full...)
I think I am not "in love" with my boyfriend of 8 years anymore, and now an old crush is back on the scene I don't know what to do!
Q. I am in a relationship which I been in for 8 years, I love him but not sure if I'm in love with him. I have recently been in contact with a old crush and the past 2 weeks we got close, my heart telling me to be with him but I don't know please help ...
A. 5 November 2010: Hi,
If you are losing feelings for your partner of 8 years, I would consider breaking up with him. True love is never ending, and if you are connecting with another man, chances are you aren't meant to be with your boyfriend. Listen to your hear... (read in full...)
I can't put up with this abuse any more...
Q. Well me and my baby's dad been together for 5 years, and a little after a year he started throwing things at me, yelling at me, now its kicking me, socking me in the side of my head and at times he does it in front of our kids and he only does it if ...
A. 5 November 2010: You are not dumb. Get out of this relationship now. Love is NEVER violent. He does not love you and he does not respect you. You do not need him. He has no right to hurt you. Get away from him however you can. Remember there is EVIL everywhere, and ... (read in full...)
I have been having terrible low points , I'll range between venemously angry to bursting into tears for no reason
Q. What is up with me?? I am a fairly normal female, great boyfriend, great friends and family, love my job...But my God do I get hormonal these days! I don't know if it's PMT or what, but the past 5 months I have been having terrible low points ...
A. 5 November 2010: Hi,
Life can be hard sometimes. Even the happiest people in the world occasionally have "low points." This happens to me sometimes too, and I also have a loving boyfriend and family just like you mentioned. I think you should try channeling all on t... (read in full...)
I need help, I have just found out that my boyfriend of nearly 2 years has another girlfriend
Q. I need help, I have just found out that my boyfriend of nearly 2 years has another girlfriend, he is the navy and away a lot, i thought things were great with us but he has been seeing her for 5 years so you could say that i am the bit in the side, ...
A. 5 November 2010: Hi,
The truth will set you free. She needs to know. Tell her everything you believe is important. Remember you have done nothing wrong. Your boyfriend is the one who will carry all the blame. Men like him give the rest of them a bad name. At leas... (read in full...)
Boyfriend google searching other girls, I am dumbfounded
Q. Dear Cupids, I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about 11 months. We see eachother around two or three nights a week due to our conflicting work schedules. He is a sweet, loving and loyal man for the most part. The only time we argue...
A. 3 November 2010: Thank you guys so much for all of your wonderful answers...they have really helped with this dirty little issue ... (read in full...)
Am I destined to be alone because I don't want children?
Q. I am a 25 year old female and I do not have children. I dont want children- never have and never will and this is something that I will not compromise on as its not fair to bring a child into this world that is not wanted. Anyways, that ...
A. 3 November 2010: Hi,
No, you are not destined to be alone. This is 2010 and there are plenty of people who have no interest in having children whatsoever. Perhaps you are hanging around the wrong type of men. Have patience and faith, and the right man will come into... (read in full...)
Why am I not supposed to know?
Q. My husband won't tell me what he did in bed with his ex wife of 20 years. What is he hiding? Is this an open relationship? I'm pissed!...
A. 3 November 2010: Hi,
I personally wouldn't want to know the answer. My boyfriend of 1 year was in a relationship with a girl for 7 years, and I've never been curious about what they did together in bed. It would hurt too much, I mean imagine if he your husband does... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend keep looking at porn???
Q. I've caught my boyfriend for the second time looking at porn and masturbating over it. I hate the thought of my boyfriend looking at other naked girls on the internet and wanking off to them. Iv been seeing him for just over 2 years and its ...
A. 3 November 2010: Hi,
You have made it quite clear to your boyfriend that you disaprove of him watching porn. He has continued to watch porn, and in my opinion he is disrepecting you. If he cares enough about you, he will take your feelings into consideration. Love... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend keep looking at porn???
Q. I've caught my boyfriend for the second time looking at porn and masturbating over it. I hate the thought of my boyfriend looking at other naked girls on the internet and wanking off to them. Iv been seeing him for just over 2 years and its ...
A. 3 November 2010: Hi,
You have made it quite clear to your boyfriend that you disaprove of him watching porn. He has continued to watch porn, and in my opinion he is disrepecting you. If he cares enough about you, he will take your feelings into consideration. Love... (read in full...)
If he needs to watch porn does it mean I am not enough?
Q. I am not sure whether to be offended or not I've been with my boyfriend for roughly 2 years and the only time ive known him to put porn on is when he is trying to wind me up by putting it on the computer so i can see it, but i have recently noticed ...
A. 3 November 2010: Hi,
Your boyfriend watching porn is obviously bothering you, otherwise you wouldn't be thinking about it so much. I'd advise you to tell him you don't approve of him watching porn. If he loves you, he will make an effort to stop.
As many of the o... (read in full...)
I have a big question about men cheating.
Q. I have a big question about men cheating. i want to start by admiting that not all guys do, and that i know a lot of girls do to. also, i want to clearly explain why most cheating girls do.. if its not for revenge, its because they're vulnerable. ...
A. 3 November 2010: Hello,
The most noble thing I've read about cheating is this, "Cheating isn't about greed. Cheating is about how little the other person means to you." I think this makes perfect sense. If a man doesn't care about you, of course he will seek to plea... (read in full...)
Nightmares About my Boyfriend's Past Have Completely Invaded My Mind.
Q. Sorry this is long, but I am in real need of help. My boyfriend used to go out every night last summer, either to a house party or a night club with his friends. In September of that year we met, and began dating. I have never been a jealous p...
A. 3 November 2010: I would just ask him, couples should have nothing to hide from one another. And stop worrying! You're wasting your time there. You are going to have to accept his past if you two are going to continue in a relationship. If his previous actions are ... (read in full...)
How can I feel confident when guys clearly want something I'm not?
Q. I find it very hard to feel confident in myself. I can't help but notice that most guys my age (and even older, who you'd think would be more mature) think that plastic, fake looking women are "perfect". I see it countless times on Facebook, blogs, ...
A. 3 November 2010: Hi,
I think you need to learn to love yourself. I know that sounds silly and cliche, but its the truth. Stop wanting what others have. The greatest gift you can give yourself is self-love.
There is nothing more beautiful than a "real woman". ... (read in full...)
He doesn't masturbate to porn but still watches it regularly?
Q. I know this is yet ANOTHER complaint about porn, but i'm just trying to understand my fiancé. Before me he had not had a for filling sexual relationship (i.e barely ever did anything sexual with his girlfriend). I was aware he watched porn bef...
A. 3 November 2010: Hi,
I think he should take into consideration your feelings. Let him know how much him watching truly hurts you. If he respects you enough as a woman, he will stop watching porn. If he continues to watch it, you need to ask yourself whether or not ... (read in full...)
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