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36-40,
*han25
writes:Hi, well my ex dumped me a month ago after six months. At first I was mad but then I realised he was only 20 and I was 24 and we were on two different levels. So anyway I was out paying my cell phone bill and saw this cute guy and when he gave me his number I realised it was listed in my phone as one of the numbers my ex calls from (my ex calls sometimes because he was staying with me and was trying to get all of his things out) well he was my ex's cousin, 25 6"3 dark skin just nice job, smile, car, own place. It's been two weeks now and after we found out who each other was we didn't say anything, he went his way and I went mine but I can't stop thinking about him.
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reader, Shan25 +, writes (6 December 2009):
Shan25 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionXlaurenx thanks im going to try and go for it but im crazy shy which to everyone i know is not apparent. im like a girly girl tomboy but deep down in shy but thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2009): For your own peace of mind ring this guy, find out how he would feel about meeting and up and say
"if it'll cause problems we'll leave it but if you want to have lunch I'm happy to."
He may throw caution to the wind and meet up. It may work or it may not at least you wont have any "what if...?" in your mind and can say you gave it a go.
You sound so much better off without your ex! I hope things go well for you and take care, thanks for replying and I really hope you find happiness. x
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reader, Shan25 +, writes (5 December 2009):
Shan25 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionXlaurenx thank you for your advice. its crazy that i like him but its been so long since i had a decent conversation and attraction with a guy. my ex hated talking it was always me talking and him with three words response. but this guy it just feels right. oh and i don't know if they are close because my ex never talked about his family and plus i never meet any of them. thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2009): You can't help who you are attracted to but sometimes you have to have a sense of consideration in your actions. If he has a close relationship with your ex then it might cause some problems in their family if he decided to date you.
But the other side is that your ex is quite frankly your ex. He would have no argument to stop his cousin dating you, he doesn't want you - so why should he stop anyone else from being with you? Maybe call this guy and have a little chat. If he is hesitant or even confirms his worries that it could cause problems then let your feelings go. You'll find another person who you deserve. Take Care.
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reader, Shan25 +, writes (5 December 2009):
Shan25 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk thanks for you answer but to inform you on somethings when i was programming his number in my phone thats when i told him it was already save and ask him did he know my ex and after he heard the name he was like thats my cuz but he did get my number but after we realise we knew a common person we just said okay but i can't help but remember the entire conversation we had before the number exchange.
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