Should I confront her husband and let him know what his wife has been doing with me for the last 2 years, or let nature take its course?
Q. well , where do i start , was working with this girl for a couple of years , we became the best of friends , would talk about every thing and any thing , she is married , im single , and has kids , i knew all this before any thing had happened , ...
A. 26 October 2011: I'm in a situation like yours. I've been in a relationship with a married man over a year. Sometimes I think about telling his wife but what good what it do? Most likely she still won't leave and he'll want nothing to do with me. You knew she was ... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend but I think I'm in love with this girl?
Q. I'm sorry if this is long but I really, really need advice. I am a 22 year old girl and I have a boyfriend, but I think I'm in love with this girl. She's in one of my classes in school and there's just something about her that.... well I don't rea...
A. 26 October 2011: Sounds like you may be bisexual. There's no stopping the way you feel. You have a boyfriend but it's not fair to him if you're having feelings for someone else. If you and this girl are close why don't you just tell her how you feel. You have to be ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to be that wet?
Q. when l have sex l become so wet n its so irritating coz den disgusting sounds are heard, this turns me off but he says its a turn on, im just 24 bt feel too loose when im wet and for me to feel him l hv to realy open up... is it me or it happens...
A. 26 October 2011: It's not a bad thing. Sometimes when I'm extremely turned on I get like that too. There's nothing disgusting about it trust me. If it feels like you're too loose try going to a sex shop like Starship. They sell something that tightens your vagina. I ... (read in full...)
Sex with my younger boyfriend sucks. How much time should I give him to improve?
Q. Hello, My boyfriend and I have known each other for almost a year. He is a very lovely and caring guy. He is also tall, handsome, dark hair, and muscular (ok he's really my type). He just moved from Poland to US when we first met. Since I came fro...
A. 24 October 2011: I think he should give him more time since he has such wonderful qualities. You also are more experienced so you should help him learn to improve. You know what you like so tell him. The first one will usually come fast. This is something new to him ... (read in full...)
Does he really love me? And why does he not want me to see other men, when he already has a wife he cheats on?
Q. ModNote: two adjacent related questions joined into one. I need advice. I am currently in a relationship with a married man. I am 28 and this has been going on for a little over a year. It started off as just sex but now I've fallen in love with...
A. 24 October 2011: D.C., I can only imagine how you feel after 4 years. I hope I can way before I end up in this for four years. You are right, no one can really understand this unless they have been through it. It's such an easy task to pass judgement on the next ... (read in full...)
How do I stop getting gossiped about and treated badly because I had an affair with a married man?
Q. I am in an awful situation right now. I had an affair with a married man. I am married myself. We both have children. It started out as harmless flirting but our feelings of attraction grew and we ended up crossing the line. We have the sam...
A. 24 October 2011: You should grow thicker skin and move on. I'm involved with a married man now and I am judged but I do not care what anybody says. I know it is wrong so when I hear these things they only make me stronger. Don't wait for people to forgive you, ... (read in full...)
Should I have a baby with this married man?
Q. I have a serious question that I know will ruffle A LOT of feathers but I'm sorry, I really need advice, I've been seeing a married man for a while and were very close, best friends more than lovers. Recently I have been getting urges to have a ...
A. 24 October 2011: I don't think you should do it because it would not be fair to the child. He/she deserves to have a mother and father. A married man is a liar! Please believe he will be doing this for himself, not for you. If he is giving you money now, then sure ... (read in full...)
He's married and won't always pay attention to me!
Q. Im 22.. And I'm having sOme affair with a 31 yrs old married man.. He says that he is not happy because her wife is already 51 yrs old and he really wants a baby.. Which her wife can't give because of the age (unable to bear a child) he's just ...
A. 24 October 2011: I am in a relationship with a married man and feel what you are feeling. I want more attention but I cannot get it. You didn't mention if you'd fallen if love with this guy so my advice is, if you haven't, run like the wind. I'm in love with a ... (read in full...)
He says he wants a baby with me but sits there in my house 5 nights a week without even contributing to the costs when he knows I am struggling!
Q. Hi everybody i'm basically very confused in my relationship and need some honest answer's, i don't know if im just expecting too much or am i being taken for granted. So im a single mum of two school children ive always been pretty Independ...
A. 24 October 2011: I think you have every right to complain. There's no way I would have a kid with him. You already have kids to take care of and you are struggling. He doesn't seem to care about you enough to help out. I've been you before. I had a guy living with ... (read in full...)
Is she being honest about my performance in the bedroom?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for 8 months, i have a really small and thin penis and don't think i pleasure her when we have sex. she has told me she has had some huge penises before and her last boyfriend was the biggest she has ever had but tells ...
A. 24 October 2011: It doesn't really matter what size your penis is. I have had both huge and small. But the fact is, when you have strong feelings for someone the sex is wonderful. A man can be huge but if the feelings are not there the sex is basically worthless. ... (read in full...)
I'm planning a big move to be with my boyfriend and my father is telling me it's the biggest mistake of my life!
Q. I'm planning on movine abroad and start living a life with my boyfriend. I'll be leaving in early spring, take 6 months to see how things go both work-wise and love-wise then, if things don't work out, get back here and get my old job back (already ...
A. 24 October 2011: You're 30 and if you feel like this move is the best thing for you then go for it. Sometimes parents can be a bit controlling and try to scare you out of doing things because they fear you will fail. If you love your bf and you have a good ... (read in full...)
Even though I love my new boyfriend to bits is it possible I still love my ex?
Q. Hello, just a short question. Even tho i have another boyfriend after my ex i think i still love him. I love my new boyfriend, but we have had some arguments. My ex hasnt spoke to me much since the break up he siad he still wanted to be friends, and ...
A. 24 October 2011: There are not too many things you can do to forget about him. How long did you wait before you got into a new relationship? After a break-up it's important to give yourself some alone time. This new guy could possibly be your rebound guy and he's ... (read in full...)
I fear I only love my wife as a friend, and to make things worse I have cheated on her with my ex....who do I really want?
Q. I am in my mid 30's. I have been married for 18 months to a woman I have been with for several years. Our relationship is fine but I fear I only love her as a friend. We have no kids. We rarely have sex and when we do it feels very unatural. I ...
A. 24 October 2011: If you do not love her then you should not be with her. The future will only hold more cheating and before you know it you will be miserable. You'll probably end up having kids with your wife and it'll be too late to leave because you will have ... (read in full...)
Does he really love me? And why does he not want me to see other men, when he already has a wife he cheats on?
Q. ModNote: two adjacent related questions joined into one. I need advice. I am currently in a relationship with a married man. I am 28 and this has been going on for a little over a year. It started off as just sex but now I've fallen in love with...
A. 23 October 2011: No,I don't want to waste my time waiting that's why I'm not. I'm not waiting for him to leave her. I'm trying really hard not to continue doing this. But it's not so easy to stop loving someone over night. If any of you have ever been in love, I'm ... (read in full...)
Does he really love me? And why does he not want me to see other men, when he already has a wife he cheats on?
Q. ModNote: two adjacent related questions joined into one. I need advice. I am currently in a relationship with a married man. I am 28 and this has been going on for a little over a year. It started off as just sex but now I've fallen in love with...
A. 23 October 2011: Hi, my kids do not know that he is married. And no, he has no kids with his wife. They both already had kids before marriage and they are grown. Anyway, I don't know exactly what to do that's why I'm here. No, I do not have any VENOM against his ... (read in full...)
Does he really love me? And why does he not want me to see other men, when he already has a wife he cheats on?
Q. ModNote: two adjacent related questions joined into one. I need advice. I am currently in a relationship with a married man. I am 28 and this has been going on for a little over a year. It started off as just sex but now I've fallen in love with...
A. 23 October 2011: I don't see it as being paid for sex because I don't have to have sex with him. I choose to. He is perfectly fine with just taking me out or coming over and laying in bed holding me. Yes, he most likely will deny what he is doing to stay with her. ... (read in full...)
Does he really love me? And why does he not want me to see other men, when he already has a wife he cheats on?
Q. ModNote: two adjacent related questions joined into one. I need advice. I am currently in a relationship with a married man. I am 28 and this has been going on for a little over a year. It started off as just sex but now I've fallen in love with...
A. 23 October 2011: I guess you are right. I am in his home even though he does not live here. And yes he has a wife to cook, clean, and have sex with. But I would not say that he has bought me and owns me. It's more like he owns his wife and she is his property. She ... (read in full...)
Does he really love me? And why does he not want me to see other men, when he already has a wife he cheats on?
Q. ModNote: two adjacent related questions joined into one. I need advice. I am currently in a relationship with a married man. I am 28 and this has been going on for a little over a year. It started off as just sex but now I've fallen in love with...
A. 22 October 2011: I never said he was married before. He was with someone who used him up. He gave her everything and she was never satisfied. After her he met the woman he is married to now. This is his first marriage. I'm not concerned about him leaving her because ... (read in full...)
Why didn't he want to continue?
Q. Please, please, I really need your help. I have so many mixed feelings now that writing this is hard. I had recently gave my bf my v-card. It was unexpected to him because I've planned it all to my self. We've dated for a year and up til now, all ...
A. 22 October 2011: It could be just the simple fact that he did not want to hurt you. Then there's the possibility that the sight of blood turned him off. This is really something that you should talk to him about. He obviously has strong feelings for you because he ... (read in full...)
Why is my fiance so kind to me and I don't return it?
Q. I am 28 and my girlfriend is 36 years old and but she is amazingly fit and looking stunning beautiful We are together for the last 2 years. I am not that explicit in expressing my feelings. When she says I love you , I just reciprocate her with...
A. 22 October 2011: You should definately start giving her the treatment she deserves or you will lose her. She is doing all the giving and you're doing all the taking. Why don't you tell her you love her? Do you know how that makes her feel? She probably feels that ... (read in full...)
I've painted myself into a corner and have no idea what to do!
Q. I think I may be depressed, and I'm not sure how to cope with it. The past year and a half has been a steady decline for me. It all started when I was academically dismissed from my university. I also found out I was pregnant the same day. I ended ...
A. 22 October 2011: I'm so sorry all of this is happening with you. I'm no doctor but you do sound depressed. You have been through so much. First of all, I think you need to be honest with your boyfriend. It's not right that he makes jokes about you not having any ... (read in full...)
Me? freshman still - does he really like me?
Q. hi. so i'm a freshman in highschool. i've liked this guy for a while, since school started pretty much. he's in my mentor group class, but thats only on fridays so i don't talk to him much. i'm a bit weird/dorky myself, and he's dorky as well. ...
A. 22 October 2011: There are chances that he does like you but no, there isn't much info in your post. Just remember that men like the chase of pursuit. Try not to make yourself to available or make it seem as though you have feelings for him because you don't really ... (read in full...)
My love crushes and unrequitted love have gone on for a while.Can I expect them to ever love me back?
Q. i am 13 years old. and i hav been in deep love with a guy i know for 3 years,(call him A) A does know i love him but he doesn't love me back.so i decided though at a very early age that i will wait for him to love me. i think he will even...
A. 22 October 2011: You are very young so learn at an early age not to wait for no man. You've stated that "A" knows how you feel and he is not returning these feelings. Now you have feelings for this other guy, does he feel this way also? And no, you should not feel ... (read in full...)
My ex will not leave me alone. And I'm afraid I'm letting things move too fast in my new relationship. Is my new relationship the answer?
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend of 9 months a month and a half ago. I guess you could say... I fell out of love. I was miserable, unhappy. Kisses and hugs felt... absolutely empty. I wanted to stay to make him happy but I started reverting back to ...
A. 22 October 2011: I don't think you're moving too fast. It would be different if you were only dating this new guy to get over your ex but you've made it obvious that the feelings for your ex are no longer there. You should do what makes you happy. You stuck... (read in full...)
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