I tried to spice up our love life but he was shocked
Q. Hope you can help and understand what i am asking I am not sure how to write this but hope you can get the jest in what what i am asking. My husband and I have been trying to get our marriage back on track after I found out he had been cheating on...
A. 8 February 2010: Dear Anon
are you doing all this because you want to? or just because you think by doing it and him being satisfied at home he wont stray again?
if this is the case i wouldn't bother trying anymore
if you truly have forgiven him and this ha... (read in full...)
How do I bring it up to her that I'd love to try oral sex?
Q. I am in a long distance relationship and we are very sexual whenever we are together how do i tell her that i want to try oral?...
A. 8 February 2010: Dear Anon
Broach the subject carefully but dont push
suggest it once and see her reaction, if its bad leave it for a few weeks and then gently broach the subject again
it could just be that she is nervous just as you are
communicate with ... (read in full...)
What could be wrong with my girlfriend?
Q. the girl i love has been really worried lately... she is worried because she feels like she always need to go to the toilet... she says it feels like she doesnt fully empty out... but a couple days she said her hair started falling like onl...
A. 8 February 2010: Dear Helpmeplz.x
Aswell as a UTI as Lexie88 said, i would be tested for throid problems however losing that amount of hair at a time is normal and unless people are looking for problems genearlly dont notice
Good Luck
Sydnee x
Feel f... (read in full...)
Does the amount of x's at the end of a text signify anything?
Q. Ok from both a guys and a girl point of view does the amount of kisses at the end of a text mean something? I know some people say it does but then again others dont. Some people like myself just but one x at the end to friends but do more x's man ...
A. 8 February 2010: Dear Anon
it's just personal preferance and unless there are other signals the chances are there is no meaning
personally i use one x at the end of all messages its just a habbit and usually are for other people too
Good Luck
Sydnee... (read in full...)
He only says nice things to me when he's smoking weed...
Q. i have been with my boyfriend over two and half years, i love him so much but he smokes weed all day which doesnt really bother me but it seems now thats hes only ever nice to me when he is high, when he hasnt had any weed he is really angry with me ...
A. 8 February 2010: Dear Tinker x your boyfriend is probably suffering withdrawal which causes anger weed is illegal and has been reclassified he could face a jail term if caught by police he needs to get off it to guarantee a healthy life if it is withdra... (read in full...)
Why does he resent me so much?
Q. I'm sick of this situation. My boyfriend gives me crap about my past almost daily! I have done nothing wrong, I've been faithful, I don't flirt, etc. Yet he resents me a lot. It's like if I had cheated on him and he resented me for that. Except I ...
A. 8 February 2010: Dear Anon Have you tried telling him how you feel? saying all these things to him? it could be that he has something on his mind thats bugging him and he wants you to question him i doubt your past is a factor because the relationship would ne... (read in full...)
I feel insecure in this relationship...
Q. We have been dating for almost three months and are close although we are at different periods of our lives. We have known each other for quite some time and work together very well. I am ten years younger than him and now just settling in conf...
A. 8 February 2010: Dear Anon As Caringguy says the realtionship is too young to be discussing a future whole heartedly however asking him straight may ease your mind do you love me and do we have a future if he beats around the bush the answer is no if he... (read in full...)
I wonder if she is going to break my heart again in this never ending cycle...
Q. About two years ago, i was in a relationship with a really great girl. i mean this relationship was so good, it was hard to believe. i truly believed this person was my soul mate. well, i was planning on asking her to marry me, when she started to ...
A. 8 February 2010: Dear Scar94019 Getting back with this woman isn't an option She clearly has no consideration for your feelings and getting back into the relationship will make you vulnerable again. if she is the kind of woman to marry someone after a week and... (read in full...)
Two failed engagements, I am now reluctant to try again
Q. i am a boy of 25 i had 2 unsuccessful engagement yet now my family is insisting to engage me again and sometimes i also feel to engaged but due to problems i had in the past with my x-fancies i can't deer to... maybe due to the mood i had i have...
A. 8 February 2010: Dear Murtaza It's your life, if you aren't ready for a new engagement wait a while, you're still young and you still have time take a break and when you're ready be prepared Good Luck Sydnee x ... (read in full...)
He ended it saying he had personal problems, but should I try to get in contact again anyway?
Q. Hi everyone i would like to give thanks in advice for the advice that is given :) wow, i have no idea where to start.. i was seeing a guy called liam over the summer of '09 and it ended as he wanted to get back with his ex (he was still in lov...
A. 8 February 2010: Dear Anon It's been a good while now since you were with Aidan why not get in touch? But, don't jump in with both feet, test the water see how he feels about things be friendly if it works out great! if not even after the time apart, move on i... (read in full...)
Unsure what to do now... Help!!!
Q. I met this guy at a bar of all places, i thought he was the bouncer, so i gave him my id and we started talking. Only to find out later that he wasnt the bouncer just some guy in a black tshirt who wanted to talk to me.. from the moment i saw him i ...
A. 8 February 2010: Dear Anon wow unfortunately this is down to him now theres nothing you can do except get on with your life, if he wants to be with you and only you he will leave her in time just keep on going and see how things pan out dont try and get b... (read in full...)
Many times I get the distinct feeling that he's avoiding sex. What's the problem?
Q. Please help. I am desperate for advice. I am in a very loving, mutually satisfying relationship with my boyfriend of one year now. We both agree that each is the best thing that has ever happened to the other and have even talked of marriage ...
A. 8 February 2010: Dear Anon You say that you are still in the honeymoon phase of your relationship. i persoanlly doubt this sexual desire is the first thing to decrease at the end of the honeymoon period and it could be just that if nothing else has chan... (read in full...)
Do you think Viagra will help my 18 year old BF's erection problems?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now, we're both 18 and we havnt had sex yet (also still virgins). we have been trying to do it recently but every time we try he loses his erection. it's happened 10 times now so we still havent had ...
A. 8 February 2010: Dear Anon Your boyfriends problem is purely about nerves. try gentle forplay to initiate arousal do something sexy and provocative settle his nerves he will be able to perform dont pressure him because this will make him nervous more comfort hi... (read in full...)
Is Facebook reflecting how I fail socially in the real world?
Q. Sorry, but this is post about using a social networking site to validate my worth as a human being. I am on facebook and I am not popular on there, nor am terribly popular in real life. I'm like a leper of facebook actually. Less than 30 friends and ...
A. 8 February 2010: Dear Anon you will probably find that because you dont use a picture of yourself 'randomers' and even casual acquaintances wont add you because they add people based on appearance if they cant see its definitely you they wont add just in case, if... (read in full...)
Cold shoulder. My fault or his?
Q. First let me start off describing my relationship with this guy, Samuel. I am head over heels for this kid and he knows it. We dated a while back, but he was having family troubles and we decided he needed to work things out. Recently we have been ...
A. 8 February 2010: Dear Taz3r you are either together, or not in my opinion it sounds like he is using you for what he wants because he knows he can, but doesnt want to commit himself tell him unless you are in a relationship officially there will be no more ... (read in full...)
Age gap relationship, good sex but for how long?
Q. i am 32 and i am in relation ship with 52 yr old man . our sexual life is good till now. may i know how long will it be? i love him very much...............
A. 8 February 2010: Dear Anon There in no possible way of knowing how long this period( Honeymoon Period) will last it can range between a few weeks and up to 9 months, however from your post i can tell that the only thing in this relationship that is working is se... (read in full...)
What's the best thing I can or should do about her ex who has reappeared after four years?
Q. so ive been best freinds with my girlfreind for 4 years, And ive been going out with her for 7months, when i came on the scene 4 years ago, i took the scene as her closest male freind. my girlfreind joined a college course this year, and she me...
A. 8 February 2010: Dear Agonyunclechris you are experiencing jelousy in its purest form she hasnt seen this boy for many years and him coming back with be like christmas for her so to speak things will soon settle down to normal just support her and be happy for her... (read in full...)
I had a bad feeling he's hiding something from me, so I went through his messages!
Q. I had a bad feeling that my new(first) boyfriend was hiding something from me.. for the simple fact that every time he got a msg he would turn his fone away so as i couldn't see it.. so after several opportunities to look thru his fone i finally ...
A. 8 February 2010: Dear Anon you say you trusted your partner before you saw his phone but if you look deep within yourself did you? if you trusted him you wouldn't have looked through his phone and this says to me that you dont really trust him to begin with whene... (read in full...)
He admits that he occasionally wishes he were single!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and I love him very much. It may seem fast, but I feel that he's the one and I would like to spend the rest of my life with him. However he has admitted that he occassionally wishes he was si...
A. 8 February 2010: Dear Anon I Agree with Cassie M my suggestion to you would to ask him to consider either a open relationship for a while: this will give him the opportunity to live his life as he wants while remaining with him, however this would be excrutia... (read in full...)
Am I paranoid? Am I overreacting? I feel trapped!
Q. Hi, yet another issue of trust Iv had a long discussion with my gf about her talking to her ex and this guy she lied about a couple of times and also kissed, told her it unsettles me and i dont really feel secure because of it. she- however - ...
A. 8 February 2010: Dear Anadin
I completely understand why you feel so unsecure
and it is disrespectful of her not to take your feelings into consideration, the fact that she avoids the questions could suggest that something is going on, she is using your emotion... (read in full...)
Is he moving way too fast?
Q. ok, so there is this guy I have been seeing for about 3 weeks now. But I dunno if I should keep this going, I feel it makes me sound shallow when I say this but I am not attracted to him in a phyical since. He is perfect for me in every way except ...
A. 8 February 2010: Dear Anon
If you need to ask if he is moving to fast, then Yes he is moving too fast
everyones relationships move at different speeds and this is obviously moving at a speed you don't feel comfortable with
talk to him
tell him that you f... (read in full...)
I've tried everything for 2 years and I STILL can't get over my ex!
Q. ok, so let me start off by saying what i've already tried. and this isn't to bash anyone's ideas or advice because trust me i really need them. I've tried hanging out with friends, visiting family. i even moved back in with my mother and am going ...
A. 8 February 2010: Dear Anon i have personally been in this situation and trust me i know how hard it is and this is the only way i found to get over him it's not going to be an easy thing to do and it will hurt more than anything but it has to be done Stay awa... (read in full...)
Copy of my ex and his new girl's conversations... can I get some opinions?
Q. Ok so this is a copy of what my boyfriend said to his new girlfriend just 2 months into there relationship. AND it is all the things he said to me but it took us time to build to these things and thats how they came to have such meaning. Anyw...
A. 8 February 2010: Hi Anon,
i'm going to be brutally honest here, you come across having a very jealous tone, you can't possibly know that he doesn't mean what he has said to her more than he meant it to you, it is possible that he has learnt how to wrap women ar... (read in full...)
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