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writes:I'm just curious about something. A while ago, when I used to drink, I would LOVE making love with my boyfriend, for about a year and a half, which was before we got together. Now that we're together and I have him all the time, I'm not so horny anymore when I'm drinking. It takes me awhile to get in the mood, if I get into one at all. Is there something I can do to change that? I think he's the most attractive man, but for some reason I don't get turned on after I've been drinking anymore by him, or anyone at that matter. I love him with all my heart and sex is awesome when I'm sober. Is this normal? Please help if you have any advice.
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reader, Stewart Terrace +, writes (12 October 2005):
Well this is easy dont drink then sex will be great all the time for you. Just tell him when you drink i dont enjoy sex. Take care and good luck
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reader, MitchellTurner +, writes (12 October 2005):
Do you remember being a child, and wanting a new toy? You looked at it everytime you went into the shopping center. But one christmas morn, you unwrapped a present, and viola! You got it. You played with it a few days, maybe weeks, and poof. It's old news, and in the closet with the rest of the stuff you don't really want.You may still love him, and you may still be attracted to him, but honestly, the new has wore off. Try not spending much time together for a while. As little as possible. See if this changes anything. this process should be done for at least two months to notice much of a change. If no change, (and you can be doing this at the same time as well), whenever you do have sex, do something different everytime. Try new things, or old things new ways. Try using love lotions, toys, and other things that help add spice. If you don't like the taste of the food, what to you do? throw on some salt? Pepper? A relationship is not different. I just wouldn't use salt or pepper to spice the relationship, it could be painful. :)
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