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writes:I am married but not happily and i have found comfort in a long time good friend. We ahve been texting and tlking on the phone for about 3 months now. He tells me that he left his girlfriend and is liveing with his mom. We text all day until about 8 pm. Then the other night i texted him good night and sweet dreams. The girl texted me back why r u textying my man. We both agreed that we just wanna hook up relationship and still stay with our other . My question is:1. Why is he telling me this and she texting me that?I made it clear if they are together then i wont text him after work.We have this strong physical connection.2. Is there really a easier way to do this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2009): you are married. tell your hb you are having an affair and then divorce him, and then you can continue being this guys side item while he still is with his gf who he lives with.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (5 December 2009):
I agree with Double M. If his girlfriend has something to say, it means she's worried and may have seen this all before and he's a jerk. I'd suggest focusing on what you want to do about your marriage before getting involved with anyone else. If your marriage can't be saved, end it and move on.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (5 December 2009):
 If you are truly so unhappy in your marriage, and no children are involved, then conclude it with divorce or separation before you mess around. But the reason that she ended up texting you is obviously that he is still somehow with her, at least on some occasions. How would she otherwise intercept your message? You may just be being played by him. In that case, you could lose your husband and end up with a true jerk.
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reader, Shan25 +, writes (5 December 2009):
If you are not happy in your marriage then why are you married. and you are so willingly ready to cheat. you concerned about why his girlfriend answer the phone and he didn't tell you his situation why would he when he found out you was going to get it up. he is not married you are do your vows mean anything
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