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*ebeccaa
writes:Hello, just a short question. Even tho i have another boyfriend after my ex i think i still love him. I love my new boyfriend, but we have had some arguments. My ex hasnt spoke to me much since the break up he siad he still wanted to be friends, and he texted me a few times asking how i was. Even tho i love my new boyfriend to bits is it possible i still love my ex? and how do i forget about him? Thankyou
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reader, Rebeccaa +, writes (25 October 2011):
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (25 October 2011):
 its not that easy to get over someone but one very simple technique is to cut all contact with them.
if you are trying to alleviate feelings of love for someone, every time you get a text from them its going to bring it all back and you will be no further on.
being friends is fine but that can only successfully happen long after you stop having romantic feelings for them so if you want to improve things don't respond and ignore these texts until he stops sending them.
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reader, somebodyloved18  +, writes (24 October 2011):
you have to really ask yourself do you still love your ex. if you can't answer that question for yourself clearly then you don't need to be in a relationship right now. either you need to stop having all communications with your ex or stop being with your current boyfriend because things might start getting in between your now boyfriend and your ex boyfriend.
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reader, haribo2k11 +, writes (24 October 2011):
heyy :)well i've been in relationships before were i really thaught i had fallen in love with them , until i would see my ex and get butterflies and feel like i still like him.i think you should talk to your current partner and tell him how you feel and see if he understands,because it is possible u cud still have feelings for your ex!hope i helped!x
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reader, stressedandtired +, writes (24 October 2011):
 There are not too many things you can do to forget about him. How long did you wait before you got into a new relationship? After a break-up it's important to give yourself some alone time. This new guy could possibly be your rebound guy and he's someone you're using to get over your ex. If you seriously want to get over your ex you'll have to cut him out of your life for a while. If you still love him it will be very hard. That means, don't talk to him or text him. And most importantly try not to run into him anywhere. Tell him you need some time before you can be a friend to him. You have a new boyfriend and if you love him it shouldn't be too hard to stop talking to your ex. Enjoy your new relationship. You'll know when you're over your ex because you won't think about him or ever be tempted to call him. When you do start back talking to him, you'll actually be able to talk as friends.
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