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writes:hi everyone,my mom abuses me emotionally and ive tried talking to her about it but she doesnt understand. im the oldest out of three children and it seems to me she has favorites, my sister. she always hugs her and pushes me away, and my sister is snobbish and very stuck up. she told me she hates going out with me because im no help that my brother and my sister are more usefull. she makes me feel like trash.... what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, sarahbeth101 +, writes (17 June 2007):
hey,i am sorry to hear that but what you can do is try to talk to your closet sibling. and maybe he or she can go talk to your mother. Or just try not to let her effect you. Cause if you give her a mean response she will know that it bothers you, and she will keep doing that.
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reader, jabey  +, writes (17 June 2007):
This is sad for you.
I suggest you write your mum a long letter, make it nonconfrontational.
Explain in clear non agrressive way how hurt and sad you feel, give examples of things she has done that hurt you.
Explain how much you love her and how you would dearly like to be close with her.
Sometimes seeing things in writing hit people harder, she will have time to digest the info. without being able to answer back.
I hope then she will take on board your feelings.
If not, maybe there is another adult ? aunty? teacher? that you are close to that you can confide in, you need to be nutured.
Remember you are not unloveable, for some reason your mum is having difficulty relating to you, try to hear what she has to say to and see if togehther you can meet jhalf way.
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