In a relationship where he's never said I love you
Q. My bf and I have been in a relationship since June this year, and he has never said "I love you". He says he loves being with me and can't imagine his life without me. He says he thinks I'm perfect like an angel. When songs come on that t...
A. 3 November 2009: As most of us women do, we get into our own head and start to concentrate on all the the things we would like for him to do and where we want things to go instead of enjoying what is happening and developing at the moment. I think it is wonderful ... (read in full...)
What does a girl do when she's on top?
Q. I don't know what to do when I'm on top!! help! ...
A. 31 July 2008: Woman on top...just get on. LOL. When you're there you can either bounce up and down, which a lot of women do. You can lean back and let him watch you and you go up and down. Or you can lean forward and have your butt move up and down...now this one ... (read in full...)
I want to be with someone who doesn't treat me horribly, but I love my boyfriend.
Q. Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for a year and eight months now and having arguments has always been our "thing"; anyone who knows us knows this. We never intended for that to happen, though, we just disagree on really one thing: Who's to blame for ...
A. 31 July 2008: P.S. you can have the talk with him...and guaranteed he will tell you that he will try to change and the he cares about you and that he's sorry. but someone like that will never change. trust me. it's a classic case. he will sweet talk you and get ... (read in full...)
I want to be with someone who doesn't treat me horribly, but I love my boyfriend.
Q. Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for a year and eight months now and having arguments has always been our "thing"; anyone who knows us knows this. We never intended for that to happen, though, we just disagree on really one thing: Who's to blame for ...
A. 31 July 2008: First of all, you can never change a man. He isn't going to all of a sudden change into the man you want him to be...usually that means you want to be with a different man if you're trying to change someone. There's a difference between asking ... (read in full...)
Does he chat with her instead of spending time with me?
Q. My boyfriend had this girl add him on Msn, he doesnt know who she is and she started talking about sex and trying to have cyber sex with him. I told him i wasnt too happy about it (he would go mad if it was me!) He says he deleted her and doesnt t...
A. 31 July 2008: I wouldn't tell him about the snooping LOL. I would just have a talk and give him your concerns. Then tell him, if he really did delete her that he can show you the account so you can see for yourself. But that's my crazy way of dealing with things. ... (read in full...)
Have I lost her forever? She has no patience left for me...
Q. Ok so if you have read my other question you already know what has been going on somewhat, but for those who havent. My girl that i am madly in love with has decided she wants to know what its like to be single. To not have to worry about anyone but ...
A. 31 July 2008: When people break up there are a lot of feelings and thoughts that run through our heads. Some you have listed already. It's difficult but you have to understand that she has pretty much made her decision: she wants to see what else is out there for ... (read in full...)
My g/f has trust issues because most of my friends are girls. It's so annoying!.
Q. My girlfriend and me have together for a year. But there's one problem, she has some body issues (she wears baggy clothing) and trust issues (thinks 'im cheating - which i'm not) all because most of my friend are girls, It's annoying. ...
A. 31 July 2008: Have you spoken to her about this? Sat her down and let her know that it bothers you that she doesn't trust you and that she has these issues that she needs to work on because your relationship is suffering because of it?
If not, then sit her down... (read in full...)
Should I stay in my relationship if I'm not really happy?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and a half. We haven't been intimate yet. I know it's because he is paranoid about pregnancy. I went on birth control; the mirena, so I can't get pregnant in 5 years. I live with my mom and siblings and ...
A. 31 July 2008: Time apart is supposed to make people miss each other. If he has a busy schedule, you hardly ever see him, (and you like him) then it makes sense that you would want to spend more time with him. That means that there is a connection there. However, ... (read in full...)
I really could use some help at the moment and she let me down!
Q. Hello everyone, I've been having a really hard time lately. My Dad had a serious operation and isn't recovering so well. The doctors say he's going to be fine but I feel sick with worry. Also I recently lost my job and need to borrow some mone...
A. 11 July 2008: I'm so sorry that you're going through such a difficult time. Do you have anyone else besides your girlfriend that you can talk to about everything you're going through right now?
About your girlfriend...I'd like to say that I'm not trying t... (read in full...)
By having unprotected oral sex, I may have contacted a disease of some sort, what do I do?
Q. I'm acared migh have caught something. I gave a ex friend a bj and he has been with alot of girls. We didn't use any form of protection. Im lost in thinking maybe i got something from him. I'm with a new boyfriend its been 8 months and he want to do ...
A. 11 July 2008: I understand that you're scared, and not to scare you more, but you really need to get tested because sometimes for some diseases...there are no symptoms at first. Be brave, get the test done. That way you make sure you haven't contracted a disease ... (read in full...)
Are we in a relationship, just without the label? Is he worth it?
Q. ok, i was wondering if anyone could help me ... Basically, around three months ago i met this guy, and we hit it off immediately. we dated for about 3 weeks, and then it all ended because he told me that he knew he didn't want anything more, a...
A. 11 July 2008: He slept with his ex? Whoa.
Well I would say if you know the answer then move on like Smile says. You don't need to be second string to anyone. I would say cut the sex out. Even if he says he "thinks" about asking you out...it's best to leave th... (read in full...)
Where do I "go" when I have to pull out?
Q. This is kind of a strange question but here goes. When having sex with an unfamiliar partner, where do you "cum" when you need to pull out? Is there some kind of ettiquette with this kind of thing? Seriously I never know what to do when that moment ...
A. 9 July 2008: Yeah, I agree, if it's an unfamiliar person then you really need to just use a condom and cum in it. Some guys even pull out when they are wearing a condom and cum in the condom that way. They don't want to run risks of having a baby. Better safe ... (read in full...)
I have been dating my girlfriend for a year and we haven't kissed, how do I make a move?
Q. i am 14 and i need help. my gf is 13 and we have been going out for 1 year. and i want her to kiss me but i dont know how to. plz help....
A. 9 July 2008: Just make eye contact. That's how it starts. You both look at each other, then look away, then look at each other again. You just look at her and then move closer. Lean in and she'll come the rest of the way to meet you. ;-) She's your girlfriend so ... (read in full...)
By having unprotected oral sex, I may have contacted a disease of some sort, what do I do?
Q. I'm acared migh have caught something. I gave a ex friend a bj and he has been with alot of girls. We didn't use any form of protection. Im lost in thinking maybe i got something from him. I'm with a new boyfriend its been 8 months and he want to do ...
A. 9 July 2008: Whenever you had unprotected sex, whether oral, vaginal, or anal, you should go to the doctor and get tested. It's the best way to make sure. Hopefully you don't have anything and you'll learn from this experience. :)... (read in full...)
I'm too shy to tell her I'm in love with her. Can you advise me please?
Q. Hi am Josian.... and i want it to ask you a question about love. I have a crush on a neighbour, but i am to shy to tell her that i love her. Please - do you have some advice for me? Thank you. sincerely Josian....
A. 7 July 2008: You have to overcome your shyness because if you don't, you'll never get the chance to create something truly wonderful. I would suggest that, although endearing and incredibly romantic, you should not tell her that you are in love with her. First, ... (read in full...)
Why don't I ever have an orgasm?
Q. Everytime i have sex i dont ever experice an orgasm, at least i dont think i do. Dont get me wrong i love having sex and it feels soooooo good. People say that all of you muscles tense up and everyhthing but i never felt that. After we have sex, my ...
A. 5 July 2008: When you have an orgasm, you know it. If you have to wonder if you had an orgasm, then I would say you haven't had one yet.
Now about the going down business, I don't really enjoy that either. There's nothing wrong with it. For me, I know that I ju... (read in full...)
Spit or swallow? Where should I spit?
Q. If I want to give my boyfriend head what do I do with the sperm? People say spit or swallow but I don't want to swallow so where do I spit it?...
A. 5 July 2008: #1 I agree...you are too young to be doing this for a boyfriend. Sex, in any form, complicates things so much. Would you be able to wait to do this for him until you were together for a lot longer? Wait until you're at least 17. Please. #2 If you... (read in full...)
Does he see me as girlfriend material??
Q. hey :) i am in need of help..... man issues... =/ This guy i sort of like was online on facebook.... he was idle though (inactive for 10 minutes) i said hi .... no reply.... he had been online all day acually,idle though, and then briefly went off...
A. 5 July 2008: You should be insulted. Girl, read that whole thing again to yourself but this time stop thinking about how much you like him. Lets go over this again: ''nope not me, so what you doing withme then you really want to spend some time together... (read in full...)
This girl likes me because I'm an A-hole!
Q. I'm getting with this girl who's great,but she told me she likes "assholes".. I used to be one and I didn't even realize that girls like me because of it. I somehow became a nice guy.. an now I realize she likes me when I'm an asshole or tough - ...
A. 5 July 2008: I can tell you that I agree...no girl EVER really likes assholes. They might say they like assholes, and I've said that numerous times, but the reality is that they don't. Although they might normally fall for that type of guy, what really attracts ... (read in full...)
I had a terrible, vivid dream about my boyfriend and his ex! Could it mean something?
Q. Hi there, Well last night i had this terrible dream, about my boyfriend going back to poland to see his ex-gf. And i followed him. And we met up and his ex-gf was pissed that i came, and so on. But we ended up staying at her house. I had my own room...
A. 5 July 2008: Some people say that dreams are the last thoughts before we fall asleep. It depends on whether or not YOU think it means anything. If you've been thinking about breaking up with him lately, then you have to wonder why it is that you want to brea... (read in full...)
Got with my best mate, split up, and now it's just a mess.
Q. well things between me and a guy friend of mine went totally out of hand and our friendship was ruined..he tried talkin to me,calling me but i ignored him and then he stopped calling me thinking that i dont want to be with him anymore and decided ...
A. 5 July 2008: I don't see how the friendship was ruined if he tried to talk to you about it. What it sounds like to me is that you're hurt and your pride is getting in the way. I don't know if I'm right. But either way...you should tell your friend that it b... (read in full...)
Are we in a relationship, just without the label? Is he worth it?
Q. ok, i was wondering if anyone could help me ... Basically, around three months ago i met this guy, and we hit it off immediately. we dated for about 3 weeks, and then it all ended because he told me that he knew he didn't want anything more, a...
A. 4 July 2008: There is nothing wrong about asking for the label. Plus, it's really unfair to you...whatever happened in a previous relationship has nothing to do with you. If he's confused and doesn't know what to do. Then you really need to take the advice ... (read in full...)
How long did it take you to learn to masturbate successfully?
Q. Just a general question for males/females with any sexual orientation: How long did it take you to learn to masturbate successfully? I have tried on a few occasions to pleasure myself and all I feel is highly ticklish and/or pain. I give up a...
A. 4 July 2008: Everyone's different. It takes some people a very long time to find out what they like and other people it takes no time for them to find out what spots to touch and how fast, how soft to go. Honestly, I believe it all has to do with how open you ... (read in full...)
I think I'm addicted to sex. What should I do?
Q. I am a 28 years old and I think i am addiced to sex. I go out with different girls but i don`t like the way i am doing. so please, what can you advice me? ...
A. 4 July 2008: I saw a documentary once about a guy who had the same issue. I think the best thing to do, if you don't like how the situation makes you feel, then you need to take your addiction seriously and see a therapist. A lot of people are put off by it ... (read in full...)
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