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*etalchick101
writes:Dear All,I am a 25 yr old girl and I have a unique problem.There is a celebrity i was crazy about [like most of u are about celebs] and was quite active on his fan sites [esp de ones he frequented passively].Now, before i joined the forum, the guy never ever was active..he used to leave a message only once a month or so.When I joined, i started attacking him for his behaviour towrads his fans. It so happenned dat after my constant attacks , he got active....VERY ACTIVE on de forums. All this continued for 3 months, then one fine day...he declares he is upset because he felt like a joke[i used to crack lots of jokes on him]...and he took my name in a way dat ppl blame me for him getting upset n leaving the forum forever!That is what happened, ppl blamed me for it...but den he again left a message saying he loved all fans esp me...den i was compelled to email him an apology....NOW THE INTERSTING STUFF BEGINS!He replied to me....and GAVE ME HIS MOBILE NUMBER!!!I was SHOCKED!!!If he was upset, wtf wud he ask me to contact him??I did that and when I asked him, he sed he was not upset wid me!!I understood he was intersted in me![im attractive]So, we have been in touch[flrting] every 2 weeks ever since...I have always inititaed de convo...but den last time he called me...Now my problems r :1. I am CRAZY about him!!!Had he not contacted me, i would have been over him like oder celebs!2. He is MARRIED!!!WTF is he flirting wid me??3. He is HOT and a CELEB!He gets lots of chix falling all over him!why is he after me who doesnt even live in his own country??4. After contacting me...he LEFT THE FAN SITE!!He was der just to get my attention!!5. He plays games and wants me to chase him...by being de first one to initiate contact always!I have my dignity and if hes intersted he shud also call me sometimes, wuidout me havin to initiate!6. WHY IS HE DOING THIS?? I would love to think hes in love wid me[sick] but.....what is happening???
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reader, leyan  +, writes (24 February 2008):
 Hi Metalchick,
If you ever asked him for help in advancing your carer, you should not think, it will justify him asking for sex, you could tell him from the beginnig that he is just helping you out because you deserve it and make it sure that he knows you are not interested in a fling.
Best of luck.
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reader, duskyrowe  +, writes (24 February 2008):
 Someone needs a lesson on how to spell. Den is spelt then, dat is spelt that. Go back to school and learn how to write properly.
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reader, metalchick101 +, writes (24 February 2008):
metalchick101 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi Guys!Thanks for ur answers!!No, Leyan, it is not Ragheb Alama..It is an Indian film director..One more thing I forgot to add....I am an aspiring film maker, and I could sure use his contact for my career.[like most ppl would].He even sed i cud take his help anytime.But after all this, I feel I should not use his contact at all, as he wud feel that his demanding sex from me is justified.So, right now I am avoiding him totally.It has been 10 days now...even when I see him online on MSN i dont chat with him.Hopefully I should get over him.But guys, just curious, do u think he would lose interest if i stop contacting him?or he wud again try to contact me in some way?Dearkelja, it is him, not someone from his circle, but I do know 2-3 ppl from his circle too.If i avoid him totally. I might be in an awkward situation wid his frends too.Like I had mentioned, his frends r my potential leads for my career.
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reader, metalchick101 +, writes (24 February 2008):
metalchick101 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi Guys!Thanks for ur answers!!No, Leyan, it is not Ragheb Alama..It is an Indian film director..One more thing I forgot to add....I am an aspiring film maker, and I could sure use his contact for my career.[like most ppl would].He even sed i cud take his help anytime.But after all this, I feel I should not use his contact at all, as he wud feel that his demanding sex from me is justified.So, right now I am avoiding him totally.It has been 10 days now...even when I see him online on MSN i dont chat with him.Hopefully I should get over him.But guys, just curious, do u think he would lose interest if i stop contacting him?or he wud again try to contact me in some way?Dearkelja, it is him, not someone from his circle, but I do know 2-3 ppl from his circle too.If i avoid him totally. I might be in an awkward situation wid his frends too.Like I had mentioned, his frends r my potential leads for my career.
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reader, GrimmReality  +, writes (24 February 2008):
 Be carefull young lady....It may be one of the guys's entourage. But if you want to pursue a rock star, hey...the only one who will end up being hurt is you.Don't go into it thinking it's Bon Jovi and then you end up with GWAR!!!!Although GWAR has much more talent!
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reader, leyan +, writes (24 February 2008):
Hi, hope it's not Ragheb Alama, I had a crush on him before you, just kidding, be careful dear, does not matter who he is, the important thing, he is married, not likely he will leave his wife,and you said it, he has lots of female fans and he does seem to be a player, Just stop contacting him, find yourself an available guy, by the way would you ever trust him, if he did leave his wife for you? a cheater once is always a cheater.
Take care and feel free to mail me if you want to talk.
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reader, speedcat +, writes (23 February 2008):
Sounds like a waste of your time,,,what you think he will marry you and run away with you? Give me a break...he never even met you! Sounds like a game player,,,you pissed him off now hes paying you back. Move on.
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reader, korculan queen  +, writes (23 February 2008):
I would be very careful in this situation. If you are initiating most of the contact then I see him as maybe using you and if something sexual was to happen given the fact he has alot to lose I would see him as turning it around on you and saying you are stalking him. He is a celebrity after all and I personally would run 5 thousand miles from a celebrity. He would have more money than you to launch some sort of civil lawsuit on you stalking him. I would NOT CONTACT HIM and see if he contacts you and keep a diary of all contact he makes so that you cover yourself. Ask yourself if he was not a celebrity and was just an average joe married with kids would you pursue him? Celebrities are not gods they are people just like you and me who are famous simply because more photos have been taken of them and that they have agents living off their image like parasites. Be very careful.
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (23 February 2008):
 1) Is he the real deal or is it someone in his circle?2) He is married? Not an ideal catch if you ask me and his intentions are not good if he wants to meet up with you.3) He sounds like he is playing games with you. Celebrities are real people just like us. The are cabable of cheating on their spouses and playing games just like us. I think you should move on from him, he means you no good.
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