My boyfriend is oblivious to his own insensitivity...
Q. I deal with an x-boyfriend. We have known each other for 5 years, 3 1/4 of which we were together while in undergrad. We now go to the grad school (different departments). 5 yrs ago, he mentioned he didn’t want to be like his father, who is by al...
A. 22 November 2005: I would say sit him down and tell him all this if he not going to change get out of this relationship and have fun ... (read in full...)
Oh no! I lied about being separated and having kids, then my boyfriend found out!
Q. I lied to my boyfriend a lot. I am separated and did not tell him that I was married or had kids. I am getting a divorce and he has found out. I do not want to lose him. What should I do?...
A. 22 November 2005: Just be honest with him if you care for this partner sit him down and talk to him open all your emotions and things that you have been hideing ... (read in full...)
My son wants to marry a woman 36 years older than he is!
Q. My 16 year old son has told me he wants to get married to his 52-year-old girlfriend now. what do I do? Please help me, I need your advice. Martyn in Watford, Hertfordshire...
A. 22 November 2005: I am 18 year old girl and i did the same until my mum staoped nagging me i decided to forget it. He just wants to be a adult to soon and what the hell is she up to she is a grown woman playing with a young man's feeling's if i were you i would have ... (read in full...)
I'm 14, he is 20! What if he finds out my age?
Q. i reali lyk dis lad called wayne. he is 20 and im 14 bt he finks im 15. i dnt fink age shud b a problem bt im scared incase he finds out and wants nothing to do with me. please help. i duno wot 2 do....
A. 22 November 2005: Your far to young babe if you like him you should be honest with him. He can get into so much trouble being with you and you dont want that and if he likes you you never know he might wait for you till you are sixteen. Just be honest to your self ... (read in full...)
I click with my friend on so many levels, but he just isn't physically attractive...
Q. I have a really good friend who has liked me for the past 6 months. I think he is an amazing guy and I love spending time with him. Our personalities click the only thing is, well on the physical scale he's is not what I look for. Should I just get ...
A. 21 October 2005: Try it you seem to like this friend it even might last longer than a normal relationship. good luck ... (read in full...)
Too much information from my housemate! What do I do?
Q. I have recently started uni and my housemate is really noisy when pleasuring herself and its even worse when her boyfriend stays. What should I do?...
A. 21 October 2005: Tell them to keep it down or try and get boyfriend of your own and beat her noises. if not try get another place. ... (read in full...)
My ex-teacher shares his romantic life with me, and I can't stand it!
Q. I'm madly in love with my ex teacher and it's killing me. Recently he got married and he emailed me telling me all about it, when I just don't want to hear it! He says we can't be friends and yet he tells me his life story and I do the same. Th...
A. 13 October 2005: keep away from him he is a man you go and experience life. he has lived his life allready please take care of your self.... (read in full...)
Will any boy ever wait for me to be ready for a sexual relationship?
Q. Hi I am 15. I don't really want sex or anything like that, and I am scared of the next step in a relationship which goes beyond just kissing. I am scared that I will never be able to get into a serious relationship because of this! Everyone says tha...
A. 13 October 2005: right you dont have any thing wrong with you, you wait aslong as you want. and be proud of it. good for you. i glad there are girls out there that will wait and never be pushed into any thing.... (read in full...)
We're really in love, but our parents don't know about it!
Q. Hi I'm 13 and my boyfriend is 18. I want to start this off by saying yes, we are sexually active and we both dont see why age matters so much. We are both in love; I mean real love! Some say why is he into a younger person and why am I into an ...
A. 13 October 2005: Well your only 13 and he is 18 him haveing sex with you is rape.... you have to be 16 but i know you think you love him an 18year old man can play mind games with you. I speacking from past experience if it is true love can't he wait til you are 16 ... (read in full...)
Afraid to ruin the friendship we have, I still want to tell her I'm interested...
Q. Dear Cupid Hi. My name is Scott, I am 26 years old, and live in Ontario Canada. I have a problem, and have been trying to get as much advice as possible, before making a decision. I have been friends with this girl I work with for about 5 or 6 mon...
A. 13 October 2005: One thing wait for her Then when she kinda get's to know that you like her that way let her make the first suggestion. You live in a wonderful place take care.... (read in full...)
My husband trusts me not to play around... so why does that bother me?
Q. I told my husband that my GED teacher said if we are in his area to let him know and he would come have a drink with us. (my husband plays in a band). My husband made a comment like "why would it be with me too?" I said it is the proper thing to ...
A. 13 October 2005: I think it bothers you because you want him to be jelous of you getting male attention just be happy that he trusts you with all his heart and get on with life. ... (read in full...)
Women want me to read their signals, and I'm hopeless at it!
Q. I'll get right to my problem - I can't for the life of me figure out how to tell when a girl is interested, let alone figure out what I should do when she is. My last relationship was quite weird as the girl basically initiated it (I was giving...
A. 13 October 2005: When a girl is interested in you i think the signs are hard to tell. Dont worrie when the time is right you will know.... (read in full...)
I want to tell him that I love him. I just don't want to be a truck passenger all my life!
Q. I fell in love with this man 9 years ago because we both were having problems in our marriages. Both of us wanted someone that wanted to be with us, so we started a relationship. He became a truck driver so as we could be together 24 hours a day. We ...
A. 12 October 2005: Tell him that you love him and that you want to settle down and have a little nest to sit on. ... (read in full...)
There's a girl I'm interested in, but I wonder if I'm financial and/or entertaining enough to date her
Q. Hi there! I was wondering if you could help me. I'm 18 and I have just started a relationship with this girl i really like although we have only known each other for a short period of time. We both really like each other but I have a lack of e...
A. 12 October 2005: Well what you can talk about is family ask her questions that would not just get yes and no answers talk about what you/her would like to do in the future. Money aint any thing go for a nice walk do things like that. Get a push bike and cycle to ... (read in full...)
Don't want to smother my girl. But what if she loses interest in me?
Q. I messed up and started to smother this girl I am talking to. We have gone out once in the past two weeks we have been talking. She even told me I was smothering her, after I asked her why she wasn't returning my texts, or calls. Right now she said ...
A. 12 October 2005: Well one thing never give up till she says so. Dont pester her tho give her some time she will get back intouch when she is ready.... (read in full...)
Lost my job after my affair with the boss ended...
Q. Me and my boss had an affair, and it ended soon after he had a new born baby. This is a job in theatre so it means the world to me, and may not get another one like it. I said a few nasty things to him before we split but that was just because ...
A. 12 October 2005: Go to the union about him. If you enjoy your work dont let him away with it. Good luck Take care ... (read in full...)
Now that we're together all the time, it's takes a while to get in the mood for sex.
Q. I'm just curious about something. A while ago, when I used to drink, I would LOVE making love with my boyfriend, for about a year and a half, which was before we got together. Now that we're together and I have him all the time, I'm not so horny an...
A. 12 October 2005: Well this is easy dont drink then sex will be great all the time for you. Just tell him when you drink i dont enjoy sex. Take care and good luck... (read in full...)
My cheating was just a symptom of our failing relationship...
Q. I have just cheated on my partner with a guy that I have kinda known for nearly 2 years. I am now in the process of breaking it off with my partner because the attraction with the other guy is like fireworks going off! Even though the other gu...
A. 12 October 2005: It is hard to let go but if you are feeling down with your long term partner there must be something not right enjoy life to the full take care ... (read in full...)
How can I know for sure that we're in love?
Q. How do I know if he is really in love with me? How do I know if I am really in love with him. We have been together for almost ten months and we are both crazy about eachother but how do i know if it is love or not? Also we have a 6 or 7 ye...
A. 12 October 2005: Hi love affects people in different ways if nothing eles matters but him and you start to dream of a future together. True love is best friends... (read in full...)
I still care for my daughter's husband, but he's been in jail for a while...
Q. I am in love with my daughter's father who is in jail. He's been in jail for about a year now, and during this whole time I have been faithful to him, but I am now having feelings for my childhood friend whom I have known for 10 years. What should I ...
A. 12 October 2005: If the child's father hurt you or any one close to you then i understand if you want the confort of a close friend. But if you feel like the relationship with the father is over then you got to tell him. Good luck follow your heart take care of it ... (read in full...)
The attraction seemed mutual, but suddenly he's ignoring me!
Q. I'm 17 and he's 15. He's a freshman and I'm a junior. We've always liked each other and in these past few weeks we've come closer to each other. He's the perfect guy. Then, one day it all stopped. He stopped sitting next to me and saying hi to me in ...
A. 12 October 2005: Well what you do is ask him out right he might be getting bullied by his mates you never know Take care ... (read in full...)
What do you look for in a bisexual partner..?
Q. I am wondering if there are specific signs to look for, if you think your husband might be bisexual. Are there physical signs on their private parts? Help!!!...
A. 12 October 2005: No there is not any physical signs. If he get's turned on by Men. or look at them funny just be honst with what your feeling and ask him. ... (read in full...)
In four years, my boyfriend hasn't kept a job for more than 3 months!
Q. I have been with my bf for 4 years. He has not kept a steady job during this period. Every job he gets lasts no longer than a week besides one exception which lasted 3 months. I am 22, he is 23 and we have lived together for 2 years, after the ...
A. 12 October 2005: Threaten him that you will finnish with him even tho you do not want to. Jobs are hard to get but when he does get one support him if he leaves it and does not pay his half of the bill's be firm and tell him to leave he not takeing responsability ... (read in full...)
At 17, I think I've outgrown my boyfriend...
Q. I have a boyfriend of almost 2 years. I love him very much and would do almost anything for him. Lately we have been fighting a lot about the littlest things. The problem is I am 17 and he is 18 and compared to me he is really immature. I now feel...
A. 12 October 2005: I know exactly how you are feeling. i am 18 and my boy friend is 22 and i ack older than him. We both have to realise that men are not like us women but men have got to realise we are with them to look after us.
Sorry if that not what you need... (read in full...)
I'm prepared for no sex to please her until we're married, but she's not sure she wants to marry me...
Q. I have been in a relationship for over 3 years and my partner has said to me that she has felt sex outside of marriage has been difficult. Dave's my name and I have said that I would choose abstinence (no sexual contact). If this is going to work or ...
A. 12 October 2005: Hi Dave i think you are doing the right thing wait for her she will respect you. I glad that you are seeking counselling and getting help. But you have to respect her wishes if she loves you and you say you love her then wait if there is no ... (read in full...)
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