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Is there any hope he and I will date again?

Q.   Well, my boyfriend broke up with me three days ago and whenever I look at him my eyes tear up and I just can't be around him. We still talk but I just can't be just friends with him. I still love him so much, I need to know if there is any hope that ...

A.   10 November 2009: i suspect your still young by seeing your profile age (13 - 15) Your still young, i dont no how long you were toogether or anything, but this is going to happe so many more times. :( I know it hurts, I was seeing a guy for 6 months i put so mu... (read in full...)

Can't figure out whether I like this guy or not?

Q.   Theres this guy that goes to my college, i see him around sometimes. well about once and we said hi. We've been speaking on msn for like 5 months though, and we are always chatting and getting on well. He flirts sometimes, not lots but a little :...

A.   20 October 2009: hes acting really flirty now though and i feel really mean becuase im obvlisey not feeling it as much as him. Ive never had a boyfriend only people that have messed me around, and i dont want to let a nice guy slip past. But i had so much chemsitr... (read in full...)

Should I tell my mom I went through a phase where I watched porn, just incase she finds out?

Q.   Right big problem! im 17, 18 at the start of next year. I used to watch porn ALOT! i went threw a big phase , was totally addicted. I fele so dirty about it now, becuase i feel liek its a man thing, even though i know other women do it. Iv...

A.   8 August 2009: thankyou, i guess i am nearly 18. Same my mum has regelious views, and would be digusted. Im also religious which makes it worse but i changed what i was doing so its ok. I guess il just be embrassed if she finds out, but thanks, im normal. and ... (read in full...)

Should I tell my mom I went through a phase where I watched porn, just incase she finds out?

Q.   Right big problem! im 17, 18 at the start of next year. I used to watch porn ALOT! i went threw a big phase , was totally addicted. I fele so dirty about it now, becuase i feel liek its a man thing, even though i know other women do it. Iv...

A.   8 August 2009: my mums mate is so noisey and saracastic, he deffintley will tell her, i know what hes like :( aw im so stressed, i cant stop worrying.... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin but want to be FWB with this guy... anyone got any tips on what to do?

Q.   I have fallen for a guy who just wants friends with benefits, we have only kissed at the moment but he wants more, I am quite happy because I like him my problem is that I am a virgin and he is the only person I have kissed, he doesn't know this and ...

A.   8 August 2009: You'll be very vulnerable losing your virginity to this guy, trust me. my plan was to wait for someone special, didnt happen. Ended up sleeping with my best friend when we was drunk. Be true with yourself do you really like him? Because if you... (read in full...)

Does watching gay porn make me gay?

Q.   hi, i am 14, and a male, and i am straight, but sometimes when im watching porn i like to go to gay porn and watch it and when doing so i fantasize about my male best friend and i like it alot and it turns me on more than women do, but when ive ...

A.   7 August 2009: i have lots of gay friends, and they all said around 13/14 .. well basically when they started watching porn they knew automically they liked guys and straight porn didnt really much for them. I have a bi friend who likes both equally and ive neve... (read in full...)

Should I make my move? I am very shy!

Q.   I started working two weeks ago at a research lab in a university. There I work with a variety of people (post docs, graduate students, undergrads, etc). There is a grad student that I like a lot. We both stare at each other everytime we have a ...

A.   7 August 2009: why else would he be looking at you :)? ive made so many mistakes in life, not taking risks and missed out on great reltionships and nice guys. I say get in there ...ever thought he maybe shy too? How would you feel if he eneded up getting a gir... (read in full...)

Should I make my move? I am very shy!

Q.   I started working two weeks ago at a research lab in a university. There I work with a variety of people (post docs, graduate students, undergrads, etc). There is a grad student that I like a lot. We both stare at each other everytime we have a ...

A.   7 August 2009: why else would he be looking at you :)? ive made so many mistakes in life, not taking risks and missed out on great reltionships and nice guys. I say get in there ...ever thought he maybe shy too? How would you feel if he eneded up getting a gir... (read in full...)

How to get a straight answer from a guy?

Q.   Ive slept with this guy a couple of times, and its been really great and we get on so well. but i dont know if its just me hes sleeping with or ..i just dont know? (btw its long to explain but hes your typical guy that doesnt make much effort t...

A.   13 May 2009: aw thankyou so much. I totally agree with you :)... (read in full...)

Is this guy worth chasing?

Q.   theres this guy i like, weve kissed and he fingered me at my party last weekend. (which he surpsingly came to) Weve been speaking online and texting for the past 3/4 months and bumped into each other at the bus stop about 4 times. Also we went to ...

A.   11 April 2009: thankyou, it helped alot. Infact ive just brought an online copy of 'Hes just not that into you' book. Im so inspired, I should be upset that he doesnt like me, but im strangley happy, think its becuase ive been stressing for the past 3 month... (read in full...)

I'll do anything to get him back

Q.   i am 14 and there is this kid a year older then me and we use to txt alot and flirt non stop. then he asked me to hug him the next day at school so i said yeah...but before we hugged he txtd and said im gonna ask u a question after we hug (ask me ...

A.   10 April 2009: Thi all sounds abit, .. Your really young. and i think this guy is after one thing. He sounds VERYYY immature, its unreal. Just forget him, dont say sorry anymore. Hes not a friend, hes scum. If he wanted you to go round, hes after one thing. A... (read in full...)

I need ideas... What can I do to show her that I really do love her?

Q.   Can someone please help me? My girlfriend says that I don't love her but I do and she said she'll forgive me if I show that I cared abt her.. how can I show her that I care? I really need help, I'm a clueless person and this is my first ...

A.   4 March 2009: Is she insecure? Tell her you love her for no reason. Think about it, do you honestly show her you care in ever yway possible? Maybe you do. I think you need to do something off the scale to prove to her that you love her. Take her for a posh ... (read in full...)

26 year old virgin needs help!

Q.   I'm a 26 year old male... and I'm a virgin. Not only have I not had sex, I've only kissed a girl once. I've never had a girlfriend. I'm the guy that always got caught up with liking girls that just want to be "friends." But, I was a moron and just ...

A.   4 March 2009: oh my gosh, i just want to hug you :( no seriously youve put tears in my eyes. This was me a few years ago, im younger than you but i was in depression and i had no confidence and just sat in crying everynight, harming myself :( I got out of m... (read in full...)

How do I tell him I just want to be friends but nothing more than that?

Q.   There is this guy that I am almost sure likes me, I have no interest in him besides friendship. Right now I'm sensing that he will tell me that he likes me or to be his girlfriend, I don't know how to tell someone you still wanna be friends and ...

A.   4 March 2009: its not good to lead people on, ive had it done to be the.. i just see you as a friend at the moment maybe something could happen one day but im not looking for a reltionship right now. no no no scrap that. You have to be straight. say... (read in full...)

He seems to be ignoring me online... how can I get him to come back and chat with me?

Q.   I'm an IDIOT! I'm really not sure how to handle this situation, so I really need help! I've been trying to flirt up this one guy that I just so happen to find extremely hot and amazing and all this other crap and then I go on MySpace and find out he ...

A.   4 March 2009: would you mind answering my question please, im in a bit of a pickle too :(... (read in full...)

He seems to be ignoring me online... how can I get him to come back and chat with me?

Q.   I'm an IDIOT! I'm really not sure how to handle this situation, so I really need help! I've been trying to flirt up this one guy that I just so happen to find extremely hot and amazing and all this other crap and then I go on MySpace and find out he ...

A.   4 March 2009: opps bad move :( ermm what did you say to him, was you really foward like 'your fit, i want you!' lol erm i really dont know, its pretty messed up now. Do you see him in real life or have mutal friends? maybe you could try and be around him , ... (read in full...)

I would love to have sex with her but I don't want to lose my virginity just yet.

Q.   Hi aunts, I need some advice. I have a girlfriend and I absolutely adore her, she feels the same way about me, and I'll never do anything to pressure her or hurt her. See I'm a pretty nice guy (14), really sensitive and caring, I'm not like those ...

A.   4 March 2009: 14 is a bit too young to be honest. How long have you been together? and is this your first reltionship, because everyone gets all 'in love' in the start of a reltionship. I say atleast wait til your both 15 or 16. I wouldnt make a move to h... (read in full...)

How to get over bumping into my first love, and am I back at square one?

Q.   Ive just bumped into my first love in town. Im so upset :( We didnt end on good or bad terms, i cant be bothered to go into it , its complicated. But hes never been mean to me or anything. so its not like i can even hate him for hurting me. ...

A.   4 March 2009: wow thankyou, that answer was really supportive and deatiled. Me and him are speaking again now, he added me on facebook and i just like quickly pressed appect. i dont know why. But we spoke for a while and its ok ,it feels sort of wierd, it hurts... (read in full...)

He hasn't replied, should I start looking elsewhere?

Q.   Basically went on the first date, Couldn't of gone any better, We chatted for 2.5hrs then we walked for a bit and found a place to sit there we kissed for 2.5 hrs, Then i walked her to her car holding hands, Text her on Monday to see what she is ...

A.   26 February 2009: thats quite strange. i say ring her, or text her again just saying 'hey how are you? i text you on thursday, i dont know if you revicied it, it would be nice to see you again but i suggest ringing her, if she doesnt pick up , and then doesnt cal... (read in full...)

Can you get the spark back between you & a crush?

Q.   Theres this guy who ive known for about a month, ive bumped into him twice and we got along really well. We speak on facebook and text and weve been speaking so much, flirting, he mentioned going to the cinema with me. etc etc. Just obvisley ...

A.   14 February 2009: Thankyou, yee im going to tell him straight. x... (read in full...)

What to do about the mixed signals

Q.   I like a guy from my bus stop, he didnt used to notice me, but i realised he was on my facebook since he went to my old school in the year above .. and weve been speaking quite alot. He does seem intrested and i cant be bothered to write out cut...

A.   12 February 2009: Thanks for answering, things are going ok .. up to now. Im texting him tommoro to see if he wants to hang out. So its either gonna end ith :) smiles. or just disspointment and stuf :(... (read in full...)

Why doesn't he ever text first, does he even like me?

Q.   Ive met this guy recentley. long story cut short, i dont see him often, and we dont have any mutal friends. Ive been speaking to him online for like the past 3/4 weeks and ive spoke to him in real life 2 times. The last time we spoke we got on ...

A.   12 February 2009: hey thanks for all the answers Yeh we spoke on the internet and i ensured he wanted to go to the cinema. and he said yes course but yesterdau the converstation was a little dry and he didnt seem flirty with me, so im abit worried but im ... (read in full...)

He's a hottie and I want to know him

Q.   i cant stop thinking about this guy. Hes so fit lol, and seems really nice. Well i see him at my bus stop sometimes, not all the time ive seen him about 5/6 times when im waiting to catch the bus to college (we go different colleges though)...

A.   28 January 2009:  weve been chatting quite alot and we bumped into each other again last week and spoke while riding the bus to our colleges. He flirts with me on facebook and does seem interested but other times like just a minute ago , he doesnt speak to me,... (read in full...)

I'm 17 and a virgin! Is this a bad thing?

Q.   right im 17 i have only done sexual things once! and so ye im a virgin!! do you think this is kinda sad as im 17! and most people my age are sleeping around! i was to lose my virginty its just in scared and have no idea what im doing lol advice ...

A.   10 December 2008: Im 17 and im a virgin all my friends are sleeping around and i have one friend which is a virgin but she wants to lose it the next oppurnity she gets. I think different.. Im going to wait until i find that AMAZING boy that i love and he loves me ... (read in full...)

I'm not sure that I want to break up with him yet, I'm still thinking about it but I need your advice on what to do??

Q.   hello. me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 months. and i guess it's been pretty serious. in the past, i've been in many relationships, that were almost pointless. but my boyfriend and i are really close. i've never been like this ...

A.   24 August 2008: would you say theres like no spark/chemistry? Where you get home and hes all you can think about, and you have butterflies and you when you touch its like O wow :D! ? Because im in the same sitution and we could help each other? or do you just fe... (read in full...)

I met a perfect guy, and he's nice, but there's no spark.

Q.   I was talking to this boy on myspace, we both liked each other so we met up. Hes PERFECT, good looking, great personality, same interests. and i had a great time. Although there is no spark!! Ive met him like 4 times since then and still no chemisty...

A.   24 August 2008: i kind of want to kiss him to see if there is a spark , what do you think :( ?... (read in full...)

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