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Do I wait for him to ask me out? Do I just ask directly? Do I say it when he isn't expecting it? What do I do?

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Question - (12 August 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 August 2007)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I am dumping this kid named Jonny, I have figured this out by now. And I am going to ask another kid out, Todd, about a month later. My "friend" is ADDICTED to him and blames every bump in their "relationship" (She says they are dating.

Everyone knows she will do anything to become cooler. Todd hates her and tries to avoid eye contact) on me. For example, he needed to look at her poem that the teacher had written up because he lost his. She took this as a cue to make out with him. She grabs his chin, and forces a fish face on him and pulled him toward her. She closed her eyes, puckered up, and luckily I saved him, because I walked over (I was in their group) and asked Tom a question about science class. He never lets another boy near me, always helps me, and yells at anyone that hurts me and bullies me. So either he is being payed by my friends to do this, or(Did I mention he will talk to me, me and only, me? and Blshes everytime?) he really does like me. Well, I am guessing he likes me. But how do I ask him out? Do I wait for him to ask me? Do I just ask directly? Do I say it when he isn't expecting it? What do I do? Also, my friend is calling him on her cell phone sometimes and asking if he likes me. Is this okay?

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A female reader, sarahbeth101 United States +, writes (15 August 2007):

well fist off try to get his #, if you have it allready just text him and be like hey whats up, and start a conversation from there. Then try to get closer to him and then sooner or later just casuley say who do u like, and then if he doesn't have the guts to say u, be brave and say well try to guess who i like and then sooner or later he will say me? and then u culd say yea. then take it from there

Good luck XXX

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2007):

Try not to let your friend interfere by calling him, he'll respect you more if you don't involve anyone else. If you really like him, just ask him out, guys really like a girl who is able to do this!

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