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My name is Sarah and i am 13 years old. My friends always come to me for comfort or help and i am a sholder to lean on. I love to go the beach and hang out with my friends!! :)My favorite animal for some reason is a POLAR BEAR!!! LOL. i have 2 puppies. a black lab and a pomeranion. ( i don't think i spelt that right) I live in a HOT STATE. Arizona! very hot out here lol. i was from california but moved 2 oregon when i was 4 and moved here when i was 9. So if you've got a question i can help! |
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Do you think this could work as a relationship?
Q. I met a guy over a year ago let's call him John, we really got on but I was in a relationship at the time. A few weeks later we broke up. About a month later I called john but he was in a relationship himself. They broke up fairly soon after an...
A. 15 August 2007: well keep trying. like say that maybe u 2 should go see a new movie that both of u want to see together. and if he cancels agian don't give up!!... (read in full...)
Do I wait for him to ask me out? Do I just ask directly? Do I say it when he isn't expecting it? What do I do?
Q. I am dumping this kid named Jonny, I have figured this out by now. And I am going to ask another kid out, Todd, about a month later. My "friend" is ADDICTED to him and blames every bump in their "relationship" (She says they are dating. Everyo...
A. 15 August 2007: well fist off try to get his #, if you have it allready just text him and be like hey whats up, and start a conversation from there. Then try to get closer to him and then sooner or later just casuley say who do u like, and then if he doesn't have ... (read in full...)
At the time I thought it was for best that we broke up, but i think i still love him...
Q. I really don't know what to do. i was seeing this guy for a few months on and off, and then eventually we became more serious, but our relationship as friends made it wierd for us, so it didn't last long. At the time I thought it was for best tha...
A. 15 August 2007: well, if you want to hang out with him, maybe just say sumthing like, hey we haven't hung out in a while, maybe we should do sumthing this weekend or sumthing like that. Or just call him or text him and be like whats up?!
If you really like him that... (read in full...)
He's a mate and I like him. How can I get him to like me back?
Q. Hey, there is this guy i really like, and sometimes i think he likes me back. Eg. he always tickels me in science class and i like feel like he is staring at me. But i asked one of his friends who he likes and they said someother girl!! Can you plea...
A. 5 August 2007: hey those are all great answers. but i just have one more question, why do i have to make eye contact for a few secounds??... (read in full...)
Does sex hurt the first time?
Q. hey my friends say that when you first have sex it hurts. Does it auctually hurt or what? Please explain...
A. 27 July 2007: wow!! all that sounds scary!! now im scared lol... (read in full...)
I don't know if he likes me--what can I do?
Q. I really like a guy whose brother is on my brother's team. I'm not sure if he likes me or not. How can you tell? I'm pretty sure he likes me because his neighbor keeps coming up to me and saying that he's a tumbler and that he's cute and keeps ...
A. 5 July 2007: hey sorry it took so long 2 reply i was out of town. well maybe you could go hang out sometime. just like bring some of your friends and have him bring some of his friends and then hang out. our if you want him to know you like him get a phone ... (read in full...)
Does sex hurt the first time?
Q. hey my friends say that when you first have sex it hurts. Does it auctually hurt or what? Please explain...
A. 2 July 2007: no problem:) thank you for the informaation!! :)... (read in full...)
I don't know if he likes me--what can I do?
Q. I really like a guy whose brother is on my brother's team. I'm not sure if he likes me or not. How can you tell? I'm pretty sure he likes me because his neighbor keeps coming up to me and saying that he's a tumbler and that he's cute and keeps ...
A. 2 July 2007: then nicely ask the neighboor... (read in full...)
Does sex hurt the first time?
Q. hey my friends say that when you first have sex it hurts. Does it auctually hurt or what? Please explain...
A. 2 July 2007: thank you for your help!! i know that answering that question might have been a little aqward. But i am only 13 so i won't have sex but i was just wondering :). so if you where tampons you would have broken that hymen?... (read in full...)
Was forgiving her a mistake?
Q. Dear cupid, my girlfriend slept with another man behind my back but i slept behind her back when we had only just started seeing each other. I have forgiven her, have i made a big mistake? ...
A. 2 July 2007: well maybe you should sit down with her and just be honest and tell her how you feel about what happened. and she should feel comfortable about telling you why she did it and if she doesn't give you a true reason she might not be the one for you.... (read in full...)
How do I ask where the relationship is going without scaring him off?
Q. I have been seeing a guy for 6weeks and want to ask him where he thinks the relationship is going but I'm afraid I'll spoil things or push him away. How should I approach the subject with him?...
A. 2 July 2007: well maybe when you guys go on a date see how he looks at you and touches you, and by that you should feel where its going. but if not just ask him where you think it will go. and if he is the one for you he shouldn't care or get mad of you wanting ... (read in full...)
I'm having my first crush and I don't know what to do
Q. I am a 14 yrold boy with a first ever crush. Its so bad that i cant sleep! My crush is on my best friend's 15yr old sister. Im fat and shy. I dont have the courage to ask her out or ask for my best friends permission. I dont know what to do.I know ...
A. 2 July 2007: well if your bf is really a good friend you should be able to tell him you like his older sister and he should kind of give her the hint. but if you go to his house kinda strike up a conversation with that girl, and maybe you 2 will end up being ... (read in full...)
I don't know if he likes me--what can I do?
Q. I really like a guy whose brother is on my brother's team. I'm not sure if he likes me or not. How can you tell? I'm pretty sure he likes me because his neighbor keeps coming up to me and saying that he's a tumbler and that he's cute and keeps ...
A. 1 July 2007: sometimes you just have to tell your self he isn't the one. When you go back 2 school( if you are still on summer break) you will see guys your own age and will soon fall for another guys and 4get that one guy. so don't worry.... (read in full...)
I don't know if he likes me--what can I do?
Q. I really like a guy whose brother is on my brother's team. I'm not sure if he likes me or not. How can you tell? I'm pretty sure he likes me because his neighbor keeps coming up to me and saying that he's a tumbler and that he's cute and keeps ...
A. 30 June 2007: well heres some flirting tips. if you see him tell him a compliment or kind of just give him that shy smile. and kinda play with your hair, and sometimes guys are just plain clueless lol so you might have to make the first move. and you can tell if ... (read in full...)
My health is being effected by my breakup--please help!
Q. Please help me, I have been crying for the past four hours. I am having a hard time "getting over" me ex. We were together for eight months, most of that time it was long-distance, but we were pretty much head over heels for one another right wh...
A. 30 June 2007: well try to go treat your self to a spa, or go hang out with your mom, or friends. try to do something that will take your mind off him. i know that may seem imposible, but don't say that. at least try. maybe if you are still being depressed go to a ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and my period has stopped. What should I do?
Q. I have never had sex so why havent i had my periods for nearly 3 months now why?...
A. 28 June 2007: well sometimes it depends on your body system. if you have just started your period, it might not always come on the same time. sometimes it just might skip some months. if your still scared about it talk to a friend or your mom.... (read in full...)
My best friend and her other friend leave me out. What can I do?
Q. hii im really depressed at the moment because my bes friend has got another friend who is really close to her they leave me out on things and i feel as if im not wanted i really like my best friend but am really depressed as i am not able to go ...
A. 28 June 2007: well if she is your bff, then you can talk to her no matter what. and say he do you think that we can hang out soon, or something like that. If she says no i am hanging out with someone elese that day say hey you know i am kinnda getting left out. ... (read in full...)
We're always at physical war with eachother... I'm beginning to like him!
Q. There's this guy i like a lot. I've told him this but he's taken it as a joke. Recently i've been in a war thing with him where we've mucked each other up. He put toothpaste and shaving gel in my hair and I did other stuff to him. Because we're ...
A. 28 June 2007: if you allready told him you like him, and he thought of it as a joke, maybe tell him a few times and instead of fighting with him flirt with him. And if he still thinks its a joke move on. Don't wait around on a guy when there are better ones out ... (read in full...)
I'm nervous about losing my virginity but I feel pressured by my friends
Q. Im still a virgin at 14 but recently, all my friends have been losing it and I'm beginning to feel left out. I know you shouldn't give in to peer pressure but they go as far as to say "Put your hand up if your a virgin" and I find only I raise my ...
A. 24 June 2007: i had a boyfriend that pressured me into haveing sex with him. And i din't do it cause i didn't want to take the risk of getting aids or gettting pregnant. So if you do be carefull! don't get presured into doing anything you don't want to do!if you ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure about a drug I'm taking
Q. I need some help here. Are you familiar with this drug called Erythromycin? this is a skin drug that treats skin problems such as acne. Could I take this drug on a empty stomach without eatting any food just water? If I don't eat food for a long per...
A. 24 June 2007: you should never take any drugs on a empty stomch! if you do you might get migrains and get stomch aches and very dizzy. So just eat before you take any drugs.... (read in full...)
He's looking at porn; doesn't he find me attractive?
Q. My husband has been using porn and all of the women he has searched were completely different to me...for example I am older and show sigs of having had my children..My body has stretch marks and scars. He searched thousands of women all of them ...
A. 24 June 2007: hey my dad does that too. and my mom found out about it. my mom is 42 and she said that he can look but can't touch. So don't let him bother you. He married you and he loves you. So don't let that get you down.... (read in full...)
I like him but he keeps pressuring me for sex! Should I dump him?
Q. hey i am 13 years old and same with me boyfriend. on the very first night he kept asking me to do bj's with him and made me feel very uncomfortable. I confronted him about it and he said that he was sorry, but he keeps asking me to like take showers ...
A. 21 June 2007: hey i dumped him. Like he called me and he started to ask me those questions and i go look your making me feel uncomfortable. ( That was hard to tell him by the way) and he goes oh sorry. but then like 12 minutes later he started to do the same ... (read in full...)
I have such ugly teeth I dont want to smile
Q. I have really ugly teeth. People call me elephant girl bc they look like tusks. it really hurts me inside. and i really like this guy derrick but he makes fun of me too even though he has like the hairiest legs ever so he shouldnt be talking. should ...
A. 20 June 2007: if he doesn't like you for you he is so not worth it!!!! I used to have messed up teeth to and i got called many nasty names and i have braces now and a lot of people have them now so it isn't a big deal. Maybe talk to your parents about having ... (read in full...)
Why do you think he is starting to tease me so much?
Q. i am friends with this guy who has been teasing me a lot lately. sometimes, it hurts my feelings, and i start to think that he no longer wants to be friends with me, but we always end up play fighting or hugging. with his teasing me, i'm starting to ...
A. 18 June 2007: well you might like it because he is spending time with you. and guys sometimes flirt like that. ... (read in full...)
I like him but he keeps pressuring me for sex! Should I dump him?
Q. hey i am 13 years old and same with me boyfriend. on the very first night he kept asking me to do bj's with him and made me feel very uncomfortable. I confronted him about it and he said that he was sorry, but he keeps asking me to like take showers ...
A. 18 June 2007: hey thank you to all the people that helped me out!!! But i don't know how to just break up with him. and when i confounted him about it he said that he would wait for me. So maybe he has changed but don't worry i won't let him pressure me into ... (read in full...)
does she still like me, I feel like asking her but I dunno if that would put her off me what do I do?
Q. I like this girl, she is 16 I am 17. I met her through a mate when we were out in his car, I felt a strong love for her as soon as I saw her, kind of a love at first site thingie. Asked her if she would go out with me. She answered "I am n...
A. 18 June 2007: well try to flirt with her but don't come on too strong. If she likes you she will get the hint. And if she just wants to be friends then she isn't right for you... (read in full...)
I'm fine with her socialising but I get so jealous when she talks to this one guy.
Q. I have a real issue. My girlfriend and I have been going out for 4 months now. I'm fine with her socializing with everyone else except for this 1 kid. He's 1 of my mates from school, and for some reason, whenever they're together, I just get so so ...
A. 18 June 2007: if she where to like that guy she would have already been going out with him. but she isn't she likes you and don't let that get to you. Girls don't like it when guys get jealous it makes it look like you have no confidence. so don't let him bother ... (read in full...)
Should I go for it and ask her out even although she's seeing someone else?
Q. i like this girl who's 14, i'm 16. i think she likes me too. i just found out she is in a relationship with a boy who lives 2 hours away and she see's after about 2 weeks. she never mentioned anything about him. shall i still ask her out on a date?...
A. 17 June 2007: well no one is stopping you to go tell her that you like her. and if she likes you to she should realize that she should go out with you not a guy that lives farther away... (read in full...)
I really hope he likes me
Q. I am a teen, and I really like this guy but Im to plain and ordinary for him! he was voted the third hottest guy in our school, but he spoke to me one day and jokingly asked if his friend can have some of my chips, he greets me when he see's me...
A. 17 June 2007: well you can tell he likes you. and i always wonder if a guy likes me also. just like flirt with him a little and see what his response is. Or just go get your friend and have them do something to give him some sort of hint... (read in full...)
How do I forgive my friend who ran off with my old bf!
Q. Anger doesn't quite cover it... I was in a relationship for three years and the guy I was with treated me like a pile of rubbish yet I still stuck by him despite how many friends I lost being being out with him is frankly troublesome, dan...
A. 17 June 2007: sometimes you can't forgive people. but you can move on. If you see your friend with you X bf, just have fun and rub it in her face that you have a better bf than she does. and let her know that you will let her know when her oppion auctually ... (read in full...)
My Mum treats me with less respect than my brothers and sisters. I've tried talking to her but she won't listen. What should I do?
Q. hi everyone, my mom abuses me emotionally and ive tried talking to her about it but she doesnt understand. im the oldest out of three children and it seems to me she has favorites, my sister. she always hugs her and pushes me away, and my sister i...
A. 17 June 2007: hey, i am sorry to hear that but what you can do is try to talk to your closet sibling. and maybe he or she can go talk to your mother. Or just try not to let her effect you. Cause if you give her a mean response she will know that it bothers ... (read in full...)
This girl I know makes confusing references to sex..what am I to make of her?
Q. A North American girl I am working with everyday keeps making references to a question someone asked her: her exact words are "he asked me how much I could take", meaning, how many times she could have intercourse in a row. Then, she suddenly says ...
A. 17 June 2007: hey,
she might not be serious aboout what she said so don't take it that serious. but if she does you just need to do the right thing... (read in full...)
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