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writes: Myself and my girlfriend have been having sex for the past 4 months or so. However recently my girlfriend has suggested that we don't use condoms and we just rely on the pill which she has always taken and has taken for the past 5 months. While not using extra protection is nicer for me and for her I still feel worried that she might get pregnant for the days after...We rarely get time alone and often have too do it quite quickly or in secret and its quicker not too use one at all...Should I be worried? And should we use condoms all the time? I have noticed we haven't used condoms the week after her periods...Thanks for replies in advance
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reader, YAVONDA +, writes (27 October 2006):
just follow ur instincts if u think u should wear one then u are protecting both of urselfs
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2006): while the birth control pills are effective in avoiding pregnancy, accidents happen and happen to more couple than u think. for example, if she misses one dose, the risk of conceiving is high. if u dont want a baby then continue to wear a condom. tell her its ur choice and u want to be extremly safe and protect urself. u dont want to be in a position where u gf is pregnant and u dont want the baby. besides it also protects against STI's which can very easily go undetected. make the right choice for u dont let her make it for u. dont loose control of ur rights as a man
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reader, sleepysly +, writes (10 October 2006):
 friend keep up with your condoms, the trouble with the pill is that if you miss them out or drinks too much or even vomits the pill becomes less effevtive, 4 months is not long enough to be starting any mistakes,maybe she could try the injection or the coil instead of the pill.... good luck
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