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writes:First off, sorry if this is a stupid question. I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months and a I love him very much. He's a bit older than me and we met when I rear ended him at a red light. Even though it was a not so good situation we hit it off right from the beginning. I wanted to see what he was like so I looked for him on facebook and it looked like he didn't have one. Anyway forward to 6 months later, the other day I wanted to show him something on my facebook so I told him that even though you don't have one you can still search I think and find me. His response was that he does have one, but doesn't go on it anymore. So again I typed his name in and again no results. I'm just confused because I'm friends with his family and they aren't friends with him and he doesn't come up in any searches. Any opinions on this?
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reader, TheFlash07  +, writes (26 January 2011):
 wouldnt worry about it too much, i've noticed that people who don't log on regularly sort of disappear off facebook, and reappear when they log back on. If it means so much to you just ask him to log on and add you. Shouldn't be too hard. Though ofcourse facebook has it's issues now and then, problem could be something else entirely.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (26 January 2011):
 Why didn't you ask him this? He probably just has an account using a different name or something, perhaps a nickname, or perhaps he even disabled the account without remembering it. Just ask him to find his account for you so you can add him, or just say you were curious because you can't find him on there and ask him to show you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2011): I have had this sort of thing happening too. Also, a while ago it wouldn't add people on friend list. I dont know about his case is though.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (26 January 2011):
 Why aren't you two friends on Facebook?
Who knows, maybe he spelled his name differently or is going by a nickname, or he has you blocked? Why don't you ask him to show you his Facebook, then have him add you as a friend? Problem solved.
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reader, RealGirlNextDoor  +, writes (26 January 2011):
First, no question is a stupid question.Seriously, I wouldn't worry about it. If he says he doesn't use it just try and trust him or ask him, when you're both together, to find himself on facebook for you because you're having difficulties finding him. I wouldn't look too into it though becasue he may have a good reason for not having a facebook, maybe he's had a bad experience with an ex or something, maybe he just never uses it and therefore, that would explain why he hasn't added his family and vice versa.Sometimes as women we tend to freak out at the smallest things, try to chill and just add him together.
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