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writes:I have noticed some inappropriate behavior from my wifeyour thoughts and input please, 1. my wife goes to a bus. client's bedroom when he is alone and when his wife is out of town, leaving my daughter in the car in the drive way. her excuse, " he called me because he was sick" and when I called him tochk. on him he says " I am ok" 2.my wife plans a trip to a beach resort, with a couple (not close friends), and some strangers, and plans to stay in the same room with the married couple. My wife and I have been together for over 36yrs. over 28yrs. of married life and over 8yrs. of courtship, and recently I have noticed a significant personality change,could it be due some depression?
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reader, SadieB  +, writes (24 September 2008):
I can't understand why you would allow your wife to go away with a group of people (and not include you)? I say 'allow' but of course I know we can't dictate to people, I simply mean that this alone should be cause for concern. Staying in the same room as a married couple? Distinctly odd. If there was anything going on with the married couple (you know what I mean) then she wouldn't have told you she was staying in the same room as them. I think she is staying with a man, and is saying that she is sharing a room with a married couple of some kind of (very strange, admittedly) cover for her actions. How do you know she goes to this clients bedroom? If your daughter is in the car then you have no way of knowing this unless your wife tells you. And again, if this is the case, why on earth would she tell you this? Of course it is not acceptable to enter someone's bedroom, especially when their wife is out of town. But I find it odd that she shares this with you (if indeed she does). I wonder if she is trying to provoke a reaction from you with the things she is saying and doing at the moment. Are you the reactive type? If not, perhaps you should become so. If you sit there and do not kick up a fuss and demand to know what on earth she is playing at, then she must feel that you simply don't care about her and have no interest in her life. You could start by telling her that the only beach holiday she is having is with you..alone! Perhaps this is all some kind of attention seeking, as I'm sure you know us women can be strange creatures! Best of luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2008): I'd say it is probably due to her having an affair. Tackle her head on and get it sorted, one way or the other.
Good luck.
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