I want to take revenge on him for making me feel this way!
Q. Hi all, I'm going to make this a brief question,but I really hope you guys can give me some helpful advice. My ex and I broke up last friday night after a bad argument and he sorta lives about an hour away from town. I'm so angry inside because I...
A. 17 February 2011: Revenge will not get you anywhere, actually it's the total opposite. Revenge is like eating a tub of ice-cream when you're upset, sure it makes you feel good whilst you're eating it but afterwards it'll just make you feel shit and guilty. Also, ... (read in full...)
Would have I been better off if I had had a girlfriend years ago? Be honest.
Q. Hi everyone. I'm back. I would appreciate an honest answer to this question. I like feeling sorry for myself and blaming God for everything, but to do that, I need amunition. I need proof that what I'm complaining about is fair enough. I have always ...
A. 17 February 2011: Any relashonship is special and beautiful in it's own way, but as has been said these kind of relashionships can be found at any age at any moment. I don't think you've missed out on anything for not having a relashionship when you were young, you ... (read in full...)
What does this man want from me?? How do I stop caring?
Q. Last year I moved to a new country and met a man whom I really liked and dated for about 4 months. During those 4 months, I had caught him sending 'flirty/sexy' text messages to other women and had confronted him. He apologised but then I found...
A. 17 February 2011: I'm not sure what he's looking for, but it seems as though he "needs" you when it is convinient to him. Also, as Denise32 said, yo are't being to clear on your intentions, and that canonly lead to confusions. If you are no longer interested and want ... (read in full...)
My Bestfriend is flirting with my Boyfriend.....what do I do?
Q. My Friend BH has been flirting with my boy friend a lot lately and I don't feel very comfortable about it. I don't know if he has realized it or not but he is not stopping it and I don't wanna say anything because I don't want him to think I'...
A. 17 February 2011: Obviously you should confront her about it, she is NOT a friend if she's making approaches at yor boyfriend. And you should be able to talk to your boyfriend opely about it, just make the comment, ask if he's realised what's happening or if he ... (read in full...)
Keep feeling guilty or keep hiding what happened?
Q. About a year and a half ago myself and my current boyfriend took some time apart from our relationship due to the fact that I hadn't gotten over my ex boyfriend and bumping into him again had caused old feelings to emerge. During this "time off" and...
A. 27 January 2011: Thanks to all of you for your advice. If it hadn't been for you I wouldn't have been able to do the right thing. He's still a bit touchy but it's normal and as all relationships we'll eventually move on and be back to normal. For now I'm just giving ... (read in full...)
Keep feeling guilty or keep hiding what happened?
Q. About a year and a half ago myself and my current boyfriend took some time apart from our relationship due to the fact that I hadn't gotten over my ex boyfriend and bumping into him again had caused old feelings to emerge. During this "time off" and...
A. 27 January 2011: Well, I told him yesterday.. a lot of tears and anger, but we've been able to talk about it and how we feel about the whole situation and I was very suprised how he took it. He's never shouted at me before and I didn't think this time would be ... (read in full...)
My extremely irritating roommate is getting on my nerves...what do I do?
Q. Last semester I had asked one of my friends to become my roommate for this semester. However, so far it has not been a good start between us even though she believes its all good. I think the problem I have is that our friendship is not really a ...
A. 26 January 2011: You definatly have the right to be annoyed. Do not let people walk over you like that, friend or not she is taking advantage of you and this will not cease unless you put a stop to it yourself. Tell her that this can not be, she can use your stuff ... (read in full...)
Bi-sexual male living in a homophobic area, how do I ask this guy out?
Q. I am bisexual male living in a fairly homophobic area I see openly gay people routinely made fun of, and it outright scares me. I haven't had much luck with girls, and sometimes when there's a guy I fancy, I really want to ask them out, but afraid ...
A. 26 January 2011: I'm sorry about what I'm about to say, seeing as you're porbably not going to like it at all, but you have to learn to be who you are and to accept this even thought others won't. The fear of being bullied is the most terrible thing that someone ... (read in full...)
No closer to getting her back and no idea how to cope with that!
Q. So there's this girl I've known for six years. On and off again we've loved each other and we've "dated" a bunch of times. She lived in a completely different state than I did, so it was childish. Finally, we're in college. It's great, she moves...
A. 26 January 2011: Firstly you have to know why she's so angry and what has happened for her to take this attitude towards your relationship. Maybe your efforts haven't been enough, or maybe the problem is too big to solve. It seems a shame that you can't fix things ... (read in full...)
I broke my best friend's trust! How do I get it back?
Q. i am dating a girl and her sister is my bestfriend . her sister told me about a boy who she is dating and told me not to tell it to my girlfriend .but i had to tell it cause my girlfriend forced me and now i broke my bestfriends trust i cant even ...
A. 26 January 2011: The only thing you can do is try and recuperate her trust. Convince her that you are truly sorry and that you're extremelly upset about what has happened. Sometimes it's hard to forgive but try and insist until she at least talks to you.... (read in full...)
Should I get back together with this guy, despite all the complications?
Q. I don't know whether I should get back together with my boyfriend. Some history: we met in 2006, when I was 17 and he was 20. A mutual friend introduced us. We clicked instantly and a few months later, near my 18th birthday, we started dating. We ...
A. 26 January 2011: YOU SHOULD NEVER EVER EVER get back with him. I'm sorry for being this blunt but i've lived this kind of relationship myself and so has a friend of mine. Luckly I got out of it without getting too shaken in the process, but my friend wasn't as ... (read in full...)
Should I tell her that her fiance cheated on her?
Q. Last summer, I met a guy. Well, we were just friends. We hung out with each a few times. He introduced me to his friends and introduced him to my sister. I thought we were going to begin a relationship. Well, he went home to visit family. A few da...
A. 26 January 2011: I think it's not your territory to tell this girl. What you both did was wrong and I wouldn't forgive something like that ever If I was in HER situation. You should cut this thing off totally before it gets too difficult for both of you. Sorry for ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is not romantic and I feel neglected. What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. He is an extremely unromantic person... I feel neglected by him because of this. What should I do?...
A. 26 January 2011: Maybe you should take the first step and do something romantic for him or for eachother. If you feel that him not being romantic is making you feel neglected you should talk to him about it, but take into account that you can't make people change ... (read in full...)
I have no concrete proof, but I feel he is cheating.......
Q. I dont know where to start. I am married for almost 5 years (in March). Early in our relationship, of all people, our dog groomer kept sending texts to my husband saying she could groom our dog but didnt want money for it (wink wink) then emailed ...
A. 26 January 2011: It may seem at first that what i'm about to say is obvious, but this is something that you need to talk to him about. Putting it as you have here is a perfect way to confront the situation. It seems as though maybe you have distanced yourself from ... (read in full...)
How do I find the inspiration to want a relationship ever?
Q. It's me again. I have been feeling kind of depressed lately and I don't know what to do about it. But my question is...How do I find the inspiration to want a relationship ever? With most people, it comes naturally to want a relationship. Bu...
A. 26 January 2011: Dear Bruce Lee.It will always sound as a cliché, but love is something that comes naturally, you know when you've found someone that you're going to like (same interests etc.). But sometimes you just need to go out with someone you'd never give a ... (read in full...)
Should I consider this a one night stand or what?
Q. background info..I'm in my late 20's and he is in his early 30's. We both have children. I have been talking to this guy I met on and off now for months. On one occasion, we wound up back at his place, but chose to wait to have sex. We have talked o...
A. 26 January 2011: I have to say I agree with the previous answers, that was definatly the rudest thing he could have done. If he hasn't been in contact with you since then, you should consider everything that has been going on between both of you over. The again if ... (read in full...)
Should I go back to my ex? Or wait to see what happens with the new guy?
Q. well i will start saying for my ex boyfriend who were together for 2 months..we broke up and especially he left me because his feelings for me were friendly..but he asked me if i want to stay friends and i found it okay. We were talking on msn for a ...
A. 26 January 2011: First, I think you should figure out what kind of feelings you have towards each guy. The first one seems as though he doesn't know what he wants, and he seems slightly cocky, seeing as he has other girls and can't make a proper decision. Also, any ... (read in full...)
He doesn't come up on any Facebook searches, but he says he has a profile? What is going on?
Q. First off, sorry if this is a stupid question. I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months and a I love him very much. He's a bit older than me and we met when I rear ended him at a red light. Even though it was a not so good situation we hit it ...
A. 26 January 2011: First, no question is a stupid question. Seriously, I wouldn't worry about it. If he says he doesn't use it just try and trust him or ask him, when you're both together, to find himself on facebook for you because you're having difficulties finding ... (read in full...)
Keep feeling guilty or keep hiding what happened?
Q. About a year and a half ago myself and my current boyfriend took some time apart from our relationship due to the fact that I hadn't gotten over my ex boyfriend and bumping into him again had caused old feelings to emerge. During this "time off" and...
A. 26 January 2011: It's been a year and a half since this, but I just keep imagining our future and this lie still in my head.. Thanks to all of you, I think I'm going to tell him when I next can.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend seems to be obsessed with women's bodies.
Q. Hi I have just returned from a day out with my boyfriend of 18 months followed by yet another row. My boyfriend seems to be obsessed with women's bodies. I am slim and considered pretty and he always compliments me and what I wear. I used to have ...
A. 25 January 2011: I understand how It must make you feel, but as has been said It is going to be difficult to work things out if he doesn't want to confront the problem or understand the insecurities his actions cause you. If it keeps happening maybe you should think ... (read in full...)
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