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By having unprotected oral sex, I may have contacted a disease of some sort, what do I do?

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Question - (9 July 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 11 July 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm acared migh have caught something. I gave a ex friend a bj and he has been with alot of girls. We didn't use any form of protection. Im lost in thinking maybe i got something from him. I'm with a new boyfriend its been 8 months and he want to do stuff but im afraid I might have something to give to him. Is it posible i caught somethng and if i did what could I have caught????

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A female reader, talker United States +, writes (11 July 2008):

talker agony auntI understand that you're scared, and not to scare you more, but you really need to get tested because sometimes for some diseases...there are no symptoms at first. Be brave, get the test done. That way you make sure you haven't contracted a disease or if you do, then you can prevent future partners from catching anything from you. You can do it! Best of luck.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2008):

Sorry there is no other alternative; they only way you will have peace of mind is to go to a doctor and get tested.

In future:

Don't have unprotected sex.

Don't wait, go and get the tests done; you are going to get your self sick with worries.

Good luck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2008):

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thanks he never used any form of protection with any of the gurls he was with.....which is why im worried. i dont think i have any symptoms.....im still worried though

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A female reader, talker United States +, writes (9 July 2008):

talker agony auntWhenever you had unprotected sex, whether oral, vaginal, or anal, you should go to the doctor and get tested. It's the best way to make sure. Hopefully you don't have anything and you'll learn from this experience. :)

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A female reader, Tremor Australia +, writes (9 July 2008):

Tremor agony auntHave you got any reason to believe you may have caught something? Do you have any symptoms, or are you just being a bit paranoid?

You /can/ catch some STDS though oral sex. Things like herpes, HIV, syphilis, chlamydia and gonorrhea can be trasnitted this way.

But if your ex used a condom with all the girls he's been with, and you have no real symptoms, you shouldn't have anything to worry about.

If you are really stressing about it though, go and see your doctor, and don't do anything with your new guy until you know you are clear.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008):

is there any signs of anything? is there anything in your mouth that is not normal? or anything else wrong? go to your doctor and just make sure you haven't caught anything.

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