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writes:me and my boyfriend have been going together for over 3 years, and i recently just found out that he went to a party and got extremely drunk and says he doesn't remember or know if he had sex or not. I was wondering if a guy could feel himself having sex if he is drunk?
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reader, speedcat +, writes (9 March 2008):
boy i dont know, dont let others tell you what to do were just giving our suggestions to you,,we dont know him like you do! seems like hes got lame excuses but we wernt there. you need to follow your feelings if he seems to be a shitbag then lose him if you feel hes worth it then try to forgive him. take time to yourself to figure it out. good luck hunny
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reader, korculan queen  +, writes (8 March 2008):
unless he is totally comatose I would say he would know it he had sex while drunk unless he suffers from brewers droop I would say that he is saying he cheated but he can't remember or does not want to tell you cause he is blaming the booze for his infedelity. Shows his maturity level as being eqivilent to his shoe size.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (8 March 2008):
 As DoubleM says, this is totally up to you. If I were you, I definitely wouldn't stay with the bastard until he at least admitted to what he had done... if you say he is truly "sorry", he must be "sorry" for something, so make him fess up!!
Any, if there's any more sketchy business... ditch the guy FOR SURE.
xx India
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (8 March 2008):
 Up to you darling. Maybe one more chance, then kaput? He will likely continue but be much more careful to hide his activities from now on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks everyone for your help, but now i'm not sure if i should stay with him or just throw away our whole relationship? He seems as if he's truly sorry but i just don't know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008): Well you posted a clarification where your guy thought that because he pissed "wrong" he might have had sex?Eh, how old is he? Because they do that you know, if you are a housewife you would know. In extreme cases the water sometimes comes out at a 90 degree angle.If he wanted to know, then there is the simple fact that his cock would have had residue from the sex, check this yourselve after you have had sex. Sex is messy.So he likely is worrying about nothing.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (7 March 2008):
Bull. I agree with "q1605" entirely. If a man gets excessively drunk, it becomes extremely difficult to gain an erection and perform. It's a lame excuse.
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reader, speedcat +, writes (6 March 2008):
sounds like hes definatly guilty!!!! yes alcohol desensitizes your sexual pleasure, but believe me he remembers unless he blacked out but at that point he would have been worthless sexually.....good luck hunny,,,byby
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (6 March 2008):
Regardless, this excuse sounds lame. If your man just up and said, "well, I was really trashed. I could've had sex, I don't remember." - that is a bunch of bogus crap. If he didn't have sex, he would've said he didn't have sex, not give you some wishy-washy excuse.
Sure, you can get totally drunk and make stupid decisions. And yes, your body may be less sensitive, but that doesn't mean that he can't turn down sex with someone.
Also, if he was "too drunk to remember", he may have been "too drunk to use a condom" too, so check yo' self before you wreck yo' self, and make sure that he didn't bring any nasty disease home from that party!
Good luck, sweetness!
xx India
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionno he's not saying its ok to cheat but he said he doesn't remember and that when he woke up to piss and instead of his piss going sraight into the toilet it jerked or something. He said that's what made him think something happened that night.
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reader, Collaroy +, writes (6 March 2008):
 Hi,
sorry this just sounds very suspect. It's a lame arse excuse if you ask me. For one, some people can do things they can't remember when drunk but for a guy to be able to get an erection he has to be able to function somewhat. I would be worried that he didnt use a condom, and also the fact that he cheated on you.
I guess the question is what made you think he had sex that night?
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