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writes:There is this guy that I am almost sure likes me, I have no interest in him besides friendship. Right now I'm sensing that he will tell me that he likes me or to be his girlfriend, I don't know how to tell someone you still wanna be friends and nothing more without hurting his feelings and ruining the friendship? Reply to this Question
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reader, kaylagal +, writes (4 March 2009):
 If a guy wants more and you just want to be friends you have to be brutally honest. If you try to be nice, he'll stick around with false hope and that always end up horrible. Just be straight up and tell him you like him just as a friend, nothing else.
I used to use the I'm not ready right now, and that blew up a couple of times. Now, I tell a guy straight up, "like you just as a friend, nothing more" and sometimes I even tell a guy I'm not attracted to you, that does it.
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (4 March 2009):
 just let it down on him nicely...and tell him you just wnat to be friends and jsu tdont feel that way
but make sure he doesn't get offended and hurt, because it really hurts to be rejected by the one you love
gudd luck, it'll be alright
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reader, PrincessSmithee  +, writes (4 March 2009):
 its not good to lead people on, ive had it done to be the..
i just see you as a friend at the moment
maybe something could happen one day but im not looking for a reltionship right now.
no no no
scrap that.
You have to be straight.
say
aww i dont really see you like that hunnie :(
or i only like you as a friend :( i really dont wanna hurt you though
i think it would be weird being more than friends, so i dont really wanna go past friendship.
see my point, you have to make yourself look sweet.
Its not your fault remember that if you dont have eelings for some , you dont have them, thats that
if hes a friend, he will remain friends with you.
and if he finds it too hard, he will have to have some space and be friends after when hes over you.
and if hes like 'oh ok' then just carry on like you normally speak to him.
if he gets angry, just leave it for a while if hes a friend he will appect it sooner or later.
and if hes sad, just tell him 'i didnt want to upset you :( your lovley and stuff i just dont really see you more than a friend, i hope we can still be friends :( '
will you answer my question please, im in a pickle :(
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