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writes:I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years now, we have had our good times and our bad, like most couples, recently we argue all day. this has been happening for 6 months.I love her family to bits and I consider them my own, she has a brother aged 18, sister aged 18, and a bro aged 7.the 7 year old feels like my brother, recently my mum has been admitted to hospital, my girlfriend doesn't seem to care but her sister has been there for me. She visits me with my mum and we can talk about anything. Ii feel as if I'm falling for her and I have felt this for months, sometimes I get the impression she feels the same, we are always catching each others eyes and looking after each other,I'm sure I want my girlfriend's sister, but this would destroy the family, I need to find out from her sister what's going on or is it just me but I don't know how to go about it? Reply to this Question
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reader, hello1 +, writes (7 March 2008):
 Okay they sound like a close knit family. If you had any respect for your g/f or her family, you will never even think about going there. This family will shut you out. The sister may be playing with you, waiting till you make a move then go and tell, or she will return your advances then she'll feel guilty and tell her family ending in the same results.
Like Oldersister said, break up with the g/f and wait a while then see about the sister but don't do anything about it now.
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reader, speedcat  +, writes (6 March 2008):
there sisters,, so in the end your probably going to made out to be a jerk if you know what i mean? Shell go out with you and then her sister will get upset shell feel bad because after all its her sister and shell dump you then thell make up,,,seen it happen before. try to just move on outside the family.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2008): dude, you answered your own question. ''i need to find out from her sister what's going on'' ya damn right ya do!
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