Have a terrible crush on my 40 year old teacher, help,
Q. At first it was a crush, I know, but after a year I feel as if I really love him and it's ruining my life! I can't go anywhere, do anything or talk to anyone without him always being in my head. I'm 16 and he's 40, but I don't even see that. I ...
A. 7 June 2010: Its going to take time to move one. your underage, so nothing can happen, wait until you are 18 and see how you feel then.. if you need anything else let me know. ... (read in full...)
I'm 21, he's 37, is this something I should try?
Q. im twenty one and attracted to a thirty seven year old man. we have known eachother for seven months and the atrraction has grown stronger since then. at first i wasnt really in to him mainly because of the age but now we seem to talk about ...
A. 7 May 2010: I think you should for for it, you only have experience to gain. send me a PM if you need more help ... (read in full...)
I am 17 and attracted to older men
Q. Ok, I'm a 17 year old girl, soon to be 18, and I tend to find myself attracted to men in their late 20s and early 30s. My whole life I've been told if I date a man so much older, then when I get into a relationship with a man my own age, it will ...
A. 21 March 2010: Its very normal for you to feel this way. You are going to be 18 and you will be able to see older men if you chose to do so. Are you feeling guilty? or ? you are going to be an adult. PM if need anything... (read in full...)
Should I stay for the sake of my son and miss out on an opportunity to be married and happy?
Q. my boyfriend is 53 and I 21 have been together for 2 years and we have a son together, he is a very mean person, he never shows me any affection and and when i try to confont him about it he says wait and see which is funny because its been this ...
A. 19 March 2010: Why not give happiness a chance. Take a break from your bf. and see what else you have outy there. Give it a chance. PM if you need to vent. ... (read in full...)
I really need some help with my insecurities and depression, what steps can I take?
Q. I'm 26 and am in a relationship with a lovely guy, aged 27, and have been for almost 18 months. I suffer with severe depression and anxiety. I'm on anti depressants, (Sertraline), and I'm receiving counselling. I've been quite open over my feelings ...
A. 16 March 2010: It sounds to me like you have some big issues that go far and beyond your currecnt situation. You need to get it out of your system and change your thinking process. You can read a book called dont sweat teh small stuff and its all small. thats a ... (read in full...)
I want my son's father back
Q. My son's father and I broke up before I had my son and we never got back together after that. He's a great father yes we had our ups and downs but over all his a good dad. We don't live under the same roof but he's always by me or I'm over there. ...
A. 15 March 2010: First of all you shouldnt be having sex with someone in which you are no longer in a commited relationship period. You know why? becuase things like this happen. 2nd of all you need to tell him i am interested in a relationship, just ask him. Its ... (read in full...)
Terrified of my future, I feel lost!
Q. I don't want to go into detail because this is the internet and nothing is private. But I'm really worried about my future. I'm terrified that I'm not capable and that I'll never be a successful person or have a career. I'm worried that I j...
A. 15 March 2010: It sounds to me like you have issues way above and beyond this. These issues that you have presnted here are Symptons of something bigger. You need to look deep. Gerenally speaking people should be happy with what they have and wht they are doing. ... (read in full...)
What is up with all of this???
Q. A couple of weeks ago, I went to visit an associate of mine. She had a possible health problem and I wanted to make sure she was okay. When I got to her house, this tall, handsome guy walks out and introduces himself as her son. I asked for her ...
A. 15 March 2010: Sounds like he went by the Book...talked you into sex thats all he wanted. Bottom Line...SEX is what he was looking for. ... (read in full...)
Why do I keep thinking about my coach?
Q. It’s almost been a year now that I first met my coach I would soon grow to admire and still do to this day. Here’s my (long) recap: Before tryouts, I had no clue what to expect from him, but I’d heard that he’s pretty fun to be around, etc. (He’s a ...
A. 11 March 2010: any updates on what ended up happening? ... (read in full...)
I'm (almost) straight and married but I've developed a crush on my female boss. What now?
Q. Over the last few months I've developed a crush on my boss. (we are both women, she's straight and married. i practically straight and married.) And, I'm finding myself really obessing about her. Can't stop thinking...it feels like it's all i ...
A. 11 March 2010: Dont listen to the posted who said to Focus on GOD that is just NUTS! you have feelings. ... (read in full...)
Obsessed with a married man
Q. dear cupid i am 13 years old and there is a 29 year old that i am absolutely obsessed with. but he has no idea. he is married and has 2 kids, but i cant stop thinking of him and my "obsession" has begun to control my life. I need help before t...
A. 11 March 2010: Well Penny is rght, this does happen, however action in this situation can he tricky. You are very young and most would agree that you shouldnt take any action here. ... (read in full...)
Had sex with my step brother then he got mad when he found out I was a virgin!
Q. Ok I am not here so people can say rude things I am just need a little advice form OPEN MINDED people. My step brother is 10 yrs older then me. (We have the same dad). I am 18 and he is 28. He recently moved back home because him and his gf broke up...
A. 11 March 2010: Maybe he feels guilty about it, he may not have wanted to be the first one. Who knows, ask him. ... (read in full...)
Does masturbating affect my sex life?
Q. Does masturbating effect my actual sex life??? I'm 15 and i started masturbating approx. 1 yr ago... ...
A. 9 March 2010: I dont see why it would. ... (read in full...)
I'm worried that my husband likes a woman at work
Q. Im worried that my husband likes a women at work. he drives a truck at a company and she works in the office, he always says that the girls are fat and unattractive because I do ask who works in the office and if any of those girls talk to him and ...
A. 3 March 2010: It seems you have issues with yourself more then anything. I am sure he's attracted to her, but did he cheat on your with her? Odds are He hasnt. You need to deal with your issues. If you dont they will haunt you in the next relationship. ... (read in full...)
Is it right for us to settle down or should we wait?
Q. i am with this boy for five years and we are planning to get married and have a baby...do you think that its right for us to settle down????? or do you think we should wait...
A. 3 March 2010: Theres no question you should wait. The Fact that your are even having doubts about this is a sign you are not ready for this yet. There is no rush. Remeber you may feel differently 1 2 or 3 years from now. Let me know if i can help you. ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on my basketball coach!
Q. Okay well, im on the girls basketball team and theres a problem. My coach is young and the cutest guy ever. He's like a father figure to all of us, hes the nicest guy there is.. Whenever were hungry he tells us to stop by his room no matter when and ...
A. 3 March 2010: Its natural for that top happen, and you may like him because you may look up him like a father figure. Do you have issues with your father?... (read in full...)
Is my husband being unfair or not?
Q. Well i have a problem. My husband is behaving like a naughty boy in front of the people he works for. So i ask him why is he trying to be someone he is not? He says he is just enjoying himself. But then he gets out of hand. I never knew him like ...
A. 1 March 2010: It sounds lik he has some unresolved issues that he needs to take care of with help from a psycholgist. You are aware that he is abusing you. ... (read in full...)
I gave him an handjob recently, is it normal to feel like I did something wrong?
Q. Okayyy. Well Im 15 and Im with this guy that I love soo much! We have been together for over 4 months(May not seem like long but were so close) and he is the one. I cant tell(Again, may seem like Im too young to know but I know). I just recently ...
A. 1 March 2010: Its normal you will better about this as times passes by. Dont stress or worry about this too much it will pass... (read in full...)
Is this really love I feel, or comfort?
Q. okay, this is unnusual. im inlove with my schools resource officer. we spend a lot of time together. im comfy around him and can tell him anything. when he looks at me i get this feeling thts to hard to explain. when i come around the corner and i ...
A. 1 March 2010:
Hi, how are you? Well i think it may have something to do with the sad situation that you had to deal with when you were much younger. I have seen situations where woman you are abused date older or are attracted to older men for the reason that... (read in full...)
I look much younger than my age. Will it affect my dating life?
Q. Hi, I just wanted to know people's opinions on whether looking younger than your actual age puts men off. I am 22 but I keep being told I look about 18. I have had two serious relationships in the past, both with guys a couple years older t...
A. 1 March 2010: I think you maybe over thinking this one to be honest. I am sure it really means nothing and they are not intending to make you feel bad. You should be happy you are sweet young looking, you can be so many other negative things. ... (read in full...)
What should I do about my feelings for this older man that works at my school?
Q. okay this is going to sound crazy but im 16 about to be 17 and im in love with a 30 year old. and trust me when i say that is not the worst part. he works at my school so i see him every day. he is the first person to give me that gut feeling your ...
A. 26 February 2010: There are so many issues here i think you need to deal with each of them Individually. The first one is your Molestion, that may have something to do with your attraction to older men. Now, to your quetion about this older guy, there isnt much you ... (read in full...)
I want to keep my virginity until I am married, but my current boyfriend wants to get intimate. How do I deal with this?
Q. I recently started getting "serious" with a guy I like and we are pretty happy, except I'm really nervous about one thing: sex. I'm still a virgin and no, this is not my 1st relationship-the problem is that my last one ended because the guy was ...
A. 26 February 2010: Stay true to your self, make sure he knows that you are NOT going to have sex until you get married. If he Doesnt like that then HE is NOT the ONE for you. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend ignored me for a couple of days and then contacted me.. what's going on?
Q. Hiya I have been going out with my bf for 4 years now and it feels like lately he is not interested. When we are together we are fine and he is really lovely to me but when he goes home to his mothers he ignore me for a couple of days and then rings ...
A. 17 February 2010: Why not just ask him? ... (read in full...)
She's been with some of my friends and it's bothering me! How can I move on from this?
Q. I have found the woman of my dreams...unfortunately she found my friends first. Before my girlfriend and I got together she had hooked up with several people close to my everyday life. Joe* my roommate(who is in my fraternity), Mike* my downstairs ...
A. 17 February 2010: I Dont know that you will ever be at peace with this. You had prior info before going into this the situation right? its one of thoes things you are going to have to over come. If you cant over come this, then you are going to have to move one. Is ... (read in full...)
Why is it that women, more often than men, still have "friendships" with their ex boyfriends?
Q. Hello all. I need some point of views from the ladies to really understand my girlfriend. We are constantly at each others throats...Here is the topic and I want to get everyone's point of view on the matter. Why is it that women, more often than ...
A. 17 February 2010: Women are more emotinally attached ... (read in full...)
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