Am I cheating? Can I have a LDR?
Q. I Moved to a new city, a new school and really started liking this guy who is a very nice loving guy. we told each other our feelings and made out a couple of times, but i told him i don't want a relationship now as we need to study really hard. ...
A. 19 February 2013: You say to the other guy you're not in a relationship so you're not although it's kinda to tell him you won't be able to go out after your exams, honesty is always the right path with these things saves wasting peoples time.
As for the LDR they... (read in full...)
Is it possible to forgive after spouse confesses to being unfaithful
Q. I need help and don't want to unload on family and friends, so I am turning to my dearcupid family. Does anybody believe that it is possible to forgive after spouse confesses to being unfaithful. The betrayal happened long ago, and he lied to me ...
A. 19 February 2013: Wow some of your language in reference to this other woman is appalling. Slut, skank, whore, think about where you direct your anger please, at most this other woman is an enabler, you don't know what he lied to her about his and she clearly ditched ... (read in full...)
I gave money to my boyfriend to pay bills but he got a stupid video game!
Q. Hey guys im haveing money issues with my bf and im 17 and need advice. background info is im 17 turn 18 next month my boyfriend is 20. He had a rough life growing up parents on heavey drugs ended up in foster care for awhile. Hes been my bestfriend ...
A. 17 February 2013: I was in a relationship that broke down because my boyfriend was bad with and disrespectful with our money. Now a lot of people tend to expect things back when they give gifts and I don't really believe in that, however there's a limit. You're ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for me to do this? And even if it's not, is it wrong not to tell my new Gf that I do watch this type of porn?
Q. Ok I just got into watching cartoon porn nothing like animals or tenticle types mainly just like girls from tv shows like avatar or american dad any way I have a friend who broke up because his girlfriend didn't like him looking at henti I'm st...
A. 24 December 2012: Chill, loads of people like hentai that is why it's so popular. Shonen-ai which isn't as explicit but involves gay romances has a mainly female audience, I wouldn't stress. Anime/cartoons is just another medium, like television or radio, just ... (read in full...)
No strings attached, how to stop being so casual?
Q. Have you ever seen the movie 'no strings attached?' Well, Natalie Portmans character is me! I'm afraid of commitment and 26 years old. I am pressured by my wonderful, caring but extremely traditional south Asian parents to get married. This makes me ...
A. 23 December 2012: I think there is no issue here and that you're creating one. As long as you make it clear that something is just casual so there are no hard feelings there's no issue with you just having oral with such n such and then backing off. Maybe you back ... (read in full...)
I don't want or feel like having sex EVER!! My husband gets grumpy & moody, and keeps dropping hints about sex.
Q. Ok,.. here is the deal,.. and I know I'm not alone here. I don't have a sex drive anymore, I don't want it, don't need it. Of course my other half says he'll be patient,... NOT! About once every month or 2 I'll give in, and even though I'm not in ...
A. 2 December 2012: You can have a marriage and relationship without sex. Most likely you do still have a libido hiding under there, you probably haven't gone off sex, just sex with your husband. The problem with modern concepts of a relationship is that we expect t... (read in full...)
Saw my best friends fiancée on a dating website. Should I tell him?
Q. I have joined a dating site. I have seen a profile of my life long best friends soon to be wife. She is active on it and it says she is single. What do I do? If I told him would it end up where she lies to him and I get classed as a trouble causer? ...
A. 2 December 2012: I agree with everyone above honesty is the best policy it may be nothing it may be an issue with their relationship that they need to discuss. Send the link but if he comes to you for advice I'd steer clear of giving any, you gave him some ... (read in full...)
While house-sitting for my girlfriend, I discovered she is not the person she lead me to believe she is.
Q. So I have been with my girlfriend about 4 months and I thought things were going great. We got serious very quickly however and ended up spending almost every day together. Lately I've felt very uncertain about several things I've discover...
A. 2 December 2012: Because of silly gender roles, men are thought of as always wanting sex and woman not wanting it often, as a result some women don't take rejection well at all, because the idea that a man could sexually reject them seems impossible he's supposed to ... (read in full...)
How do you know if you have an yeast infection?
Q. i heard that a women's scent changes depending on diet. i'm starting to see discharge and it has a chlorine scent and is white but a little thick and creamy. i am on the iud birth control method so could that be changes as well? i don't have ...
A. 2 December 2012: It doesn't sound anything serious especially since you've just had an IUD you're womb is just adjusting, I had dried brown blood for months after my first one and nothing was wrong. Sometimes you will get thick white creamy discharge, it's ... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin and it's embarrassing. Should I get a male prostitute so I can get the first time out of the way?
Q. Probably the most humiliating thread to post. So anon for obvious reasons. Well, basically I'm a virgin girl 21, and for the past year or so I have been teased by literally everyone who found out I was a virgin. It hasn't at all been for lack of ...
A. 2 December 2012: So ignore the conservative brigade. I'm a prostitute which should make us 'opposites' but I understand your nervousness. My first kiss wasn't till I was 16 and before that I had a chance to kiss someone but I was so scared I just couldn't do it. So ... (read in full...)
I feel that I am not the best lover for my wife
Q. First of all, I give my excuses for my English. I am from Argentina. I got married 3 years ago when I was 44 and my wife was 42. We met each other one year before our marriage. The thing is that I am extremely jealous of her sexual past. She insis...
A. 29 November 2012: I have a partner we're open and I work as an escort which he except but obviously I sleep with a lot of men, not one of them has been better than my partner. She choosing to be with you if you were rubbish she'd say or help you be better there is ... (read in full...)
I'm pretty sure he cheated on me but he wont admit it, what do I do now?
Q. I am married 24 years, and recently found out that my husband cheated on me, but he won't admit it. I have been going through treatments because I have cancer and he started a new job. Because of the chemo I was very sick and not thinking clearly so ...
A. 29 November 2012: Say to him straight up that he has a choice, he either comes entirely clean about this and is honest or you're gone and I mean this you are gone. It is one thing cheating but it is one thing LYING. If he can't be honest this time when you have proof ... (read in full...)
All my boyfriend seems to want is sex
Q. I've ended my unhappy marriage of 20 years. Then I met this man 19 years older than me. He gives me all the attention I've craved for years. We live in separate houses. He's helpful in my house. But he always wants sex when I'm with him. Even if ...
A. 5 June 2012: Sex shouldn't be as enjoyable if his partner wasn't up for it hardly makes him feel desirable so i don't see why he keeps pushing but it's very disrespectful. Maybe ask if he sees sex as a basis for his self confidence and attractiveness he maybe ... (read in full...)
How can I keep it a secret if I get involved with a married man?
Q. I posted a question earlier about a relationship with an older man who is married with children. I thought he was flirting with me and it turns out he was. We met to talk about the project we're both involved in and he drove me home (again!). I...
A. 5 June 2012: Wow, seriously judgemental here. I don't agree with what you're doing but I don't think one bad action makes a bad person so I'm not going to character assassinate you.
This is only going to work for you if you really are just looking for sex, now... (read in full...)
We have great conversations on the phone, but he won't talk to me on Facebook.
Q. I'm a teenager btw...Theres this guy i met almost a year ago, he goes to a different school and lives in a different town.So its hard to commit because there is a bit of distance, but not a huge one. I'm just gonna put it out there..i think i love ...
A. 13 December 2011: Just stick to the phone then?... (read in full...)
My mum might be cheating on my dad with her boss....
Q. Hi,I'm 14,15 in 3 months. Since I was 10,I got a little suspicious of my mother and her boss. He would buy us ice-cream and my grandmother would tell me not to tell my dad.I never liked her boss. I'm pretty sure he's married.She texts him a lot and ...
A. 13 December 2011: I think it would be patronising to tell you it's not your business, it is your business because it's affecting your happiness and your relationship with your mother. I think you should discuss your concerns with your dad, but only present the fact... (read in full...)
Have any girls on here gone to a bar alone?
Q. I have been on my own for a long time now. It has been bothering me for a while but it has only become a problem recently. I don't have particularly great coping skills and feelings of loneliness have become overwhelming. I really need to make some ...
A. 13 December 2011: Bar isn't the best idea, people in bars are usually already out with friends. Alcohol makes people less considerate and 'friendships' made in clubs are gone the next morning usually. Maybe a pub would be okay but I mean assuming you're pretty ... (read in full...)
I don't want sex with my boyfriend and I don't mind if he finds it elsewhere. Normal?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been in each others lives for 1 year and maybe three months? I say this because I'm not sure exactly when we became a couple. I'm 20 and I have a relaxed philosophy to relationships and my boyfriend is 22. I moved away f...
A. 7 December 2011: Okay an update, And no I except your point me not wanting sex with him was the indicator not the fact I wanted him to sleep with others.
We've broken up I'm not going to pretend we haven't had ex sex (god damn we share a bed!) which has been a l... (read in full...)
I don't want sex with my boyfriend and I don't mind if he finds it elsewhere. Normal?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been in each others lives for 1 year and maybe three months? I say this because I'm not sure exactly when we became a couple. I'm 20 and I have a relaxed philosophy to relationships and my boyfriend is 22. I moved away f...
A. 10 November 2011: Hang on wait don't slate us being open, we've been open when we were very into each other too. That isn't the issue I have no issue with us seeing other people, I have issue that I don't want sex with him now. I always wanted sex with him before. ... (read in full...)
My Guy Friend wants more than friendship but I don't feel the same!
Q. So there's this guy. Who I've known for five years, but really never felt anything toward romantically. He's my best guy friends and has helped me through alot but the thought of dating him, let alone kissing him, or holding his hand creeps me ...
A. 10 November 2011: Be straight up, 'look I want to be friends and I don't want anything more please don't kiss me again, I don't feel I've ever sent out messages to suggest I like you in that way and I really hope our friendship isn't based on you just wanting to ... (read in full...)
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