if he wants me to be a better in the bedroom, shouldn't he use not just the bedroom
Q. my partner says im no good in the bedroom but my reasons are as follows:-my partner stays in the bedroom all the time, yeh he goes to work when he feels and also to the toilet and the fridge to get a beer. apart from that hes in the bedroom....my ...
A. 11 October 2006: ok my partner read this message and has gone off on one,he read the reply from snowbird and i went on the phone to my friend, shortly after he presented me with a a4 size note, it reads..................................................no matter what ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel so uncomfortable when I am around him?
Q. Why do I feel so uncomfortable around him? I've been with this guy for over a month now, but I don't think I feel anything for him, we'd been hanging out for over two months before we got together and I thought I really liked him but it's just al...
A. 11 October 2006: girl signs are signs,its very early in your relationship,thats the time when you can stand back and change your mind at this stage no-one will get hurt, if you dont like his arm around you, you unfortunatly dont really wont him. tell him how you ... (read in full...)
How can I put the romance back into our marriage?
Q. my husband and i are having marrige problems, we moved away to be with family we have no jobs,no money and are always arguing. he has said that if i dont stop moaning he is leaving. I have been trying to find work but its hard either im to qualifie...
A. 11 October 2006: i dont understand why your moaning, you decide to move and now youve moved, make the most of things and each other, theres no point dwelling on things that have already happened hold him in your arms say your sorry and tell him how much you love ... (read in full...)
if he wants me to be a better in the bedroom, shouldn't he use not just the bedroom
Q. my partner says im no good in the bedroom but my reasons are as follows:-my partner stays in the bedroom all the time, yeh he goes to work when he feels and also to the toilet and the fridge to get a beer. apart from that hes in the bedroom....my ...
A. 11 October 2006: after reading my message to your guys my partner says he stays in the bedroom cause of me,he says that he stays there cause we argue ,i dont except that as we argue about him being in there.i think hes comfortable with the life hes living, for me ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend is on the pill and wants me to stop using condoms. I am worried that she might get pregnant.
Q. Myself and my girlfriend have been having sex for the past 4 months or so. However recently my girlfriend has suggested that we don't use condoms and we just rely on the pill which she has always taken and has taken for the past 5 months. While not ...
A. 10 October 2006: friend keep up with your condoms, the trouble with the pill is that if you miss them out or drinks too much or even vomits the pill becomes less effevtive, 4 months is not long enough to be starting any mistakes,maybe she could try the injection or ... (read in full...)
This guy wants me to work off my debt with sex. Why am I allowing this?
Q. **Hey Cupid's** Am I slut? I don't want to think I am. I can justify myself. There is this guy who has lust me for quiet a while, at least 2 years. He's been very close to me, friend wise. I have told him everything and I confide in him. At the m...
A. 10 October 2006: hi, sounds like you both like each other so why not get together it sorts both your problems out,he gets the girl he likes and you will get the help you need from your boyfriend. unfortunatly theres only one name for women who sleep with men for ... (read in full...)
When is the best time to get pregnant?
Q. is there a certain time of the month you can pregnant?or things you can do to help?...
A. 10 October 2006: sweetheart taking your mind off a baby will help i found that i never got pregnant while wishing for it i fell pregnant when i lost hope. also around the time of your period. good luck... (read in full...)
Is 14 too young to go to 3rd base?
Q. is 14 too young to go to 3rd base ...? i have bin with my bf who is 2 years older than me for 5 months now and love and adore him very much!..i have been to 3rd with him...feeling confident and ready. He has never presured me and he respects me ...
A. 10 October 2006: at your age you should be more concerned about your education than boys .boys come with time how would you feel about having a baby? this is what it will lead to,are you even sure hes the one for you and he feels the same? enjoy your youth while ... (read in full...)
I made 'amateur' pics for my man, is this normal?
Q. i trust my man of many many years and we have made some amature home videos, watched them and immediatly deleted them. yesterday we took pictures that he could enjoy while hes on days off or alone at home. i trust that he would never remove them ...
A. 10 October 2006: really you should know that if you break up he would have no probs showing them and some men show them just to show off,perhaps you should make sure you dont have your face on those pics,destroy the ones with your face on them you dont sound happy ... (read in full...)
Is it safe to keep secrets in a long term relationship?
Q. is it safe to keep secrets in a long term relationship? is okay to spy on ur man to make sure he is up to no good? or will it make him try to hide secrets even more, or be more sneaky? or should i just trust him and let my feelings be?...
A. 10 October 2006: why do you need to have secrets? what have you done? if your partner makes you feel that you should spy on him theres nothing wrong with you spying.f hes trying hard to hide things then theres proberbly no point being with him... (read in full...)
BF has received oral from other girls. Should I give him a second chance?
Q. I need some serious advice--I apologize if this is long. Background info: I have been in a relationship for 6 years. We met as undergraduates and spent a little over a year together before I was accepted to graduate school across the country. I ...
A. 10 October 2006: girl your mad if you want to stay with him,what are you waiting for? aides/hes not even honest with you. if he has been getting oral sex hes been getting full sex. long distance makes things worse. find someone you can trust keep him as afriend... (read in full...)
I really like this guy, but he smokes. It's like kissing an ashtray. Please help!
Q. well hi can someone help me!well i like my best friend,laci's,cousin and he is my friend to.but he asked me if i wanted a cigerette and i said no cuz i know thats wrong(hes only 11 and i'm 12)but i really do like him and i want him to stop but i ...
A. 10 October 2006: hello, not everyone is the same he smokes /you dont,friend you cant change him. as he is only a friend you have to except him for what he is and what he does,surely smoking cant spoil a friendship.... (read in full...)
I am sleeping with my exes best friend, she has a boyfriend but we are really into each other.
Q. I have a child with my ex girl friend.. but I slept with her best friend who is like a sister to her, shes also in a relationship with her bf but she says she gonna end it soon. we've slept together more than once, we're really into each other and ...
A. 10 October 2006: well your not a very nice person,dont you have boundries?your going to break up a relationship between those two and for what reason? is it worth it?you have kids with one already,her friend should be out of bounds.let go.... (read in full...)
Do I just let him go or do I remain his friend and try to be there for him?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost three years. I met him when I was in Boone where I went to college and I got a good job so I decided to move there after I graduated in May. Things were amazing between us, except he complained about ...
A. 10 October 2006: hi, in my opinion you should move on,we all would like a fool to be there for us if and when needed, the trouble is you dont treat your friends like crap,a friend is a good thing, someone that is there for you at all times, not only when they are ... (read in full...)
8 days late and stomach seems to be getting bigger. Can somebody please explain?
Q. I am now about 8 days late with my monthlys (me im usually on time or only 2-3 days late if anything), and have had constantly on my mind that i could be pregnant,after having unprotected sex with my bf. And another thing i've also noticed is that ...
A. 8 October 2006: i think you want to be pregnant, maybe youve been trying and it hasnt worked. i used to do that to myself . listen what is to be will be , relax, slow down take your mind off things. stress is not good for anyone.... (read in full...)
I really fancy my gf's friend. We flirt all the time, but she has a bf. Please help!
Q. ive been seeing a girl for almost two years now and im starting to like her friend and she has a boyfriend that has been almost two years now....we flirt alot and have even had a pretty intese lip stare...should i tell her that i like her so i can ...
A. 7 October 2006: come on nowthis is not right both of you are hurting someone elses feelings. why dont you both leave your partners and get together you already seem to be hitting it off. tut tut........ (read in full...)
Will our rough patch pass with time?
Q. I think my 4 month relationship has grown stale. There's still the good bits that we had before when all i can think about is how much i love him and how i want to spent the rest of my life with him, but a lot of the time when i'm with him or ...
A. 7 October 2006: friend if your relationship has suffered in 4 months to that point its proberbly not going anywhere. ... (read in full...)
I am not accepted into my boyfriends circle of friends. What is going on?
Q. I have been with a guy for 7 months now. He often goes out on Friday nights with friends from school, but never invites me. I organized a party for him and invited his school friends. He didn't introduce me to any of them and when someone asked him ...
A. 7 October 2006: girl the thing is if you dont like how he treats you try to change it, if hes not willing maybe hes not worth you or your time. is he ashamed of you? or is there someone else in his life?... (read in full...)
How can I tell my girlfriend I need time to get my life organised?
Q. I have recently become involved with my long-time friend in a long distance relationship. She comes from a totally different background to me, and she currently lives with her ex-boyfriend in a flat. She is unable to afford this flat on her own, ...
A. 7 October 2006: to be totally honest with you this whole affair sounds dodgy, she lives with her x, a x is a x for a reason, that reason is that you want them out of your life,especially out of your house, why wont she except help? is it because she feels guilty? ... (read in full...)
I am 21, but my 54 year old partner can't have sex with me. Is there anything that can help?
Q. hi i am 21 i have been with my partner 1 and a half years now the only trouble is he is a lot older than me he is 54 i lost his wife before we got together. my problem is he cant have sex with me is there anything that could possibly help....
A. 7 October 2006: listen you should have realised that something like this would have happened, you decided to have a relationship with this older man and now your problem is sex, find someone your own age and have all the sex you want. why at your age did you choose ... (read in full...)
I feel nothing when having sex with my husband. Please advice.
Q. I'm 30 years old, my husband is 39 years old; we've been married for 2 years.We have problems in sex, mainly I have a problem, I feel nothing while having sex with my husband. Please advise....
A. 7 October 2006: girl not everyone likes sex as much as the rest, i think its a waist of time,people confuse sex with love and to me they are totally different. do you love him? does he make you feel wanted and even special? i find that men think all they need to do ... (read in full...)
She want see other people, she lies to me, treat me like crap and expects me to just take it! What should I do?
Q. my girlfriend has confessed to me that she wants to see other people because she has been with me and only me for 4 years.she was 14 when we met and now she is 18.it has been very difficult because she has confessed to making out with a guy in a ...
A. 6 October 2006: hi, it seems to me that you are a pushover she must know this and is taking full advantage,you have a straying girlfriend who will lie my friend remember that aids cannot be cured, think of yourself and leave her to live with her own stupidity. oh ... (read in full...)
We were together 17 years but she found someone else and doesn't seem to be sad about us not being together!
Q. Its been about 4 months since I split up with my ex-girlfriend. We have been together for 17 years, I recently proposed to her, after a couple of days she changed her mind and three weeks later she said that she had found someone else. She has not ...
A. 6 October 2006: it seems to me that you are understandably taking this hard, sounds like she was fed up of you long ago and maybe she was just waiting for someone to come along to leave. in any event shes gone pick yourself up brush yourself off and start again she ... (read in full...)
I'm 16, my BF is 18 and he is complete asshole when he goes out drinking!
Q. I am 16 and my bf of 4 months is 18. He occasionally goes out and gets drunk. More recently it's become a regular thing, and he'll ring me or i'll ring him, and he'll start being a complete asshole after a while. Am i overreacting to be pissed off ...
A. 6 October 2006: well firstly do you drink? if the a swer is tes then theres not much you can say, he wont listen or understand. people who drink too much dont consider the feelings of others they are not nice to be around, in my opinion you are too young to be ... (read in full...)
How can I catch him out?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now, Lately he's started to not accept any affection from me and he keeps buying me things.I only see him on weekends (i stay over, and he takes his calls and texts outside then deletes them !?!?!)I ring him...
A. 5 October 2006: unfortunatly it sounds like your guy has someone else maybe he feels guilty that why he buys you things.its up to you if you let him get away with it theres too many signs put your mind into overtime and work him out and put things right for you. ... (read in full...)
How can I tell my bf his interests bore me?
Q. Hi, I'm in love with my bf and we have been together for two months. The problem is that he always seem interested in political issues, world crisis, climate change. These are stuff that i find quite boring. Once he get's a go at these topics he ...
A. 5 October 2006: you like me have met someone interested in boring things,theres nothing you can do he wont/cant change boring is what boring does. go and find your own interests and hope it wont matter that you guys share almost nothing in common. ... (read in full...)
I'm 15..he's 24. WIll he get bored of me and find someone close to his own age? What do you think?
Q. Hi, right i really fancie this guy, he is 24 and i am 15... i dont see anything wrong wid the age gap but he has asked me out and i really dont know what to say. he will be my first relationship let alone b/f, but i think that he will get bored of ...
A. 5 October 2006: hi i really think that before you deal with a age gap relationship you should first have had a relationship with someone your own age,relationships can come with enough probs age difference is not for you at the moment,find yourself and know your ... (read in full...)
How long should a male last in sex? Any tips on lasting longer?
Q. How long should a male last in sex? also what techniques could you apply to last longer...
A. 5 October 2006: hello,well im no expert but i have heard that if you massage yourself daily not to get an errection but to know your manhood and notice how the different muscles work. practice getting to climax but then stopping short. this might help. perhaps ... (read in full...)
I suggested we have sex in the office, she turned me down, but has done similar with others ? Am I just being selfish ?
Q. Me and my Girlfriend have been living together now for almost 3 months and one day she came down to my work with my and the place was completely empty and no one was expected to arrive either, so i wanted to have sex (you kno something exciting keep ...
A. 5 October 2006: sometimes its not good to talk about previous relationships,are you the kind to have sex in the office or was it that you felt a little jealous that she had done it with someone else. different relationships are different for a reason, find or do ... (read in full...)
Why am I still thinking of him and getting upset, after he beat me and trashed my flat!?
Q. i had been with my boyfriend for 5 years and he beat me up recently - he cracked 3 ribs and i had to have stitches above my eye. he also trashed my flat. i got out and have moved into new flat, new number and havent seen him since. why am i still ...
A. 5 October 2006: hi there, when you love someone and i mean really love them nothing they do seems wrong, even though it seems you had the courage to move away it dont seem like you really except that he is no good. love takes time to heal. the best thing is to ... (read in full...)
Going to supper wat his parent's home...should I take flowers or is this inappropriate?
Q. I've got to meet my boyfriends parents! I've never been introduced to a boyfriends parents before, or felt the need to introduce them to mine. Im a bit nervous. Any advice? I would like to take some flowers for his mum, as she is cooking d...
A. 4 October 2006: i think that you only need to take yourself and be yourself one the first visit. she will get plenty of thanks if you eat all her food and thank her appropriatly ast hte end of your time there. maybe the next time if theres a next time.... (read in full...)
Am I ugly?
Q. No boys want to snog me because someone asked them and they said no, and then said ewwww. They will snog my best mate but not me. :( Am I ugly?...
A. 4 October 2006: hi, no you cant think like that, beauty is only in the eye of the beholder,by that i mean you have not met your mate yet,when you meet someone that special someone.he will tell you you are beautiful and the only one for him. you dont need to be ... (read in full...)
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