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Was forgiving her a mistake?

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Question - (1 July 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 12 July 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Dear cupid, my girlfriend slept with another man behind my back but i slept behind her back when we had only just started seeing each other. I have forgiven her, have i made a big mistake?

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (12 July 2007):

love-him agony auntGood Luck x x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2007):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

i did admit to cheating on her now we are talking which is a good thing and maybe who knws we might get back togther

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (11 July 2007):

love-him agony auntHi babe, you have both cheated, and you are the one who hasnt admitted it. I think you should either tell her or if not i dont think you two are a good enough couple, i am sorry if this doesnt make sense, but i think thats wot shud happen.. I hope i helped. Mail me if you would like to talk x x

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A female reader, DIE-romantic. United Kingdom +, writes (3 July 2007):

DIE-romantic. agony auntYou both sound as bad as each other here! I mean, seriously you seem to be giving her a bad time here, LOOK AT YOURSELF MATE! And shes still non the wiser! Tell her the truth, maybe you can both move on and forget about it. Sleeping with someone just to get back at her? Well its not getting at her because she doesnt even know! So thats abit stupid isnt it? It sounds like immature tit for tat to me. Grow up yeah?

Hope it works out okay for you.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (2 July 2007):

Danielepew agony auntI'm with the ladies.

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A female reader, sarahbeth101 United States +, writes (2 July 2007):

well maybe you should sit down with her and just be honest and tell her how you feel about what happened. and she should feel comfortable about telling you why she did it and if she doesn't give you a true reason she might not be the one for you.

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