I can't stop thinking about him (even though he's related to my ex)
Q. Hi, well my ex dumped me a month ago after six months. At first I was mad but then I realised he was only 20 and I was 24 and we were on two different levels. So anyway I was out paying my cell phone bill and saw this cute guy and when he gave me ...
A. 6 December 2009: Xlaurenx thanks im going to try and go for it but im crazy shy which to everyone i know is not apparent. im like a girly girl tomboy but deep down in shy but thanks... (read in full...)
My boyfriend told me he thinks other girls are pretty!
Q. My boyfriend told me he thinks other girls are pretty. I know this is probably over reacting but i got very upset by this, he always told me he never even looks at girls and i can't stand that he would look at a girl and think about how pretty she ...
A. 5 December 2009: your issue is simple he's and jerk and knows how to belittle you and your in love so your letting him do it ... (read in full...)
Busy, or not interested?
Q. I can't tell if this guy is interested or not? He says he's busy (he's a dr). I met this guy through friends and we really hit it off when he joined a group of us on a night out. As soon as I got home that night my friends were all calling tell...
A. 5 December 2009: Are you for real its so clear that he wants one thing from you. you can sugar code it anyway you want but he is not interested and texting and internet chat is so clear its nothing you do know guys do calling girls that they want. to hear your voice ... (read in full...)
I can't stop thinking about him (even though he's related to my ex)
Q. Hi, well my ex dumped me a month ago after six months. At first I was mad but then I realised he was only 20 and I was 24 and we were on two different levels. So anyway I was out paying my cell phone bill and saw this cute guy and when he gave me ...
A. 5 December 2009: Xlaurenx thank you for your advice. its crazy that i like him but its been so long since i had a decent conversation and attraction with a guy. my ex hated talking it was always me talking and him with three words response. but this guy it just ... (read in full...)
He says he needs some space, and I am confused
Q. My boyfriend has recently decided that we both need space together. He says we rushed into a lot of things. We are both 18 and have been together for a year and almost two months. We've been best friends for about four years. After a while,...
A. 5 December 2009: Either he wants time to spend with someone else or he does feel trap and needs time to himself ... (read in full...)
Confused about my relationship
Q. I'm 30 years old and very confused. There is a woman I have been dating for six months now. We have a lot of fun and many things in common. We take interest in each other's hobbies and have many of the elements of a good relationship. With the ...
A. 5 December 2009: if you want to be with her then be with her. alot of marriages do change people but most of them its for the best. only you can predict how your relationship will workout but you seem like the type that as soon as the feeling start rapidly growing ... (read in full...)
I can't stop thinking about him (even though he's related to my ex)
Q. Hi, well my ex dumped me a month ago after six months. At first I was mad but then I realised he was only 20 and I was 24 and we were on two different levels. So anyway I was out paying my cell phone bill and saw this cute guy and when he gave me ...
A. 5 December 2009: Ok thanks for you answer but to inform you on somethings when i was programming his number in my phone thats when i told him it was already save and ask him did he know my ex and after he heard the name he was like thats my cuz but he did get my ... (read in full...)
My ex told my current that she is pregnant, but I think she is just creating mischief
Q. I was in a relationship with a girl and my ex had told em she was pregnant with my child so i told my partner at the time of this but she had asked me not tot tell her or i would not see the child, my girlfriend at the time left me as she didnt want ...
A. 5 December 2009: some woman only wants taken men. they don't really want you at all but the thrill of you wanting them while you are in a relationship excite them even though they are taken as well. break up with your girlfriend and see how fast the other girl goes ... (read in full...)
First date in 3 years...why am I so paranoid about it?
Q. Hi everyone, ok so I'm in a pickle and I have to solve it by tonight, which unfortunately doesn't leave me much time. From May til November I was constantly trying to be rid of my ex-bf. He was verbally abusive, lied about everything and I was si...
A. 5 December 2009: why not make your date a little earlier. starts at 5 and ends by 10 always bring extra money just in case you need a taxi or he claims he does not have enough always be prepared you never know and tell a friend exactly where you guys are going and ... (read in full...)
Help! What is going through his head?
Q. I'm really confused. Until last year I was a mature student at college. I got on with all my teachers, but particularly with one of them. In fact, he still comes to see me at my home. I see him as a friend, a good one, but I'm starting to wonder why ...
A. 5 December 2009: It is confusing because at first you make it seem like he wants you and you are not interested like that but then you act like your missing him when he leaves you. he is smart and stupid at the same time he likes you but with his email he is being ... (read in full...)
Is there an easier way to do this?
Q. I am married but not happily and i have found comfort in a long time good friend. We ahve been texting and tlking on the phone for about 3 months now. He tells me that he left his girlfriend and is liveing with his mom. We text all day until about 8 ...
A. 5 December 2009: If you are not happy in your marriage then why are you married. and you are so willingly ready to cheat. you concerned about why his girlfriend answer the phone and he didn't tell you his situation why would he when he found out you was going to get ... (read in full...)
He wants me but doesn't know if he wants a relationship
Q. I started dating my roommate recently. He used to have sex with women a lot but he doesn't make the first move with me and we've only had sex two times in 3 months. He was also very hesitant to actually "date" because he feels like I would move ...
A. 4 December 2009: You are aware that he did said he didn't want you. your into him and he knows it he. its sounds like he is playing games and you are defending his action. keep doing that because your only hurting yourself. he is being direct with you listen to him... (read in full...)
Why do I feel like a fool after he broke up with me?
Q. We dated a couple of months I didn't let him hit until I was ready ta have sex with him..days went on we did the do. As the months n weeks went on we were cool. Until I found out that was four weeks pregnant. He's 22 I'm 18 I'm a senior n ...
A. 4 December 2009: Wow thats sad but sounded like he want out when he found out you was pregnant and to make sure he does not have any tries to you he convince you to have a abortion. please do not think for one second that he did not plan everything out. most man ... (read in full...)
How do we keep this a secret forever?
Q. I just know this post is going to be long winded because its such a difficult situation to explain. First of all I just want to say that I think that the problem is mine not my girlfriends, I just wondered if anybody had experienced similar emotions ...
A. 4 December 2009: It sounds bad. you should really find out who she really is because alot of girls run away from home to be with some boy but they do not change their entire identity. she has one two many lies. to be on the safe side you should find out who is ... (read in full...)
How to tell my LDR that I don't want to quit my job and move up?
Q. Hey, I'm new so please forgive me if I don't do this right. I've been dating my boyfriend long distance for about 9 months now, I am almost in my thirties and he is mid thirties. We were friends for 5 years when he lived nearby. He was with some...
A. 4 December 2009: Please don't move. it sound like you guys will struggle if you guys got together. you have a good life and goals and will have a good future he you think straight. he sounds bad and im only saying that because i had a guy just like him. he seem like ... (read in full...)
My fiance is convinced I'm cheating!
Q. Dear Agony Aunts, My fiance says that the reason why he is being so mean, acting out with so much animosity towards me is plainly because his mother is deceased (about 1 or 1 1/2 years ago). He constantly assumes that I have a dude coming over...
A. 4 December 2009: Wow can't believe you want a marriage like that. it bad now but im guessing you think it will get better after the wedding. my baby cousin was in your shoes four years ago. she did marry him has three kids by him and crys every night asking god ... (read in full...)
I miss my clingy ex-boyfriend
Q. I just broke up with my extremely clingy boyfriend, and I feel so lonely without him. The relationship became abusive because of his jealousy and clinginess. I know that the best thing for me to do was break up with him. I lost most of my friends ...
A. 4 December 2009: We all go thru that feeling. its your heart being in love and then trying to cope with the fact that the person is no longer in your life. whatever the reason for you guys breaking up still does matter to the heart. you mind is probably telling you ... (read in full...)
He left his wife for me, but now he treats me badly
Q. Hello, I have been on here several times and I wanted to update my stories. I was seeing a married man for six years. His wife finally left him, and we moved in together. I thought things was really going to be okay, and that I was finally goin...
A. 4 December 2009: Im sorry you keep seeing him for so long. when a man cheats on his wife its exciting for him. he treats you the way he thinks you put out. you was the other woman the one that keep his cheating secret in his eyes it was nothing but sex with a few ... (read in full...)
It's been a year but I still miss my ex
Q. My girlfriend and I broke up almost a year ago, we fought a lot, it was a bad break up. To this day I still miss her, I think about her all the time and I constantly think I see her when I'm out. What does this mean? I hated our relationship yet she ...
A. 4 December 2009: You should try everything to get her back. every relationship fights trust and believe. sometimes its hard to let go of someone because they haven't let to you also. you should really try to get her back and let her know exactly how you feel because ... (read in full...)
Why wont she admit that she is still in love with me?
Q. this might take long so please bare with me. 3 days ago i just found out my ex who lives down south is wanting me back and my mate told me cause she was talking to her on msn. my mate told me that my ex wanted me back and is missing me badly and ...
A. 3 December 2009: you seem to be focusing on your ex what about your mate. i know she is feeling bad to find out that you are so persistent to find out how your ex feels about you. lets talk about you ex if she still has you blocked it sounds like she does not want ... (read in full...)
I saw my best friend and my boyfriend getting it on together!!! What to do?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. my best friend we were so close, we did everything together, even having bath together, she was like a sister to me, i felt so comfortable with her. and my best friend and boyfriend were friends from when ...
A. 2 December 2009: Wow do you really want to do that to yourself. that feeling that you have will never go away and plus he cheated on you in a place that you guy went together. its sadly funny that he disrespected you in that way and you are still calling him your ... (read in full...)
I don't want to break up a relationship, but I think he's the one.
Q. A friend of mine and I have known each other for a few years now, we have been interested in one another in the past, but, never at the same time. He has been with his girlfriend for over a year (during which time we didn't talk), but he has shared ...
A. 1 December 2009: it sounds sweet but its weird that after all this time he has not pursed you in that way. and plus would you really feel comfortable helping break you a relationship and don't think he want noticed because he does not say anything. instead of ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be the idiot that's used as a doormat.
Q. I found out that my boyfriend has been sending texts to other girls of a sexual nature along with this he has also been sending texts saying that he wanted to be with them. this is the second time that I've found this out in the space of a couple of ...
A. 1 December 2009: have you ever meet a woman who's you think man treats her wrong. cheats on her and disrespect and the girl always say i been with him for a long time and i know he loves me. whatever do you want to be that woman. he don't care for you, you can be ... (read in full...)
Her boyfriends a jerk but she won't leave him.
Q. I have a friend who is quite frankly becoming a bit pathetic. She's been dating this guy for four years and he is so toxic it's unbelievable. He cheats on her like it's his job and he's just the biggest creep ever. Worst of all he hits on her ...
A. 23 November 2009: i have a friend like that but her man is worst he does not work because he says the government is after him and she believes him they have been together for five years now he cheats hits hers takes her checks everything it really bad but what i have ... (read in full...)
How can I show my ex I've changed and that I want her back?
Q. I really want to give things with my exgirlfriend another go and i think she does too but im scared she will turn me down. We were together for 9 months a few years ago, and we're were very close. I stupidly dumped her when she became depresse...
A. 18 November 2009: My ex did the exact same thing. we i started to go thru my rough pact he up and left me blaming everything on the arguements. it hurts for someone to leave you at your weakest moments. if she takes you back she will not be that trusting with her ... (read in full...)
What should I choose, earth shattering sex or the great looking guy who is not so good in bed?
Q. Which one should I choose earth shattering great sex you know the kind that brings a tear to your eye and make you pull out the hairs on your head and ok looks or do i choose that guy when he walks in the room everyone creams their pants. You know ...
A. 18 November 2009: i went thru this before but first never sleep with two people at the same time but i cant tell you who to choose but i chose the not so good sex because i fell for his charm and i gave he confidence in the you know what area and he left me so best ... (read in full...)
Is he interested or just blowing me off?
Q. I met M two weeks ago through a common friend of ours. He liked me and I liked him but nothing happened. A few days later we were talking on facebook and he suggested we go have drinks. We finally went out on a date and in the end he ended up coming ...
A. 18 November 2009: it sounds like he got want he wanted. if someone wants you they will always make time for you. trust and believe. no matter what when a man wants you he will call more text more come see you take you out everything but if not he will answer your ... (read in full...)
He's introduced me to his family. Does that mean he's serious about me?
Q. Why would a guy introduce you too his family and bring you around them? I personally wouldn't bring any guys around my family unless I was planning to keep him around. The reason I asked is because I met all my ex boyfriend's family and was always ...
A. 18 November 2009: that question is tough to answer. i have 3 brother 16 24 and 28 and they have always bought every girl they was chilling with around. we are a open family who loves meeting new people but 2 of my brothers bring their girlfriend around then the side ... (read in full...)
He wants me to change everything about myself!!!
Q. I'm 19 years old and i have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have a baby together but I'm not sure if he still loves me or not?? He tells me that i need to change and dont know what i need to change?? When i ask him he tells me "everyth...
A. 18 November 2009: When someone loves you they love all of you. its not you its more likely him. it seems like he wants someone else. god created you and he also created the other half of you and the other half of you will accept you as you no matter what because to ... (read in full...)
His girlfriend told him to stop talking to me!
Q. Hello :) Okay so I recently met a guy and his friends. He has a girlfriend, who is a friend of one of my best friends. Me and the guy talk alot, we're good friends. The other day my best friend told me that his girlfriend told him to stop talking ...
A. 17 November 2009: The girlfriend has her right to be concern. if you only friends with him then do not get involved in his relationship. if he tells you something about her dnt respond and change the subject. but it sounds like you might like him a little bit be ... (read in full...)
Am I still with him because I am afraid of being alone?
Q. So me and my boyfriend have been dating on and off for about 3 years now. I love him very much, the deepest love i have ever felt for anyone. We have broken up 3 times and I have been the one to break up with him. The first time we dated 3 mont...
A. 17 November 2009: everyone is afraid of being alone. the connection you have with him seems to be love and thats a good thing. it sounds like more of a friendship than relationship. try not to push a relationship and plus always remember if a man wants you he will ... (read in full...)
My husband's addiction to porn is destroying our lives!
Q. i have been with my husband for 6 years, and during this time he has lied about watching and using pornography. he has an addition to it, he has even watched porn at his work and lost his job and lost a lot of respect from friends and family. beca...
A. 17 November 2009: Hi first off its not baby sitting when is his child. in every relationship you are going to have at else one problem. baby girl if porn is the only problem you all have then thats okay because it could be worst. try making your own porn video for ... (read in full...)
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