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writes:Well, my boyfriend broke up with me three days ago and whenever I look at him my eyes tear up and I just can't be around him. We still talk but I just can't be just friends with him. I still love him so much, I need to know if there is any hope that we could get back together, and if not how can I get over him?
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reader, redriversweety +, writes (10 November 2009):
 i have been put in that place before. what i did was talk to him and asked if he wanted to go back out and ask if he said loved me. and he said "yes" to both now we are still together. hope it works for you.
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reader, PrincessSmithee  +, writes (10 November 2009):
 i suspect your still young by seeing your profile age (13 - 15) Your still young, i dont no how long you were toogether or anything, but this is going to happe so many more times.:(I know it hurts, I was seeing a guy for 6 months i put so much effort into trying to get him to like me more, i slept with him and he never spoke to me again. ..and he lives round the corner. Then a few motnhs later when we made up and try to be friends i seen him in town with another girl and he didnt even say hello to me.The best advice i can say is it takes time, but we all recover from the worst heartbreaks, last christmas i got basically dumped by my first love and i was crying all day. Now christmas is in 2 months and im totally over it, its hard to belive :DErm but yeah, you cant be friends with someone you still love, i stopped being friends witht hat guy and you have to do it to or you'l never move on. If he dumped you and is happy being friends he isnt goign to want to get back with you. How will you feel being friends and he gets a new girlfriend or something? its not worth it. BREAK CONTACTT!! its hard but its the only , try to aviod places he'l be. it will get better in time, ive sat on dearcupid before crying my eyes out over my ex but im fine now , and so will you be :Domg essay, but hope it helps
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reader, dazey  +, writes (10 November 2009):
I was absolutely heartbroken when my ex left me in March (especially since he still lived in my room but that's another story... :)). I cried, pleaded and argued about why we should stay together but he was very stubborn. I had "got over" him to some extent by August but still had a soft spot for him. For some reason my mind blocked out a lot of the negative stuff we experienced together, for example he even beat me once but for ages I refused to feel anything than the powerful sense of love, lust and loss.Now, 8 months later I actually feel really very silly about even wanting him in the first place, and can see him in light of the bad stuff, which makes me want him less.So I suppose what I'm saying to you is that however intense it is now, time will help. But, be sure that you want your ex because he's good for you, and not because right now you can't have him. If you can hear a tiny niggling voice reminding you why he wasn't perfect then LISTEN TO IT :) But if not, then good luck with moving on. I do believe that if you pull your socks up and really feel happy again your ex will notice that you don't NEED him to be complete, and that is a very attractive quality. Good luck x
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