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writes: There's this one guy that I like a lot but he's what people would consider a dork but he's really nice and hilarious. All my friends give me weird looks whenever they see him. You don't understand how many times I've tried to give up on him!!! I think he likes me back so every time he looks at me or teases me I try to ignore him but it's really hard so by the end of the week I'm crazy about him again!! and then the next week I tell my best friend "ok I'm gonna try really hard to give up on him" she just rolls her eyes and says "that's what you said a year ago honey".I know it's mean to do this but sometimes I'm just embarassed of how he acts sometimes. I mean I think it's cute but the rest of the world might not. Help plzzz xoxo
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reader, shandygirl  +, writes (13 February 2008):
 P.S. I just wanted to add....Be STRONG enough to have your OWN MIND!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2008): If everyone wore the same clothes, listened to the same music, liked the same type of girls/boys the world would be a dull boring place!!! Everyone's taste in guys/girls, music, fashion, cars are different - thats what makes us unique. Good looks dont last forever but manners and personality will. Give him a chance!! At least you will know if its gonna work out or not. If you don't you will always be thinking and asking yourself "what if......."Go for it! And good luck ;)
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reader, shandygirl +, writes (13 February 2008):
You can't expect other people to have the same likes and dislikes as you.
I had a friend that I used to hang out with, she would always make comments about guys like "Look at him, isn't he HOT!!!" I never thought any of the guys that she pointed out to me was even CUTE what-so-ever.
And the same with my taste in guys also. She commented about my current Boyfriend, " What do you see in HIM?!" I told her, "You don't need to know." In other words, "Mind your own business."
Don't give up a guy, just because of what others say. It isn't their business, just as long as YOU like him. That is all that matters.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2008): dont bother what your friends think. if you sincerely like him, give him a chance.
basically there are 2 types of guys out there. the 'stable' type and the 'glamour' type.
the 'stable' type of guy is the type of guy that no girls will fall in love.. especially young girls aged below 30.. however, girls above the age of 30 will tend to be attracted to that sort of man.. they have a good stable income, matured in their actions and sorts.
the other type, the 'glamour' type, are the ones girls of all ages fall in love with. they are the ones with many girlfriends or changes 1 or 2 girlfriends a year..these guys may look good, and ur friends may even envy you for being with him, but they dont really treat their girl right.
to summarize, i somehow suspect the guy you mentioned, is the 'stable' kind of guy. if you like him a lot, and he doesnt do drugs.. why not give it a try? even if it doesnt turn out right, at least when you are much older, you will look back at this and smile.. rather than wonder 'what if..'
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reader, speedcat +, writes (13 February 2008):
oh hunny one day your gonna wish that nice guy was in your life trust me! your friends sound,,,sorry but like a bunch of snobs! if you like him then go out with him if your "friends" dont approve and accept it then they wernt your friends to begin with. go for it....good luck!
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (13 February 2008):
 Hi,
your friends sound very shallow and superficial. You could find a guy with all the right looks who dresses like a movie star and who makes girls weak at the knees with the sound of his voice, but this guy could be an absolute self indulgent jerk who only thinks of himself and treats you like dirt.
Follow your heart I say.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (13 February 2008):
 It is what you think and not the world think. The world moves whether you think or not. You are too self conscious.
As long as you are happy, why do you care what other's think?
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