Why doesn't he take pictures of me?
Q. Does anyone have a spouse or lover who will not photograph them? My husband has never took my picture unless I mention it to him. I know he took pictures of girlfriends he had before me because I've seen them. He still has them. Yet, unless I ...
A. 26 May 2009: Your husband probably took pictures of his ex when they were on holiday or at special events - normally a woman has to say to a man 'take a picture of me here' on holiday and things like that. I wouldn't read too much into it, it certainly doesn't ... (read in full...)
What's wrong with me? Am I destined to be alone?
Q. I've never felt so alone, and it seems like I'm the only person in the world who doesn't have someone special. Sometimes I imagine what it would be like to have a boyfriend who loves me and I imagine being held and talked to lovingly and havi...
A. 20 March 2009: This is such a common question - you're not alone in thinking that everyone is experiencing happiness in a relationship except for you - I am 34 and have just met someone, and I think the one thing I have learned in my life is that no-one is ... (read in full...)
I need help to stop being so insecure and crazy. Why am I so off balance?
Q. I have had quite a few relationships but never found the one. I am an attractive, intelligent and successful, with men constantly wanting to be in a serious relationship with me. Finally I have met a guy and have fallen in love with him and he ...
A. 19 March 2009: I can't top the great answers given by the other agony aunts on this one - but I just wanted to add that insecurity really does kill a realtionship and you need to think of doing things which do not involve him a couple of nights a week - it's ... (read in full...)
I hacked into his email account... how do I tell him?
Q. ok so my boyfriend went to another state for thanksgiving with his family and he started acting weird he wouldnt call me and when I called, one night his brother answered and sang and hung up.... then I called back, he answered and I heard a girl in ...
A. 25 November 2008: Personally I wouldn't tell him - he won't know if you hacked into his email account beacuse when he goes to log on, it will just say that he doesn't recognise his password. Can't you hack into it again and change it back again ( if you did it once ... (read in full...)
Back in the dating scene and confused: should I have called HIM?
Q. Can anyone throw some light on my current situation please? I am new to the dating scene after ending a very long term relationship so I'm not good at this. I met a guy last Sunday that I thought was quite attractive. He is a close friend of ...
A. 25 November 2008: Hello there, He has only had your number for 2 days, maybe less, and it's not unusual for someone to take longer than two days to call. He will probably call you tomorrow or Thursday to ask you out for this weekend. You are absolutely right not to ... (read in full...)
Is it morally wrong that part of my attraction to him is the lifestyle he can provide me with?
Q. A few months ago met a man who seems to be very attracted to me.. And I'm considering dating him. The problem is that I have trouble believing that he is really interested in me. He is a partner in an oil trading company, rich, good-looking, and ...
A. 19 November 2008: No, it's not morally wrong at this early stage. We are attracted to people for all sorts of reasons - why is this any different to being attracted to someone for their looks? It would be wrong, however, if you were in a long term relationship with ... (read in full...)
I don't stand out or look special on my wedding pictures and I'm upset about it.
Q. Would appreciate views and advice. I have come back from honeymoon and have been looking at my wedding photos. My wedding day was a bit mixed and not easy going at times due to family pressures and nasty comments. However I have become upset ...
A. 18 November 2008: It's really rude of them to wear white / ivory on your wedding day. You can forgive younger people the error but older members of the family certainly know better than to wear the same colour as the bride. You do have my sympathies, and I'm glad ... (read in full...)
How can I get over my husband's infatuation with my sister?
Q. I am happily married, most of the time, to my husband of 9 years. I have a younger sister who is absolutely gorgeous in every way, shape and form. I am also very good looking; just not as good looking as her. About two years after we got married, ...
A. 15 October 2008: I really feel for you, I have an older sister who is absolutely stunning in a way I could never be. I am tall, gangly and blonde, whereas she is petite, with dark tumbling curls and a perfect face and body. It is very difficult when the man you are ... (read in full...)
My wife is behaving strangely, how should I interpret it?
Q. I have noticed some inappropriate behavior from my wife your thoughts and input please, 1. my wife goes to a bus. client's bedroom when he is alone and when his wife is out of town, leaving my daughter in the car in the drive way. her excuse, "...
A. 24 September 2008: I can't understand why you would allow your wife to go away with a group of people (and not include you)? I say 'allow' but of course I know we can't dictate to people, I simply mean that this alone should be cause for concern. Staying in the same ... (read in full...)
Anyone know of any way to get rid of these bumps that show up on the back of my thigh? I am afraid to wear a skirt or shorts that show my legs...
Q. I have always had a few problems with getting a boyfriend in my life, I could never find a guy who liked me enough and was worth keeping at the same time. Recently I have become embarrassed of my looks because I have gained some weight and I am ...
A. 24 September 2008: Hi babe, perhaps you should see a doctor..then again it could be just the dreaded cellulite. Are they orange peel effect? Always affects the back of the thighs. If so then your weight is a contributing factor. The only way to get rid of these is to ... (read in full...)
Are we to be or not to be?
Q. I am concerned. I have been with my man 5 years. We recently had a 7 month break as our reltionship was in a bit of a rut (my call). I am glad to be back together, and he is doing everything he can to make things better. My concern is that ...
A. 24 September 2008: When everything they do aggravates you, then you know it is a sure fire sign to move on. Also, losing your sex drive is another way of knowing things are not working out. You have been with this man for 5 years (ignoring the 7 month break) and you ... (read in full...)
I cheated whilst on holiday for the first time on my bf of 5 years!!
Q. Im away for holiday and I cheated on my bf here.I was absolutely drunk I couldnt even remember what I did!The guy just used me.I know that we didnt have sex but we did other stuff.Ive been with my bf for nearly 5 years.He's my first guy!I feel sooo ...
A. 3 July 2008: You were drunk, on holiday, and someone took advantage of you- so please don't feel guilty as you have nothing to feel guilty about. It's a lesson we all have to learn at some point - alcohol and men we don't know rarely go well together! You'd be ... (read in full...)
What size and shape of girl do men prefer?
Q. I'm really curious. Do guys Prefer Skinny, slim, curvy or overweight girls? If you had to pick a clothing size for a girl what would it be?...
A. 2 July 2008: Men are a strange bunch really - as long as it breathes and moves (not necessarily at the same time) they are more than happy. Some men like larger ladies - I know two men who love big women, some men love skinny girls (that whole sporty/small ... (read in full...)
My ex went back to his ex when she pretended she was pregnant. Should I contact him now?
Q. Should I contact my ex after 4 months? We only dated for two months but we had a really good relationship, with so much chemisty and both wanted the same things in life. However, his ex (whom he has children with) pretended to be pregnant (when she ...
A. 2 July 2008: I can understand how difficult this situation is for you, having been in a similar situation myself. However, the most important factor in all this is just how soon you two were an item following his break up with his ex. You were his comfort when ... (read in full...)
A whirlwind romance and six years marriage, and I'm now regretting it. Any advice?
Q. I have been married for nearly 6 years, a whirlwind romance which I am now regretting. I am a Foster Mother who stays at home as that is what is requested by the agengy I work for. My husband hurls abuse that I am a lazy cow, even though I do all ...
A. 2 July 2008: It's so strange that he would leave money in the car..what if the car was stolen? That really does seem odd and you are right to be concerned about him hiding money..and treating you abusively. I don't think it sounds like the best environment to ... (read in full...)
How do I build up to asking her out?
Q. at the moment i really like this girl and like we've met up a few times with our mates and stuff but how do i know if she likes me in a relansionship kinda way?? and also what are the next steps and what should i do in the build up to me possibly ...
A. 2 July 2008: You need to keep it very light hearted - dating someone is about having fun and not putting each other under any pressure. When you meet up in your group of friends, try just being yourself and joking around with her, us women love it when a man ... (read in full...)
How can I get him to initiate sex?
Q. been with my boyfriend 4 years, and in the last 6 months or so have discovered it is mainly me that initiates sex, as soon as i touch him sexually or kiss him passionately he gets an errection so there is no problem with attraction (i dont think), ...
A. 1 July 2008: It sounds like he has lost his sex drive - especially if he used to be quite forward sexually. Lots of things can cause a low sex drive, perhaps you should try to find out whether he has experienced any emotional problems over the last 6 months ... (read in full...)
How can I hint that I like him, and flirt a little?
Q. Hey... So there's this guy at my work who I have a bit of a soft spot for and last year he would always sort of flirt with everyone in the office (although he is married) and he flirted with me last year too. And that was after my "friend" went and...
A. 1 July 2008: I could give you lots of tips but why waste them on a married man who with a penchant for underage girls? Although maybe the reason he is keeping his distance is that he found out you like him and realised his behaviour towards you was ... (read in full...)
He says he can't be in a relationship with me but he wants to still be intimate?
Q. Recently i met this guy and began talking to him. we bacame very close in a short space of time. For the first couple of months we were talking every day over the phone for hours upon hours. We then met up a few times and it was great and he then ...
A. 1 July 2008: He is using you. He has been honest in part and told you that he doesn't want a relationship with you, but by talking to you for hours on end, he has led you to believe that there is a chance for you both in the future. You might not believe in sex ... (read in full...)
Why am I annoyed that my friend fixed up my ex husband? Shouldn't it be water under the bridge?
Q. should I be upset to learn that my friend fixed up my ex-husband just months after our divorce? the information slipped out recently and the divorce occured 10 years ago. should be water under the bridge right? why am I bugged?...
A. 1 July 2008: Of course it's natural to feel upset- your friend should not have got involved with your ex husband's love life at all. I can only assume that she was a good friend to you both, and maybe he asked her if she knew anyone and it carried on from there. ... (read in full...)
What's wrong with me? Am I destined to be alone?
Q. I've never felt so alone, and it seems like I'm the only person in the world who doesn't have someone special. Sometimes I imagine what it would be like to have a boyfriend who loves me and I imagine being held and talked to lovingly and havi...
A. 1 July 2008: First of all you're only 29 - so you have plenty of time to meet someone special if you are looking to settle down. It's far better to be single than in the wrong relationship, or be with someone simply because you don't want to be alone. You should ... (read in full...)
He's nice to me at work, but he won't talk to me online - What's the deal?
Q. See this guy he talks to me at work and stuff like hes flirting but when i try to talk to him on the internet he kinda blows me off. Whats his deal? does he not want to be friends anymore or wat? ...
A. 1 July 2008: It's common for people to flirt with their colleagues - we spend so long at work every day that sometimes it lightens the mood a little, but it doesn't mean someone is genuinely interested in you. It sounds like he is having fun at work but has no ... (read in full...)
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