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writes:I'm a teenager btw...Theres this guy i met almost a year ago, he goes to a different school and lives in a different town.So its hard to commit because there is a bit of distance, but not a huge one. I'm just gonna put it out there..i think i love him... He says he loves me but ive never told him this. The thing is on the phone hes perfect: we talk for hours , thats the guy i fell in love with. But on facebook he totally different , say i say hi to him he just says hi back but doesent even ask how i am, even after i ask him how he is. Before we started phoning each other we used to have conversations on facebook but now he doesnt even say hi. But when i phone him hes amazing and reminds me of the guy i met. I dont know what to do...i dont feel like confronting him, i decided to treat him the same by ingnoring him too...but then out of the blue he sends me songs and romatic messages . I dont know what to do because his friends say he talks about me all the time. Hes honestly not like them other guys because we really connect when we're on the phone...just not online. what can i do?
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reader, Roxypuss +, writes (13 December 2011):
Just stick to the phone then?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou everyone! yea we meet up when we can, every weekend ,and there are weeks when we met up almost everyday! He lives over an hour away , but im not used to such a big distance, so for me thats ages away. Your advice really helped me out! Thanks.
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reader, sparklypurplegirrafes  +, writes (13 December 2011):
seriously dont even worry about him not aswering you on fb especially if u guys are fine on the phone and hes the same guy you know. Also if hes randomly sending u songs and romantic messages theres most likely nothing wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2011): Don't worry about him not chatting to you on facebook, he is calling you which is much better. He is probably chatting with other friends, but when he is on the phone, he is all yours. Don't worry about this it isn't even an issue. I would be more worried if was chatting to you online but not talking to you on the phone. Don't stress over this. Good Luck
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